Rhinelander v. Rhinelander

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The episodes out now search for and follow the Long Game wherever you get your podcasts. This episode contains content that may not be suitable for everyone, please use discretion. How did Leonard Ryanlander and Alice Jones meet? They had a meet-cute, they had the 1920s version of a meet-cute. He was driving on a road near her house and had car trouble.

And actually I should say it was a meet-cute once removed because he actually met her sister Grace first.

It was September of 1921.

“Grace Jones struck up a conversation with Leonard and his friends.”

Next day, Leonard met her older sister Alice. And from then on, they were as inseparable as they could be. Righto and producer, Laura Wexler. Alice was fiery, she was funny, she loved music, Leonard loved music too, and they really, as they sort of corded each other, really bonded over music and film.

Leonard and Alice would go to the movies together and like to take long drives.

When they met, Alice was 22, Leonard was 18. Leonard had grown up in a very wealthy family, the Ryanlanders. They were people who had come over from Europe to New Amsterdam and helped to settle and establish the town of New Rochelle, which actually is where Leonard and Alice met and where she lived. So, his family had, you know, from the 1600s, when they got here, had bought land, built ships really expanded and grown their wealth until, you know, at the point at which Leonard and Alice meet, the Ryanlander family is second only to theasters as owners of New York City real estate.

So, everybody knew who the Ryanlanders were, they were sort of the closest thing to American aristocracy. Leonard was the youngest child of Philip and Adelaide Ryanlander. When he was 13, his mother died in an accident. An alcohol lamp she was using to curl her hair, exploded. Growing up, Leonard was known to be extremely shy. They also had a stutter.

At the time, stuttering was seen to be a mental issue. And so, even though he was part of the elite, he was not one of, you know, the shining stars of the family. At the time that Leonard met Alice, he was enrolled in a school that served as an inpatient clinic for people suffering from nervous disorders. He's kind of hidden away from the family and society. And it feels like it's kind of a last-ditch effort to try to cure him of this stutter and make him into a son that the father would be proud of.

And what about Alice's family? Alice's family were immigrants. Her parents came over from England in 1891. So, the Ryanlanders had already been here for more than 200 years. And Alice's parents, George and Elizabeth Jones, had both been servants on an English estate.

Her father was a coachman and her mother was a cook.

Alice and her sisters eventually went to work as maids. So, they were very much working class.

“In December of 1921, Alice and Leonard drove into New York City where they were going to see a play.”

They ended up getting a room at the Hotel Marie Antoinette, where Leonard registered them as a husband and wife, named Mr. and Mrs. James Smith. They stayed there for five days. The next month, they went back to the hotel. It's pretty clear that the show for the family show for her.

Let's Philip Rheinland or Leonard's father know that Leonard and Alice have taken a room at the Hotel Marie Antoinette. And are having basically a love-fest there. So, acting on this tip, Philip Rheinlander sends his lawyer to the Hotel Marie Antoinette.

“He bangs on the door and discovers them and then immediately separates them.”

Philip Rheinlander sent his son away. Leonard went on long trips to Cuba, Bermuda and San Francisco. His father even enrolled him at a ranch school in Arizona. They worried about Leonard being with a woman who was a maid. Philip Rheinlander's brother, about 30, 40 years before, had married a house maid.

And he had been excommunicated from the family and had died poor and sick.

And, you know, never was invited back into the family.

And in fact, was buried outside the family muscle EM.

“So, Philip Rheinlander and away was following the family rules.”

This was their playbook. But Alice and Leonard kept writing to each other. Over the next two years, they wrote 700 letters. Maybe even more back and forth to each other. When Leonard turned 21 in 1924, he inherited more than $300,000 from his grandfather.

He immediately got on a train to New Rochelle back to Alice. He sort of went rogue when immediately to Alice's house before he even, you know, saw any member of his family. And they reunited. A few months later, Alice and Leonard got married in New Rochelle. And not only does his father not know but her parents, or at least her father, they don't know that they're going to get married either until after it's done.

Before they were married, Alice's father had told Leonard that he didn't think he should propose. George Jones basically says to Leonard,

"This marriage can never work because the class difference is too great.

You can't span this class difference between you, you know, of the aristocracy and Alice who is of English working people." So, his reservations about the marriage had everything to do with class, which had everything to do with how he understood society from his years in England. Still, once they were married, Alice's parents let them move in with them while they were busy setting up their new apartment. They bought dishes, they bought linens and all of that was like, it was very, you know, romantic and whole sum.

