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“- It's 80 for seller and this is the show”
for the real estate goodbye to the lies, the thickness and delusion to modern society. Welcome to mother fucking reality, guys. Today, we have Q&A, yep. That is where you submit the questions
and we give you the answers. Now, you could submit your questions a bunch of different ways. DJ's gonna tell you how. Guys, you can email your questions
and to ask AndyTady for seller.com. You can also click the link in the description right here and submit them online, or you can just drop them in the comments in the Q&A videos on the tube.
Other times, we're gonna have shows within the show. Tomorrow, we're gonna have cruise dinner. Now, we call that CTI. That's where we put topics on the screen, current events.
We speculate on what's really going on. And we talk about how we, the people, have to solve these problems going on. Other times, we're gonna have real talk, real talk just five, 20 minutes,
and we give you some real talk. And then occasionally, we're going to have 75 hard verses that is where a person who has completed 75 hard comes on the show, talks about how they were before, how they are now and how they used 75 hard
to take back control of their life. If you're unfamiliar with 75 hard, it is the initial phase of the Live Hard program, which is the world's most popular mental transformation program in history.
You can get that entire program for free at episode 208 on audio feed. Again, that's 208 on audio feed only. Or you can go to AndyFersela.com and buy the book on mental toughness.
It has the entire Live Hard program and a whole bunch of other info that's not on that free episode. If you're somebody who likes the ins and outs and the nuts and bolts and all the details,
that's the way to go, obviously it's not free, but it is more in depth. Let's see, we are the biggest show in the world that doesn't run ads, that is a fact, right? The reason we don't run ads is because I do not wanna be told
what I can and can't say, ever. So, I make a little deal with you guys and it goes like this. If you like the show, if it makes you laugh, if it makes you think, if it's something of value,
“realize that the only way our show grows,”
because we don't have a big network behind us and we don't have a big ad campaign. It only grows through word of mouth. And we just asked very simply that if you enjoy the show, the specific episode,
share that bitch out, right? So, don't be a ho, share the show, right? This episode. Yeah, I mean, some people think they could share one or the whole year and they've done their little deal.
Like that's not the deal, man. The deal is every episode. If it gives you value, if you think it sucks,
fucking don't share it, but they never suck.
They don't suck, yeah, that's right, man. What's going on dog? Nothing, dude. Yeah, I got a little, I know we can't really talk about it, but I have some shit.
I got some drink in my cup. Yeah. Gas. It's my favorite drink we've had so far. Absolutely gas.
Yeah. Yep. It's, let's just tell them what it is. No, okay. Yeah, I'm saying, like we just beep it, you don't say this.
(laughing) Yeah, this is fucking yeah. Yeah, it is. Like this is my summer drink. No doubt.
Like drink, like not drink. It's a drink. And what do you call it though? 'Cause like you're used to calling it like purple. It's pink, give me some of the red.
This is pink. No, but it's clear. What do you say? You're gonna be confused just the drink dog. Yeah, just simply the drink.
Give me the drink. I'm with the drink. All right. You know what I'm saying? Yeah.
Then now the yellow drinks get to. The yellow drinks, the yellow juice, all day long. Yeah. That's what I mean. That one golden shower.
That kind of sound like I was in a year and didn't. (laughing) Well, nothing that it's time to get better today. That is good though, isn't it? It's fucking good.
Yeah. It's absolute gas. I know. Dude, fuck. I'm excited, dude.
“You know, just when I think, you know, yeah, it's there.”
You know, I'm never, we're still learning.
Yeah, we're still learning. Yeah. Perspective is a powerful fucking thing, isn't it? Yeah. You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, you can see things in many different ways. It's the same thing. And I think that how you choose to see anything is really going to be responsible and dictate the quality of your life or the quality of your products.
Yeah. Well, how shit your life is. Right. 100% there. Absolutely, man.
Well, guys, it's Q&AF. We got three good ones for you, bro. Cool. Let's get better, guys. Andy, question number one.
Andy with an exclamation point. Andy, I'm a 23-year-old female medical student with a very clear vision
For my life.
I often feel misunderstood by my family and those around me because many people deemed the goals I've already set and achieved as impossible. I was and still am often ridiculed with people telling me I won't make it anyway. My long-term goal is to immigrate, which is why I choose to feel like medicine, that isn't tied to a specific country.
I'm already learning a language and immersing myself in the culture. I'm seeking advice on how to effectively build a foundation for long arc goals that span a decade or more.
