Protect & Serve: From Counterterrorism to Anti-Trafficking with Jeff Tiegs

We have an unparalleled force of leadership, a true time. Whose career spans over 25 years of relentless service, and counterterrorism, and elite special operations.

He is a guy who is going to blow your mind with some of the most amazing stories,

but most importantly, talking about faith and purpose. Please join me in welcoming the outrageous, the courageous, the truly unstoppable, my guy, Mr. Jeff Teeze. You are listening to McUnplugd, hosted by the one and only McHunt. This is where purpose meets power and story-spark transformation.

McTakes you beyond the motivation and into meaning, helping you discover your because and becoming unstoppable. I'm Rudy Rush, and trust me, you're in the right place. Let's get Unplugd. How are you doing today, brother?

Thanks, Mick. I don't think I've ever been called a Titan, which I'll take it. I'm kind of short.

You know, I mean, people are always when they meet me in person.

“I think they're slightly disappointed, but I will say, I'll use this, you know.”

No, no, Mick, Mick said I'm a Titan, so take that. Yeah. Hey, it's on film, and it's on record. So it has to be true, right? Let the record show.

Thanks for having me really excited for this discussion. I think that, I mean, there is never a bad time to talk about leadership and purpose and passion, but I think today, and what's happening in America is probably as good as ever. I couldn't agree with you more, man, and, you know, Jeff,

I like to start my show by asking my guest one simple question. And that question is what is your be cause? What is your purpose?

“What is that thing in Jeff today that's deeper than your why?”

They really fuse your passion. So Jeff, what is your be cause? Great question, and I'm, and I'm glad to be able to answer it. I, I sum up my be cause is simply I am a protector. I came to, I came to terms with that years ago, and really work,

where I really started to come in terms with it, was questioning why I was sacrificing so much of my time with my family, even my health, with, with these wars, that became obvious to us, that we weren't going to win those wars. We weren't going to win a rock, we weren't going to win Afghanistan,

you know, there was, there just wasn't that national will. Was it something I wanted to continue to pursue, and was it something I was willing to put my life on the line for? And, and, and, and, and, and in that soul searching, and even going back into my time in my childhood, and, and I, and I write about some of these things,

and it's things that I, I like this age, where you know, things have calmed down, that is ambitious, there are certain, there's plenty of stuff in the rear-view mirror, there's plenty of water under the bridge, and I'm able to look back, and, and I realized a few

“years back, I'm, I'm going to say maybe 2010-ish, I'm a protector, that's what I do, that's who I am,”

that's what I do, and I will die trying. There's a, a bunch of different words came into that of Guardian, a fighter, a commando, those are all kind of aspects that sit under that protector, but that's, that's who I am, that's what got put me on this planet to do, and, I see my roles in that continuing until the day I, I move on to the next step, next phase of things. I, wholeheartedly, believe that, and I see that, and, you know, being a huge fan of yours,

and, and studying your works, I mean, that truly is what you're about, man. Like, your journey from an 18-year old first range of Italian, right, to Lieutenant Colonel in Delta Force is extraordinary, was there a moment that you realized that that was your purpose, like being that protector was there a pivotal moment that stands out to you?

It, it does, and again, I, I don't want the listeners to misunderstand that I always recognize

this or there was nobility in any of this. I was a young man who was hungry for adventure, and hungry for challenge, and wanted to be part of the best, you know, fighting forces that I could find, and there, this, this, this, this wasn't pure, you know, I mean, like I look back on it, and, and God, God's guidance, there was a purity in there that I didn't understand, you know, and so what I would say is as, as we around 2005 to 2007, we, we lost a lot of guys.

Those are some tough years for special operations in Iraq, lost some friends, lost some guys. My, my boys are old enough now to recognize that I'm going into harm's way. I could just feel the strain of it everywhere, you know, and I, I very distinctly remember looking for people who had discussed this either in story, in documentary, in film,

gone through this and how they navigated it, and I couldn't really find anybody that did it,

did it well. So I did come across this book and the author, her name is Maria Coffee, and I, I'm sorry,

“it's, I think it's, it's in the shadow of the mountain or the mountain cast its shadow. It's one,”

it's one of those two titles. I can't remember specifically, but him, she was the fiance of an high-altitude alpenist and her fiance died in high mountains, which you have a much more likelihood of dying as a high-altitude alpenist than even you do as a, as a, as a commando in the military, you know, like it, it, it is a very, very dangerous job. So when she lost her fiance, she wrote this book through her grieving process, and she was questioning, who is he?