You know, as romantic as this was, Leonard was living a double life. Even though they were married, he still didn't want his father to know that he had married Alice. And so, Monday through Friday, he was living at his father's house and working in the family real estate company. And after work on the weekdays, he would come out and eat dinner with Alice and her family and go back. And then on the weekends, he would come and he would live with them.

They were planning to tell his father that they were married by having a party once their apartment got set up. And so, even as Leonard was prepared to be excommunicated, there was also this hope that once his father saw how happy he was, that the father and the family would welcome them.

But they never got a chance to have the party because the news leaked to the newspapers.

The headline read, "Blue blood, what's colored girl?" And from there, the newspapers say she's the daughter of a black man. "Reporters wrote that George Jones, Alice's father, was called a colored coachman, who was quote, generally believed here to have West Indian blood in his veins." Alice's skin was described in the papers as quote, "Coffee colored." So, it's not only the rich poor Cinderella angle, but it's the, you know, black and blue blood, you know, contrast.

“When the news breaks and the newspapers are publishing these headlines, how does the couple react initially?”

Initially, they both deny it. They say that they're going to sue the newspapers for printing lies. Alice told one reporter, "I'm going to sue the papers that have called my father colored. I'm going to file suit for libel." One paper said that Leonard urged his wife to answer questions calmly to quote, "Help clear things up."

News paper started printing stories about their marriage every day. Leonard and Alice went into hiding at her parents' house in New Rochelle. It's just, you know, crowds of onlookers, crowds of press. The police are called to kind of prevent people from getting too close to the house. You know, someone throws a rock through the window. So, after a week, they're really looking to escape.

Leonard Ryanlander's father had issued a statement that his son had married without his knowledge. Behind the scenes, of course, this is their worst nightmare. He had been worried that Leonard had been found with a woman far below his social status and took extreme measures, exiling Leonard from New York for two years because of that now. You know, this is orders of magnitude worse.

You know, there's a threat that, you know, this bloodline of the Ryanlanders that they've protected and had been so proud of for 200 years is going to be, you know, contaminated.

“That's how they see it, contaminated by non-white blood.”

And this is, this is horrific to them.

The 1920s, this is the height of the clan. They have 4 million members, they're absolutely a mainstream organization.

And this is the height of the American eugenics movement. The Ryanlander family sent a lawyer to Alice's parents' house, who said he could help the couple relocate. Somehow he convinces them that the best way to do this is for him to take Leonard separately and go look for a place and then return for Alice the next day and take her to him. So that's the plan. He takes Leonard, they drive off in a limousine and that is the last time that Alice sees Leonard until she sees him in court a year later.

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“And then, about a week after Leonard left, the Ryan Lander's lawyer came to the house again.”

Not to take Alice to meet Leonard so they can continue their married life, but to serve her with legal papers indicating that he is suing her for a moment,

charging that she committed racial fraud by pretending to be a white woman when in fact she was not.

That same day, a messenger delivered a letter from Leonard. It said, "I hope you will win this case. Get the best lawyer." Both of Alice's parents had been born in England. Her father George didn't know much about his father, but described him as being a quote "native of one of the British colonies." Alice's father George had brown skin. In Alice and her family is understanding, they are not black.

To them, the term black means African-American. It means an American black person. They are English. And Alice, again and again and her family, again and again, is, say, "You know, my father is English. He has dark skin because his father was from an English colony, probably India." But he's English and his mother was white, so we don't identify with being black Negro or colored. That was how they had lived their lives. That, of course, was not the view of most Americans at the time, which was if you have dark skin, your black, your Negro or your colored, depending on sometimes those terms had slightly different definitions.

Sometimes they didn't, but she has to be either black or white. Really, that's just how the American racial understanding went. So she's stuck in this racial binary as soon as this news comes out. In 1924, interracial marriage was illegal in more than half of the states. But it was illegal in New York where Alice and Leonard had gotten married.

What that means for the Rhinelander family is that getting Leonard out of this marriage is not going to be as simple as it would have been say in Virginia or Georgia, where if, you know, he had been able to show proof that Alice wasn't white automatically. The marriage would have been invalidated. So they're in this tricky position here in New York, which is interracial marriage is illegal. And divorce is very hard to get.

“Like divorce, I think until the 70s in New York was only allowable in cases of adultery.”

So he wasn't going to be able to get a divorce. There was no way he was going to prove that Alice had, you know, been adulterous to him. So a moment is really his only legal option. And the other benefit of a moment is that it, you know, it erases the marriage completely.

It would disappear the marriage and Alice completely.

“In order to get an enolment, the Rhinelanders would have to prove that Alice had defrauded Leonard by leading him to believe she was white when she wasn't.”