“My question is, what is the best way to lay the groundwork for goals that are still far”
off. 10 years more in the future? How do you do that? Well, look, first of all, goals that took 10 years, 10 years ago now take three years or four years because of the different technologies that we have.
So it's hard to put a timeframe because of the evolution and the speed at which technology is changing in the world. My 10-year goals, when I started in 1999, that was a much different amount of ground to cover than a 10-year goal now, which is really great for you guys. You know, we have a lot of talk about, you know, how hard it is to succeed and all these
things, but it's always been hard.
And I would honestly trade places with any of you at this curtain time even considering what's going on in the world to be 20 years old again and have the ability to cover way more ground in a much shorter period of time. So let's be careful about how much we think we can accomplish in 10 years because it's probably a whole lot more than you think at this point in time because that ability to
accelerate is only going to get more and more and more. So that's the first thing.
“The second thing is, in order to achieve any goals, you have to understand that you”
were going into a battle, okay, metaphorical battle. And you cannot go into the battle with bad tools and bad weapons. If we were in a real battle and I sent you out there against people who were, you know, what had rocket launchers and machine guns and I gave you a little butt knife, you're going to get killed, all right, you're not going to be successful no matter what you do
no matter how tough you are no matter, it doesn't matter the tools that they have or better than the tools that you have and for that reason, you don't have a chance. So we have to understand that our mind and our body is the tool. That is our weapon system, that is what allows us to accomplish the goals that we're going to accomplish and far too many people don't realize this.
They don't realize that if you're not finally tuned and you're not training your mind
and you're not holding yourself into the best possible condition, you are in a situation where you are in a disadvantage against people who are. So how should you look at this? Well, the number one reason that most people can't achieve their goals isn't because they don't know how to achieve them, it's because they lack the ability to adhere to the
steps of achieving the goal for a long enough period of time for those things to materialize.
“So you have to be able to cultivate and understand that the skills of resilience and”
fortitude and grit and mental toughness and the ability to endure and the ability to adhere these are the things that number one give you the confidence to achieve these goals. But number two, give you the very practical ability to follow a plan for much longer than you might be excited about following it, right? So this is the purpose of the Live Heart and the 75-hard lifestyle.
A lot of people don't understand that 75-hard and Live Heart are to be completed every single year. This is a lifestyle, this is not a one-hit-it-fix-it-type thing. These skill sets that I just mentioned, grit, fortitude and mental toughness, discipline, the ability to endure resilience, all these things, they have to be trained all the time because
they're perishable, it's no different than any other perishable skill. If you want to learn how to play the guitar and you get pretty decent at guitar and you stop for a year, you're not going to be as good. If you stop for five years, you're going to be starting over. These are things that you have to understand about your own tools, your mind, your body.
So learning that at a young age, because you're very young and being able to be conscious
of that and become aware of that and keep that finally tuned, will give you the ability
to adhere to your plan much longer at a much higher level than everybody else.
That is a huge advantage because 98% of people, they quit the minute that it ...
convenient. The minute that something happens that they don't like or the minute that they get bored with it, they're saying, you know, I've done a lot of reflection and I've realized that this just isn't for me. Well, listen, dude, nothing's going to be for you because every single thing that you
could possibly choose on the entire planet to do is going to get boring and it's going to get monotonous and it's going to get to a place where you don't feel like doing it. And if you don't have the ability to push through those times, you cannot get there. If you start over every single time, something starts to feel boring or monotonous or
not exciting, you're never going to get to the place you're trying to get.
And this is the mistake that most people make. Most people start a thing. They have this amazing energy, quote unquote, motivation. They let that motivation drive them to the point where it's no longer exciting, the motivation fades.
They lose the fuel to move down the path.
“You have to operate on a different understanding.”
Is that the real progress in life is not made when you're motivated. The real progress in life is made when you'd rather do anything else and you still do what it is you're trying to do at a high level. That is the separator between those who do and those who don't. And if you can develop that and you can keep that in mind and you can keep that finally
tuned, you will be in a massive advantage over everybody else. So that is the second thing. Understand, you have to control what you control.
You have to always finally tune your mind.
You have to keep your body in the best shape that it can be because these are your tools, your weapons that you're using to fight the life resistance that comes your way when you're an ambitious person. And number three, you need to get very specific. I want to do this and you break it down backwards into daily critical tasks that have to
be done every single day that will eventually lead you to there and guess what? I've built a piece of technology that actually does this for you. If you go to operator standard and get on the weight list because we're still in beta and we're still in the MVP mode, we are going to open that up very soon. Go get on the weight list for operator standard, go on my website, join the weight list.