And how did he love the mountains more than he loved his family? And then introspectively, who was she that she loved this man, who she knew, was was putting this pursuit of things in front of her and in front of her family, and she came to the realization that that was his identity. He was a high-altitude mountaineer. That's who he was. And that part of that is what attracted her to him. That was exciting, and it was unique, and it certainly, you know, there was

never a boring moment, and even in those times of of of a volatility of a relationship like that,

it was something that she sought. And she willingly, she didn't know at a time, but as she retrospectively looked at it, she was willing to lose him. She was willing to tie herself and bind herself to this man, who had this other calling and this other passion. And I, I recommend this to people who are looking for passion and purpose. It really solidified what I was seeking in my own life, and it was that identity. And then, you know, I kind of started with commando,

right? Because a high-altitude, the alpenist is exciting. A commando is exciting. I don't, an assaulter. I don't know what kind of term. And I, and I live for those. But that felt a little but now, right? Like it really wasn't that fight that I was living for, even though it was a lot of what my drive was. I just love the fight. It really was working with my mates. It really was defending these people that needed to be defended. So I arrived at this idea of our protector.

And quite honestly, make that there was inflection points in my career where I was thinking about getting out. And I thought, no, one more, one more time. Let me share one other story with you. That, to this day, it's still a weird one. I was going through this reflection. And I, I think it's probably based on my faith. You know, I was born and raised as a, as a Christian,

“who references the Bible. If you, if you want to know about who you are and where you come from,”

that's the book, right? Those are the stories. So I always, that was always of the bedrock

of what I looked at, but I was always looking for other people's stories. And I remember one year. And this, this story doesn't make any sense because it's, you know, you're, you're old enough to or like this doesn't make any sense of memory wise. Like I remember being in Colorado when this happened. And I remember, I remember all these pieces. And I don't, I can't, if I was in a court of law, I would be, I would, none of this would make sense. They'd pick me apart.

But how I remember it, okay, is I woke up one night. And I was still pondering this of like, hey, is this time, my wife has had some health issues. Again, I, I felt like I wasn't giving my boys enough of what they deserved as a father. And I, and I, and I went downstairs and I flipped on the channel and Charlie Rose was on who I used to love. I used to love Charlie Rose and that oakwood table. And just the, the diversity of the different people that he would have and what

the questions that he would take them through. And there was this beautiful ballerina. And she was

“sitting on a cross from Charlie. And she was, I think she was maybe close to 40 or something like that.”

And she was just talking about dance. And Charlie was talking to her about, you know, how this as she evolved and she moved through dance. Why, why is she still in it? Why, why hasn't she moved on? You know, a 40 year old, there's no such thing as a 40 year old ballerina, right? You know, at least at the levels that she had attained. And she said, Charlie, I realized that I lived this very unique life. I was given all of this opportunity. I was trained by the best. I worked with

the best. And I, and I, and I'm in a small audience of people that just understands the potential of dance. And make that landed with me. Where again, you take out high-level high-aldred alponice, you take out ballerina, and you put in some special operations soldier. I had been selected and trained with the best in the world. I had seen angles of warfare that other people only touch upon or barely understand the things that you see in movies, the

every, everything that you imagine of warfare, and then everything around it. And I realized

“I've been given much and much is expected. I understand the potential of war. And I, and I think”

that's going to strike a lot of people as an odd statement, but war is such a valid option to make huge changes in the world and to make life better for people. We just haven't been using it that way of late. So the, the potential of warfare kept me in for a while because of this ballerina, again, I've, I've gone back and I've tried to find that episode with Charlie Rose, and I think