Her defense says she is white, so she didn't commit fraud, therefore the marriage should stand. The enolment trial began in November of 1925 in White Plains, New York. Newspapers reported that Mrs. Rhinelander has repeatedly declared her faith in Leonard, and as steadfastly refused huge sums of money,

said to have been offered to her by the Rhinelander clan in lieu of her husband.

Leonard's lawyer, Isaac Mills, began by describing his client as a quote, "week utterly unsophisticated young man," upon whom Mills said, no woman had ever smiled until he encountered Alice Jones.

“He said Leonard suffered from an illness that, quote, affects both his speech and his mind.”

Leonard's lawyer claimed that Alice had told Leonard before they were married, that she was white. One in fact, quote, "she was colored and of colored blood."

The main piece of evidence that his lawyers present at trial is that on her birth certificate, Alice had been marked as black.

Even though on the census, many years the family was listed as white, and Alice was listed as white, and even though when she and Leonard got married, at the New Rochelle City Hall, she was identified as white by the clerk.

“The fact that she had been identified as black on her birth certificate carried a lot of weight.”

When it was time for Alice's lawyer, Lee Parsons Davis, to present his opening statements, he did something that took everyone by surprise. He stands up during his opening statement, and he says, "We are going to concede that Alice Rhinelander has colored blood. Our defense will be that Leonard knew, and that therefore there was no fraud." Alice's lawyer told the court that Leonard Rhinelander had spent lots of time with Alice's family at her house, including with her father. He said that Leonard's lawyer should not have claimed that Leonard was, quote, "mentally unsound," but instead blind.

When he asserted the young man was deceived about Alice's color. What happens once this concession is made is that the focus of the trial moves off of Alice and on to Leonard. So his lawyer needs to show that Leonard truly believed she was white, so he didn't know. And the reason he didn't know was, "A," he was mentally backward, as he said. And B, Alice, through her, you know, according to him, the serious ways had B-witched Leonard to the point where, as he says during trial, Leonard could no longer tell black from white.

Against Leonard's wishes, his lawyers had taken letters that Alice had written to him and submitted them as evidence to be read aloud in court. In some ways, the letters were very conventional romantic expressions of two young people who had fallen in love and were being kept apart. So they were remembering the good times they had. They were pledging their loyalty and their care for each other. One letter said, "Len, I'm true to you. A nice little chap came here the other day and wanted a date, but I refused because I have one boy I love a lot. You always take care of your Alice. But there are also letters that are meant to be embarrassing."

Yes, in their letters, they were called in great detail the intimacy that they shared in their stolen days and weeks at the hotel, Marie and Tuenat, and they depict her in the most negative light possible.

And that really violated the norms of womenhood at the time. I mean, we are in the ruling 20s, but most people are not flappers. Most people are still kind of Victorian at this time.

And so these letters absolutely destroyed her reputation as a good woman, so to speak. And then when her lawyer, when he cross exams, Leonard, he basically threatens him by showing Leonard a letter that Leonard had written to Alice, having Leonard read it silently,

“and then saying, Leonard, are you sure you want to go on with this trial?”

Alice is lawyer, so that if the Rhinelanders would drop the Annulment suit, he wouldn't read Leonard's two most explicit letters in court. The trial was passed for several days while the Rhinelanders lawyers considered what to do. Many people are betting that this is the Rhinelander family is going to drop the suit rather than have these letters read in court, because whatever it is, has got to be so damaging.

And then court reconvenes and Leonard's lawyer says, "We go on with a trial, no matter what."

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You can save up to 50% off with code "criminal" at groans.co. That's code "criminal" at gruns.co. On November 23, 1925, Alice Ryanlander's lawyer, Lee Parsons Davis, prepared to read to so-called mystery letters from Leonard Ryanlander, allowed in court. But before he reads them in court, the judge clears the courtroom of women,

and young people, and at that point they had constituted the majority of these overflow crowds that had been coming to the trial every day, and man, these women do not want to leave the courtroom. They are there for this, and someone will have to be dragged out. Some of them have their clothes ripped in the process, like it's a circus. So they get all the women out, they close and lock the doors, and suddenly the courtroom is so much more quiet,

And Davis reads these letters aloud, and in the letters, Leonard has recalled to Alice,

“intimate experiences that they had together in which he performed oral sex on her.”

And just as she talked with pleasure about their intimacy together, he does too. And after the lawyer finishes reading those letters, Leonard is absolutely destroyed. His reputation, oral sex was a crime at the time.

I don't think that many people were prosecuted for it, but it definitely wasn't considered normal.

And in fact, everything about the letters earns Leonard the label of deviant.

“What was Leonard's reaction? The lawyer, her lawyer, goes him by saying, "Didn't you know this was deviant?"”