And when this watch is, there's thousands of people in there already, they took advantage of jumping into it in December and they've done an amazing job helping us find the holes and figure out what needs to be and how to do. But this technology is amazing because what it actually does is you get to tell it what
you're trying to do and it breaks down the critical task all the way down to today that
helps you get to where you're trying to go. So you're not questioning what you actually need to do. It takes that vagueness. That's just one of the things it does. This thing is like fucking Jarvis for winners, okay?
I can't even tell you all the shit that's going to come out with it and what we're working on. But it does that now. So you can either do that yourself or you can get that and fucking use that.
“And so those are the three things that you have to do.”
Let me actually understand it because I know, like I said, I mean, we talk, you know, oftentimes outside of this, just life shit, you know, and I remember asking this was years ago, did I ask them like, you know, did you know that you would be where you are today? You know, you're answering because most people like, oh no, I didn't know, I just think, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. This is what I expected.
That's right. Right. And I think, my question is, and it may not even be the right word, but in 1999, 19 year old, Andy, was there like a level of like blind confidence at that time? Yes.
You know what I'm saying? So the answer is yes and no, okay. Did I know we would be here specifically? Not exactly. What I know that I would be in a position where I was winning, yes, on an undeniable
winning, yes, I expected that. That was not ever a doubt in my mind. I just kept moving and that is like what faith is about, right? Like, you're not saying blind confidence. Well, look, dude, the works are always going to come before the belief, all right?
People think that when they start out, they have to have this amazing belief and their ability to accomplish things, and because they don't, they think there's something wrong with them, but they've got the order of operations backwards, okay?
“The truth of the matter is, is the only way that you start believing that you're actually”
going to get there, like truly believing it. Like you said, at the beginning, you're like, I want to be there. That's where I want to be. I would like to be there. Yes.
And because people lack confidence, which goes back to the live hard program, they say, man, I don't really believe that, and what happens is that freezes them up in the beginning, and they're not realizing that you have to go and you have to do some of the work, and
You've got to do the work for a considerable amount of time, not a month, not...
that's six months, not a year. We're talking years, okay? And eventually, you get to a point where it starts to produce results. And you're like, oh shit, okay, this makes sense. I work, I see some results, I get some more belief, okay?
And when that cycle happens two or three times where you start to really learn that your inputs equal a certain output, now confidence isn't a problem because you understand what the game is about.
“So the reality is, is you have to do the work blindly, the best that you can, and by the way,”
we have incredible tools, like we talked about in the operator standard, that will
help you understand the things you should do when you may not know what to do, and as long as you do them, and then they start to produce results, you learn that confidence, and that's where the expectation comes in. So once you get to a point where you've, you know, you've put the ingredients in, you've baked the cake, the cake comes out as pretty good.
You've put the ingredients in, you've baked another cake, the cake comes out pretty good. You've put the ingredients, you've baked another cake, the cake comes out better, and you continue that process, it doesn't take that long before you figure out like fuck dude, I can do this. And this is great.
So now you know what it takes to actually move forward, and you're in a position to move
forward with confidence, understanding that you now expect to be successful, you're not hoping or wishing or doubting it, right? You understand that if I put this work in, it will produce this result, and that's a very freeing feeling, because it removes the things like doubt, it removes the things like uncertainty, it removes the lack of confidence, and now you understand that is simply inputs and outputs,
“and that's what we have to understand, dude expecting to win is completely different than”
hoping to win. Okay, hoping to win is, man, you know, maybe if I do some of this work, a lucky break will happen, I'll meet someone, something will happen, people will like it, I'll go viral, I'll do this, I'll do that.
That's hope, expecting is, I'm going to do whatever the fuck it takes, no matter what
to produce this result, and that result is going to fucking happen, and I don't give a shit if the fucking world ends, that result is still going to fucking happen. That's a different thing, okay, totally different thing. And the only people who actually win are the people who eventually get to a point where they expect it, but you've got to build that part by doing the work, not really understanding
until you see the results a few times to gain that confidence of expectation. Yeah, exactly, it's like the hockey stick you talk about, you're going to go for a minute without seeing anything, no fruits at all. Yeah, most people will quit, I mean, dude, look, man, most people are quitting their goal in six months, like nothing happens in six months, okay, and that was not, that's
not a new thing, by the way, I mean, we could blame the internet and say, oh, yeah, it's all these influencers. Time to change it, it's more in your face now, but even when you were younger, even when I was younger, that's the same way people operate it, okay, they operated from a place of relying completely on their motivation and not on pushing past the point where the
motivation fades. Or working until something bad happens, and then saying, oh, well, this bad happened to me, and that's the story they tell for their whole life.