I've found it. I think I recognized the ballerina, but she never says what I'm telling you, she says,

you know, so I don't know if it was cut out or whatever it was, but those two points in time are getting through the long answer to one single question. Those two points in time are stand out in my mind where I began to understand myself and who I was and who my passion purpose was and what it would take for the people that chose to love me or even sons who didn't choose to be around me. We, we brought my wife and I brought them into this world. They were forced

to be with me. What it was that they would have to endure. And then obviously, when it was time

to retire, I was, I couldn't get this idea out of my mind that I'm a protector. I was also fearful

that I would lose my identity, and which brought me into the corner sex trafficking space. I wanted to be around the men and women that I had spent most of my life with, the talent, the drive, the passion, offer them something new, something that's relatively safe. We don't need to go to the furthest corners of danger in the world to affect change and protect people. People need our help right here in the United States, and when I started to look internal, again, I felt

a little bit guilty that I had been working so hard to fix things in areas of the world that really didn't want our help. And so much had fallen away with exploitation and abuse and all these other things that we confront on a daily basis now with the corner sex trafficking. That is actually where I wanted to go next. So it says if we rehearse this and you gave me the perfect segue slash lay up to ask you a question. So you know, you've gone from or you transition

from counterterrorism operations to leading skull games, which is the organization that you were just referencing. Talk to us about not the mission of why you started skull games, because I get that,

“and I think we understand that. But talk to us more about what the average everyday person doesn't”

recognize with human trafficking in the United States and what skulls, skull games is doing to

to disrupt and create war there. So let me first answer a question you didn't ask,

and then get to the one that you did ask. So this is this is a logical extension of this idea that A, I'm a protector and B, much has been given, right? Like I just understand the enemy. You know, there's one of the one of my favorite quotes of all time is from Sunsu where he says, "If you understand yourself and you understand your enemy, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles of a thousand battles, however it is." And it's pithy, and you'll see this above, you know, executives, you know, all offices in their desks, you know,

what I mean, but it's loaded, knowing yourself is very, very difficult. And then even knowing yourself as you change in the adapt, I am, I am the same guy, I was when I was 15 years old, but I'm also not. So knowing yourself is a constant pursuit, knowing your enemy

“is something that I think I excelled on in the military. I knew Al Qaeda, I knew ISIS.”

I knew my enemy, I knew what, how they thought, I knew how they fought, I knew what they were going to do. And it allows you to insert yourself into their game and win. So my hypothesis, as I was beginning to transition out of the military, was, hey, are these things that I've learned studying just bad people? It's particularly terrorists and surgeons, but again, when you talk about a terrorist and an insurgent, it's all wrapped up in everything. They're kidnappers,

they're exploiters, they're human traffickers, they're drug traffickers, they're weapon traffickers. You know, there's all sorts of it. There's media amends that run all these things. So there's aspects of crime that I think has a, has a constant to it. So I thought, I've spent the better part

beating them at their own game. How much of that is transferable into a trafficker or a pimple? The

first thing was a pimple. There's a lot out there about pimples. What is pimping? There's books

“out there. How to, how to, how to be a pimple? You know, how to, how to be a successful pimple?”

So the first question was, are pimping in trafficking the same? Are pimps and traffickers the same? Answer is yes. Evil people do evil things and there's patterns and processes that they use. So as I thought, maybe 45, 60% of what I'd learned in the military would be applicable towards this crime category. It's a, it's a, it's a 100%. So that was again just an extension of this recognition of what you poured into me as an American citizen. What you expected me to excel at, you spent a

lot of time in energy developing me as a, as a, a special operation soldier and it's still my

requirement and duty to give back. So that's that kind of book end on that one going back to what you're saying. I don't think people fully appreciate how vast and deep the level of evil is in the United States. And the, the thing that's fascinating to me about trafficking or this sexual exploitation is it's based upon innate qualities. So, you know, when we go through life, I, I like to, I,

“I like to point out to the Mazel's hierarchy of needs, you know, or first you have, you have to have”

security, you have to feel safe, you have to have a place to eat, you have to have a place to sleep. But then we're all very rapidly once those are, are provided and there are people that are still in that space, but we look for love and we're looking for self-esteem and even as you progress into your teen years, that's where we're at. There's a vulnerability there because you are beginning to separate yourself from your parents. Otherwise, we'd all still live in the basement, right?

There's a, there's a, there's a built-in tension with, with parents. There's a built-in identity in independence that comes with maturation, you know, in adolescence, and there's that pursuit to find somebody else who provides you that self-worth and provides you that self-esteem and starts to show you love. That's design, that's, that's, that's, that's the, our, our bio, our bio mechanical design, you know what I mean? That's the way humans are built and it's a

beautiful thing. But in all of that is space for exploitation and the way that these guys wait to manipulate. It's, it's fascinating to watch. They're incredibly good at it.