"Didn't you know this was wrong? This wasn't normal." And Leonard refuses to take the bait. He stands his ground and says, "No, this was how we loved each other." And I wrote these things because it was a way of maintaining my connection to Alice and to being true to her. And I gave my word to being true, and I was true, and I'm proud of that.

The same day that the two letters were read, Alice's lawyer made another announcement. In the final moments of his cross-examination of Leonard, after he's read these damaging letters, he says, "I want to have the courtroom cleared because I'm going to bring in Mrs. Rylender and have her show the color of her skin to the jury." Leonard's lawyer objected saying it was indecent. He was overruled. And what ends up happening is that the jurors who are 12 white men, the lawyers, the judge, the courts denogger for an Alice and her mother, and yes Leonard, go into the jury room.

And she goes into the bathroom that adjoins the jury room. She takes off her clothing, puts her coat on, and walks out into the middle of the jury room.

First, she lifts her coat so that the jurors can inspect her leg up to the thigh.

And then she lets her coat fall from her shoulders, revealing her shoulders and her upper back and her chest so that they can inspect those regions of her body as well. And this is in her lawyer's mind, the strongest evidence that he can present that Leonard had to have known that she had colored blood. Newspapers reported that Alice, quote, "became hysterical after leaving the jury room." Alice's lawyer questioned Leonard on the stand. He asked if Alice's skin was the same color as it had been when they'd been together at the hotel Marie Antoinette.

Leonard said yes. Essentially, he says to the jury, "Now you've seen what Leonard saw, how could he not have known."

“Did Alice agree to this, did she know that this was going to happen?”

She did agree to it. One reporter noted that it had taken several days for Davis and his assistant lawyer to convince her. My strong suspicion is that it was a sacrifice that she made in order to defend the marriage. Even after all these days and weeks of being essentially tortured and destroyed in this trial, she still believes that love will conquer all and that if she can win the case,

But in his closing arguments, Alice's lawyer said to the jury, "We are not going by our verdict to compel Leonard Rheinlander to live with Alice Rheinlander. You are only called here to decide whether at this juncture, these two should be separated on the ground of fraud."

“He added, "There is not a chance under heaven for these two human beings being brought together again. They could never live together after what has happened in this courtroom."”

The jury deliberated for 12 hours. From the start, ten of them are in favor of voting for Alice, so ten of them want to clear her of fraud and they want to uphold the marriage. Then one juror who had been for Leonard changed his mind. One reporter wrote that persons outside the jury room heard loud argument and the banging of fists on tables.

“The last remaining juror holds out hour after hour. People thought that this verdict would be decided pretty quickly, but it's getting up around 10 hours, 11 hours.”

Everyone in the courtroom essentially goes home except the jury and they're still there leading to the night. Finally, they emerge from the jury room with a verdict that's put in a safe until it's revealed the next morning. In court the next day, the judge read the verdict aloud. Alice had won. Her marriage to Leonard would not be an old. The jurors, several of them later said, "If we voted according to our hearts, we would have voted for Leonard. We don't believe in interracial marriage, but given the evidence we saw, we don't believe that he was defrauded."

The black newspapers were really surprised and hailed it as one of the great moments in justice for black people in America.

Racists thought it was a travesty and said about trying to get legislation passed that would outlaw interracial marriage in states that had never had anti missegenation laws.

In an interview immediately after the trial, Alice was asked by a reporter, "Do you still love your husband?" She hesitated and then said, "I do and I don't." Someone said, "It was a beautiful love affair." And she said, "It certainly was." Leonard did end up getting it a divorce. Yes, after several years when the peels were over, he moved to Nevada and he was hiding out there under a pseudonym as he had for the two years since the trial. He his family had for a bade him from using the Rhine land, her name, he built himself a shack in the woods near Reno and set up residency.

“This was the thing people did, especially in New York, since it was hard to get a divorce. They would move to Nevada. I think it took just a couple months to get legal residency and then you could get a divorce.”

When Alice finally agreed to the divorce, she received a settlement, a lump sum of $31,000 and $3,600 annually.

And she promised that she would never use the Rhine land or name again.

In 1936, six years after their divorce, Leonard Rhine land or died of pneumonia, he had reconciled with his father and was living with him when he died. Did Alice comment on his death? She immediately said he didn't die of pneumonia, he died of a broken heart. Still believing that he truly loved her.

She told reporters, "Why didn't they leave us alone? We were so happy together. We loved each other. I love him. I'm never going to love anybody else. I'm never going to marry anybody else."

Years before her death, she had purchased her own headstone. And the name she put on it was Alice J. Rhine Lender.

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