“You have to keep going through those things, and if you don't, you just have to accept”
that you're not going to ever become what it is you're going to become. What most people do their entire lives is they go for one or two or three years, and the thing doesn't work out, and they say, oh, this isn't for me, I'm going to try something else. They go to the new thing, one, two, three years, it doesn't work out.
They repeat the process, and before you know it, you've done that six times and it's taking your fucking, you know, 18 years of your life, you're 38 years old, and you don't know what the fuck you're going to do with your life. That is the danger of not pushing through the monotony of achieving anything, and there's not a single person on the planet, I don't care if it's Elon Musk, I don't care if it's
Bezos, I don't care if it's Michael Jordan, I don't care if it's Tom Brady, they're every single person, these people, they are experts at doing the work diligently at a high level after the excitement fades. That's where things are really produced. You're not even producing anything before the excitement fades.
That's crazy to think about, dude, that's crazy, yeah, yeah, one once the new car smell wears off, what are you doing then? Oh, I'm going to get a new car, it's right, yeah, that's wild, yeah, that's how people
Think.
I love it man, let's keep moving guys, guys, any question number two, Andy, I own a small
roof and company in Iowa, for the first few years, it was exciting because everything
felt like growth, I've hired eight more guys, full-time, we are making more money than we ever have and are backed up almost four months, which is huge for us. But lately, the pressure has started feeling different, now I've got employees with families depending on these paychecks, customers are trusting us with big money and mistakes cost way more than they used to.
I still want to grow, but sometimes I honestly miss when it was smaller and simpler. How did you handle that place realizing that your decisions affect a lot more than just you know? I certainly leaned into it, I didn't run away from it, you know, for me that happened about when I was 13 or 14 years into my business.
You can only go so far when it's about you, okay, when your purpose is about you and
you go out and you make enough money and you're able to, you know, pay your bills and
you know, maybe you have a couple of toys and you're not in a financial position of stress the way that you were comfort starts to set in and when comfort starts to set in, that's when things get real dangerous because most of the time when comfort sets in, people stop going and doing the things that got them to that point and while all of their competitors are still doing those things and then they end up losing and they can't figure out why
they lost because they're like, well, you know, I was doing good, but now things are not good. Yeah, the reason things aren't good is because you're playing a game that runs on a sliding scale. You are actually competing against other human beings and when everybody else is moving forward
and you stand still, they're going to pass you, it's no different than getting way ahead in a marathon and then deciding to pull out your lawn chair and say, man, you know what, I'm so far ahead. This is great. I'm at mile 19.
I'm going to chill. I'm going to, and then eventually they pass you up and then you, you can't catch them because you start the momentum over again.
“So, so you have to understand that comfort is super dangerous and the way you should be”
looking at this is this is a re-ignition of your responsibilities that will cause you to continue to progress, learn, work, grow and create at a bigger scale level. What you should be doing right now, by the way, the four-month wait list is not good. Just so you know. Okay.
No, you think that's good for you. That's not good. That's not good. You know why that's not good? Because those people that are waiting for four months might hire someone that can do it
tomorrow. Okay. So, while you think it's good because we've got all this business on the books, you're thinking about yourself, you're not thinking about your employees and do it if you're
“an ethical business owner, you have to understand that you have a responsibility for the people”
who have bet on you for their livelihoods. Those men and those women have bet on you for their livelihoods. Understand that. And if you can't take that seriously, not only will you not win, you're kind of a shit, shitty owner, not even kind of you are.
Yeah. All right. This is a point in time where your intent naturally moves and this happens to all entrepreneurs who scale, okay. It naturally moves from what I need to do for me to a point where I have to grow because
these people are betting on me and they have families and they have homes and they have obligations. And if I don't grow the business, they're not going to be able to pay those things. And that's a different kind of pressure, it's kind of like I imagine like when people have children and it's all about themselves and then all of a sudden there's this little fucking sake of me that comes out and you're like, holy shit, dude, if I don't do it,
this kid's going to fucking starve, okay, now I've never experienced it in that way, but
“I imagine that's what it feels like, 100% okay, that's what I've been told.”