There's a million ways. I can liken it, you know, in one of the ways I like it because it's very,

very simplified is, I live here in, in Oregon and I run the trails and there are homelines out there all the time. I don't see them. They're out there and they don't let themselves be seen. And when they are seen, it's because they have identified something that was vulnerable, something that they think they could attack. You know, a lion on the Savannah, when the lion attacks a herd of pick and animal and a loathe. He doesn't go for the leader. He doesn't even

go for the mid back. He identifies the weakness. He can smell it. He can sense it. And we all have weaknesses. We all have vulnerabilities. And sometimes it's passing. Sometimes it's a season. You know, it's a season of depression. It's a season of alcohol abuse. It's a season of confusion. Sometimes those windows open and close. But these predators are remarkable at identifying

“when that season is ripe and what lovers they need to pull. So I think folks, they don't need to be”

afraid. And there is no magic panesia on how to keep them out of your house. They're in your house. If your children are on social media, they're there. They're on all the kids' games. You know, they're they're already they're talking with your children. It's very hard to stop. The more difficult thing is building a level of self-confidence and helping your children feel and understand and recognize that they're seen and heard and valued and they don't have to look

at that from an external point of view. I'd like to say that a believer who trusts God and believes in Jesus has that built in. Yeah. But we know it isn't that simple. It's not a magic pill. We still go through these seasons of doubt and vulnerability. So again, this again, a very long answer to a very simple question. Parents, caregivers, teachers, they need to understand and recognize

to build hedges around these kids when they're vulnerable. Where they get to that point where they're beyond. And the the prime hunting areas are 13, 14, 15 years old. You know, that's that's when these kids are being are almost at their most vulnerable or they're they're they're most malleable. Once a young person is 19, 20, 21, 22, it becomes less and less likely that these predators are going to be able to warm their way in and be successful. So again, there really is only a 10-year period

“13 to 23, 12 to 22, whatever it is, where I think parents and caregivers need to be hyper-aware”

that the risks are high. Hmm. You know, and Jeff, that's making me think a little bit because you said, you know, if your kids are on social media, the predators are there or the enemy is there, if they're on apps and games, the enemy is there. And I know one of the things that school games is leading the mark on is innovation and technology. Can you talk to us about how school games are using technology to to help do the job and the roles that you all do to impact that space?

Yes, thank you. So one thing I'd like to just bind when we talk about because this crime is huge, right? And what we just talked about is 100% across a board. Every single human has vulnerability. You have it. I have it. Every adult has it. Every child has it. So we just need to be a little bit more safe where people can talk about those. Most of the time when I talk about sex

“trafficking, that's what I spend most of my time on is we need to be able to have a safe space where”

we can talk about what's troubling us. We can talk about what our vulnerabilities are, you know? So that aside, that's the giant iceberg, right? So what school games does very, very specifically is we hunt escort ads to identify who the girls are, they're being sold and who the traffickers are that are selling those girls. So it's, I mean, I can't even tell you how big the iceberg is under the water. It's, it's just a tiny piece, but it will keep us busy until we all retire

again, you know? So what I mean by that is a lot of things have to happen under the surface that we don't see initially. What we see is a woman or a girl. Again, there are boys and men that are being sold. It isn't, it isn't a huge market, right? There's a bell curve and we are we're hunting the center of the bell curve. What is, what is the product that is most likely being sold? Who is the most likely profile of the buyer? That's where we hunt majority of our time.

So there's a human being, usually a woman or a young girl, for sale online. It's an escort site. They're accessible all over the world. I say this very often. It's as easy as ordering the pizza. You go to that escort site. You type in your city that you're at, the town that you're at,

where you want this girl delivered. It's basically a drop down menu of what it is you're looking

for. Do I want a blonde? Do I want a brinette? Do I want this? Do I want that? And now you reach out and you communicate to this victim. Now this victim is not who you're communicating with. That's the fantasy. You see a picture of a girl. You communicate to her. You start negotiating a

“price. You start negotiating a sex act. You think that's, you're already getting excited, right?”

This is, you know, these are two Americans. This is a woman selling her body. I'm a man who wants to rent her body. God bless America. You know, they don't realize there's the in between. There's the pimps. There's the tractor. He's who you're speaking with. So that's where we start. And on these escortsites, there are millions and millions of acts. So if we were going to work

in any city, the first thing we do is we look at the current ads that are happening in that city.

And then we look for indicators of trafficking, not just prostitution. So again, I, I say, we're a counter sex trafficking organization. We're not counter prostitution. I'm against prostitution, but it's such a vast problem. We're looking for the worst of the worst. So if a girl is for sale online, there are certain indicators, emojis. The way the photos are taken. Different indicators in the ad.

Very, very simple things where you start running the phone number. You start running the email address. Because this has to be a contact, right? This isn't anonymous. This is, this is an exchange.

So there's always a start point. Now sometimes that start point is a phone number. That's a,

indicators. So the first thing we'll do is look at an escort site and we will bin.

It looks like indicators trafficking indicators are trafficking. So let's say we look at 300 cases in the city, 300 ads in the city, maybe only 50 of them will have indicators of trafficking. Right? So those are the 50 that we focus on. It's kind of like triage, even as I tell you this. It's sad to me because it's kind of like triage on the battlefield. Those other 250 women were just lean that we were leaving them land on the battlefield bleeding. But those 50 that we have,

we have evidence that can lead to probable cause, that a cop can now take action. So we don't,

“you know, that. So that's how we omit immediately do it. Are there, are there other evidence”

of trafficking? And then the real magic to what we do is open source intelligence. So start with that ad, which is public. It's, it's an ad for a girl. And once you start dipping behind that ad, you start running technology and tools on recognition of the photo, maybe the room, the phone number, anything that you can't syntax of the way that ad is written. There's all sorts of complexity in, in building a case to figure out who's running this girl. Who's the person of interest?

That's controlling this victim. And we have various levels of confirmation. You know, one of the easiest ones for us, Mick is here's a girl. She's ad to prioritize for sale. Here's her phone number. She says she gives you the cash out number to, you know, how you, how you can pay her, you run that cash out number and it comes up to some dude. Well, that's an easy one.

Right. You're paying this woman to have sex, but the money is going to a third party. You know,

“so that's, that's an easy thread to start to unravel, right? So that's what we're trying to look for.”

If it's a voice over right here, there's a level of complexity. That's where it comes to the talents of our ocent pool, our task force, who are some of the best in the world, at continuing through this analytical process, both instinctively and intuitively, and then the, and then the tech and the data that we, that we have access to to just find mistakes. And as you build out that case, what we're trying to figure out is the profile of that person of interest. And again, you look

that guy up and he's, he's been arrested three times for a pinpin or there's a warrant out for his arrest or he's got domestic and he's charges that are already against him. Some of those are really easy cases. And those are the ones that get prioritized with the cops. They're able to go in, they're able to arrest that guy, they're able to offer this woman a path to freedom. So there are times where we stop at the POI, depending on what what it is we're looking at. But most often, we continue to

scour social media and find this story of this girl. And it's absolutely heartbreaking because you will see a young woman. And she's on the cheerleading team or she's in the band or she, she rides horses or whatever it is she does. And you see her happy. And then she gets troubled. And then she starts to evolve. And you see her body change. You see her language change. You see her becomes sexualized. And those things are really hard to recognize and understand what's happening because

many of us are on that journey. We experiment with our sexuality, we we experiment with our identity and we come out of it on the other side. But there are oftentimes where this goes back to where we first discussed, that's where that lion in the Savannah sees an opening. And it's heartbreaking to see these healthy young girls now end up where they are being sold and abused and raped. And I wish people would recognize it. We call them prostitutes. We call them escorts. They're rape victims.

“They're being forced to have sex with men against their will. And I think another piece that”

people don't recognize and understand is what that lever is that the traffickers use is something of high value, relational value to that other girl. So a pimple have a stable of five to six girls. That's that's by design. It's diversifies his product. So we can have different different girls, size shapes, colors, whatever, do different things. He can control it. It's enough of his locus of control, five or six girls. But most importantly, he builds a family with these girls.

He builds a relationship. They call each other sister wives. They call him daddy. So he builds this relationship where they're they're they're they're codependent on each other. You're the sister I

never had. You're the daddy I never had. However it works. So now when one of these girls is compelled

he can be one of those other girls. So yes, there's a physical exploitation against the women, which most most people get hardened to, right? If you hit me enough, again, there's plenty of people that are listening who have undergone child abuse and at some point, you just become in your to it. But now they start hating something you love, a brother, a sister. So that is really the control that they have. That stable is very, very important to the control that the trafficker has.

More often than not also, they have children with the victim. Because that's another lever that

they can hold. I always ask them, "What would you do to protect your daughter? What would you do to

protect your baby son?" And the answer is pretty much anything. And that is what the trafficker is

“counting on. So there is an insidious level of this crime that I think would surprise people if they”

wanted to really understand it. But it's also an economy. We describe ourselves as countering commercial sex trafficking. Yeah, you know, on that in your home, I don't see what's happening with abuse. If there are closed systems where girls and children are getting passed around, it's very hard for us to see. Once it hits that commercial level, we're often running. Amazing. You know, Jeff, we need, I'm going to call them heroes like you and your team

to to make an impact here. We really do. And that leads me to, you know, part of the

reason we're going to talk today. And I wanted to give you the floor before we got to the book. Just so that the audience knows who Jeff Tee is, right? And the things that you've done,

“you have an amazing book. And when we talk about heroes, you get me with the title of the book.”

Like the men and I saw the title. I was like, oh, God, I got to read this. So where have all the heroes gone? So I, I see the book and then I get into the book. And I was like, wow, this is why when I open, I call Jeff, one of the best storytellers you've ever. Oh, thanks come to know, because you blend battlefield stories with biblical narrative and narration, better than anything I've ever seen. So this is like true kudos to you, which made this book like

something that you can read from beginning to end. And then also go back and take, take chapters, take, take moments of chapters and apply them to your leadership, to your purpose. So, you know, Jeff, with this book, where have all the heroes gone? I walk us through the purpose of you saying, I'm going to write a book about this. And this is how I'm going to tell you stories. So I had the opportunity to be assigned to Jerusalem Israel back in 2013, 2014. And that brought my

faith life to another level. And man, I, I, I, I, I want to encourage anyone out there, if they haven't been to Israel, they, they need to experience it. So there's an old monk out there, a name that's Basil Picksner, who used to say, walking Israel is like having access to a fifth gospel. You know, it ties things together. So once again, I had, I, I lived there on and off for close to two years. And I was able to walk these places, this terrain that I've read about,

you know, and, and it's there. It's all right there. Some of it is a little bit, uh, in accurate, some of it is incredibly accurate. So once again, as I walked this terrain, I felt a responsibility to share what it is that I had experienced or witnessed or studied.

“So it really started out as this book about, I think I started the name of, uh,”

there's always more of the story. So it was a, it was an homage to, um,

Paul Harvey. Remember Paul Harvey? Now, you know, rest of the story. I used to love that as a kid. You know, I used to love it. And we just put up brilliant storyteller. So it was an homage to Paul Harvey of, you know, there's always more of the story. So you've got the Bible story, but then with the soldiers perspective on it, there was, there was more that would, that would come to life. So it really started as this, you know, exposition about the things that I had studied,

the things that I had learned, looking at them through a soldier's eyes. And then interestingly, I went to a workshop, a writing workshop. And one of the guys in my, in my, on my table, his name was Tim. And he was an atheist. He was a, he was a, a devout, a devout atheist, you know, but he was very, he was very kind and he was very open. And we were all talking about our ideas on books. And Tim said, he said, Hey, man, I'm going to discount your book right out of hand,

but you know what interests me is you. I'm sitting across this table and I'm talking to you.

And I'd be interested to hear how, what you're talking about, you've applied to your life. You know, so I, this pivot in my, in the book, I, I owe to an, an atheist who explained to me, very clearly, I, I want to hear you. I want to hear where you're not just talking the talk, but where you've applied these things to your life. So the, the book that you that we have now really became a new version of these biblical stories, the more the story of that biblical story,

“which I think is fascinating enough itself. And then almost a memoir or testimony of how, how”

I apply those things through different hardships in my life. And then it continued to evolve,

making it become almost, it became almost cathartic to be able to share some of these things.

You know, and it's, it's a, it's a tough line, because deservedly so much of what we do in special ops, and it, you know, especially in Delta Force, it, it's not meant to be shared, right? So it's, it's, it's this fine line between sharing enough of the intent and the meaning behind the story with, with the detail that keeps it interesting. So, um, it became this, what it is today. And, and, and, um, once I really recognized that I was writing this book to my

two sons, you know, the, the avatar was my two sons Aaron and Jonah. You know, they were both in

“their early 20s at the time, believers, lovers of God, lovers of Jesus, but a little bit bored,”

you know, they lived in Israel with us, you know, they walked the land and Western Christianity has its own style and its own flavor, you know, for good, good and bad. And I was just trying to, um, encourage and inspire young men to just take, take another look, take, take another look that's a little bit adventurous on, on what God is, is trying to tell us. Um, and again, to, to give way, uh, the story, where are all the heroes gone? They're right here. They're everywhere.

My, my sons are heroes to me. My wife, everyone, you know, I'm, I'm the hero by the standards that we talk about. I was a soldier and I did this and I have these awards, but my wife and my two sons are absolute heroes. And it's because they just get up every day and they do what they do with honesty and integrity. Um, so we're often looking for heroes in the wrong place because you can run fast or you can jump high or you can punch someone really hard in the face, doesn't necessarily

make you a hero. If you can be heroic, but I wish we were telling more stories of these heroes among us. And lastly, that every person on this planet and I speak, you know, very more intentionally to young men, but this includes women. You when you look in that mirror, there's, there's a hero there wanting to come out. Everybody has the potentiality to be your hero. But it doesn't have to be running into a burning building. It comes with commitment. It comes with integrity. It comes with

selfless service. All these things that so many people are doing. And I'll finally roll that in what we have at school games with our task force. The men and women that work on our task force, they're all heroes to me. I mean, they just are selfless in their commitment to helping a young

woman that they will likely never meet. You know, they will never encounter her. They will

and that they, they most likely will never really see the justice that that trafficker deserves

“because it's such a long flash to bang. So the heroes are among us. I think we need to”

recognize them more. And then again, there's one inside of you trying to get out. Jeff. Well, that was a mic drop right there. No, I don't even need to summarize that or act to it. I mean, you're exactly right. There's a hero waiting to come out of all of us. Jeff, where can people get this book? So it's it's on Amazon. Where the where of all the heroes gone, a pilgrimage through the Bible, the battlefield and back home again. So again, that little

piece after after the main title sums up what it is. I really appreciate. So it's it's on Amazon. I, my website, website, JeffTeges book.com or JeffTeges book.com. You can find it there as well. I really appreciate what you what you had to say about about that book. And it was it was a huge experiment, right? Like I, I know what I like. I know what keeps me reading. And I was really concerned that it would jump around too much and people would get lost. And I was like, I'm just going to go

intentional. I was hoping it would grab people's attention. My boys read it. And I have the fight back

here as I talk about this. And in both my boys, they just know me better. And they know why I was gone. You know, a three year old boy, a four year old boy, they don't, they don't know why, again, this goes back to that question we were talking about. Why does dad choose to leave us over and over and over? Are we not important to him? Right. You know, does he not, I don't, you know, again, these aren't, these aren't things that are heavy on my son's minds. They're incredibly

healthy young men, but of course, it's just natural. And there is a level of closure there and recognition and understanding on what I was doing, why I was doing it, why it was important. And why even though they hadn't volunteered to be part of it, they were. And I'm appreciative of it. So I'm working on a whole new series. I've got a book at the editor. So it's a very, very similar style of where I've all the heroes gone. I don't have a title for it. Right now with it, I'm calling it

words, create worlds, um, Eden. So I'm going to talk about Eden and Sinai and Galilee and Jerusalem. And the premise is that there are 10 words that God has been, has been using, um, to inspire, create, guide us that is just a constant through time. And I, I guess I'll share the, I guess I'll

“share the premise. I'll share the premise with you because, um, I think I loaded a lot into that”

first book. You know, so as I've been writing this second one, I came to this conclusion just a few

months ago. Oh, hey, man, these are four different books. Just say, say this in this book, say this in this book, you know, and my, the hypothesis or the thought experiment that I have in this, in this second book, um, that hopefully is coming out in the next couple of months, um, is the 10 words that God used at creation, and what were our roles in responsibility. So, um, one of the big ones that I say that I, that I ask people is what was the first sin? So when you know the, when you know the

the garden story, what was what actually was the first sin? What do you think? And there's no right or wrong answer. This is just a thought experiment. I mean, I would go to what everyone thinks, right, when when Dodson don't bite the apple. Yep. Yeah. So disobedience. Right. You know, so it, people have a lot of people, people talk about pride, pride is definitely a sin. Uh, doubt. I don't think doubt is a sin. You know, again, we could, we could, we could, again, these are these

“are good for intellectual discussions. I believe Jesus had doubts, right? Jesus didn't have”

pride. Jesus had doubts. Disobedience? No question. So then, but then up here, my, here's my next question, make, where was Adam when Eve was talking to the serpent and took a bite out of that apple? Where was Adam? I don't know. He was standing right next door. So this is, this is like my

first book that you read. You, you've read that a hundred times, but it just, there's only so much

we, we process, right? No, it says you, when we finish this discussion, you'll go back and you'll look at Genesis and you'll, and you'll be, Adam was right next to her. So this thought experiment that I'm creating here for folks for young men to ponder is, I believe the first sin was Adam's apathy. I believe the first sin was Adam, not protecting his wife. She was the crown jewel of creation. When God created woman, he was like, nailed it. We're done for it. It creates life. She is the partner,

the helper of Adam and his one job is to protect her and he failed. So we're pointing all the way back again, even if this, even if someone believes this is myth, find, there's a reason we have myth, there's a reason we have legend and that story is telling us something that resonates

“almost stronger today than it ever has. Men, who are you protecting? Who are you living for?”

We all have a duty and one last thing again, because you've read my book, I like this play on different concepts and ideas with the Hebrew, and the the snake, the serpent and people, I'm not not, I think it's the Hebrew term, is the serpent and it means a slippery snake, but it also means this concept of deception and lies and you see that throughout the Bible and through this Bible story, but we also see the serpent and the devil that has embodied the

this creature came to Eve looking like a snake or if this creature came to Eve looking like a dragon.

“But my gut tells me it looked like a dragon and it was a dragon, a serpent like dragon,”

and the Hebrew Bible calls it a serpent because that was the point of it was deception, the point of it was not fear and chaos, which is what's embodied with this Tamine dragon. So again now we go back to this thought experiment of a man stood next to his wife as she was approached by a dragon, a dragon, and he did nothing and we have been trying to write that wrong ever since. So that's the next book, Sinai Al-Shir, again it's an extension of all of that, but all of this

sits heavily upon just that journey and that work of that first book which was just the first of first of many. I'm ready for the second book, Jeff. I want the manuscript, I can't wait for

full print, that is going to be an amazing topic in my family. When we are finished here,

I'm immediately calling my mom, so my mom is a minister. So we're going to have some questions, I'm going to ask you some questions, Jeff, for like, I needed this one today. Well, thanks, Nick, and I tell you what I appreciate about it is I'm blissfully ignorant, right? Like I'm not a theologian, I'm not a pastor, I don't know, I don't know anybody other than the best I can do and as accurate as I can be, you know, and I don't mean to kind of have this

disclaimer of it's just a thought experiment because I've spent hours and days with God in this process and he guides me and he shows me things and I might not have all the answers, but again, what I discussed to you, just discussed to discuss with you, might not be 100% accurate, but you feel it, you feel the truth, you feel like, oh, how have we missed this? How have we missed

“that a man, the man, a dumb, failed to safeguard the most important thing that God had ever created?”

No, you you feel it in your gut. So that's what I'm getting. I got, I'm happy that I just did do, right? I'm just a dude. I'm just a soldier. I'm out there studying and praying and reading, but when I hit something that feels like a knife, a knife wound, I want to share that and I hope it inspires young men to get off the couch and go find your dragon because there's one out there. No matter what it looks like, many times it looks like a slithery snake. It looks like a DM.

It looks like a job, you know, it looks like a, you know, tax evasion. It looks like a lot of things. Rarely doesn't look like a roaring dragon, but it's a dragon and men who are on this earth to slay dragons. Let's go Jeff Ties. Let's go. Ladies and gentlemen, this has been Jeff Ties. This has been the Jeff Ties hour. I needed this. This was awesome. I feel like we've got a follow-up conversation in here, Jeff. You know, as we get closer to book two, let's definitely come on again,

but I'd love to, man, like we could just, we'll talk off my Jeff. I just had a vision like there's something that we can do right here. Let's do it. Love it, mix. Thank you for having me. Thank you for being here. To everybody that's watching, we're listening. I'm going to have links to all things, Jeff Ties. So you can definitely check out the things that he's doing. Definitely go get the book, Jeff. It's been an honor brother. It has been an honor. Me too. Great. Me and you make more to do

“brother. Absolutely. To all the viewers and listeners remember your because is your superpower.”

Go unleash it and go slay dragons. Let's go. That's another powerful conversation on Mick Unplug.

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