But that same responsibility and obligation should be put on your employees as well, okay, because like dude, these people are betting on you man, they're betting their lives, they're betting their families, they're betting their futures on you. And if you sit there because you have, you know, a couple bucks in the bank, your piece of shit, that's the truth, okay, because they're betting on you, you have to understand
that, they're betting on you, okay, and you, a lot of people like to bitch, nobody believes in me, nobody, what are all those employees that show up every day? They fucking believe in you, otherwise they wouldn't fucking be there, okay, so how you should be looking at this now is to change the responsibility and the intent from yourself to them, all right, and when you can do that, and then you expand the vision of your growth
To include their hopes and dreams and what they're trying to accomplish under...
umbrella, now you start to create a really great company that solves the problem of overwhelm that you're currently experiencing. When you have people that understand that they can actually achieve what they're trying to, they can make enough money, they can build what they want, they can live in a house, they want, they can drive the car, they want, they can do these things in your system,
now you're in a situation where they are willing to help you in a very proactive way to handle the minutia and the overwhelm that comes with scaling, so your choices are this. Yeah, you could reminisce about the good old days, but remember in the good old days, you were fucking broke, okay, you didn't have the basketball, you didn't have the core of that, you didn't have the escalade, you didn't have a nice house, you were starving
and you had to watch with a fucking order at the restaurant, see everybody likes to reminisce about the good old days, but they forget those things, okay, so let's be real about what you're talking about, and I would remove this idea from your head because there is a metaphysical quantophysical element to what you desire in your brain that the universe and God will provide for you, so if you start to think, man, I really would just like to live a simple
life in all this shit, God is going to find a way to deliver that to you, and you may not
“like the way he delivers it, so you need to be thinking about the other people, you need”
to be thinking about their well-being, and when you can go from thinking about you to thinking about them, it unlocks a whole new level in entrepreneurs. Yeah, again, we've talked about this before, man, it's like, you know, you say it, like, man, I miss the store days, I do miss it, but my job, my role is different, it's changed, it's evolved, you know what I'm saying, how many different hats have you worn?
All of them, you know what I'm saying, HR, I did all of them, I've packed boxes, did I remember
whenever we, we first started shipping out, dude, at four o'clock in the afternoon, we would
go out and literally packed boxes, okay, before that when it was just me and Chris, we would print shit out on a printer and there'd be like five or six boxes and we would pack them in order. I mean, I've done everything from sweeping the floors to being the CEO to being chairman of the board, like, every, every thing, everything, I've done everything, yeah, okay, you
got to get comfortable in what that role is now. Yes, and that role will evolve and when you get a new role, that's going to come with different responsibilities, the reason that I like the quote unquote good old days was because I got to deal more with customer space to face, that's not reality for me anymore, not because it was easier.
No, that's, I just enjoyed it, so I found other ways to do that. For example, how I do that now is instead of dealing with customer space to face, I will walk the floors and I will talk to the people and I will talk to them and I will help them with what they are doing and I get that same sort of reward in a different way. Yeah, so yeah, man, look, dude, this is very simple.
Stop thinking about yourself, start understanding that you have a massive responsibility to take care of your employees and that little fire that you feel like is getting a little, you know, small is going to reignite in a way that's much bigger than it ever was because there's one thing to worry about yourself, okay?
“Like, I know how to survive being broke, all right?”
It's, I don't ever want to go back there, but the reality is, if I had to, I could fucking
do it and it wouldn't be a deal. And I think of my employees in any company that I'm involved in or owned and I think about them having the obligation of children and I think about their bills and I think about the things that they have, these are serious obligations, dude. And I always think like, fuck, what's going to happen if they lose their job?
Like, I hate that, I don't want, I don't want that to happen. And if I'm being honest, sometimes I care about that too much, which causes me to hang on to employees longer than I should. Oh, that's a whole fucking conversation because, dude, I am, you gotta go hard. I do, and sometimes it's fucked me, but the overall result is still much better because of
it. Yeah, I love it, man. I love it guys.
Andy, let's get to our third and final question.
“Guys, any question number three, Andy, I think I spent most of my early 20s subconsciously”
waiting for someone to point me in the right direction, a mentor, an opportunity, a break, something. Now I'm 30 and I'm real either, nobody's coming, no shit, Andy, if I want a different life, it's on me to build it, but was there a moment for you where that fully
Clicked?
And once it did, how did you change the way you approached life?
Did you move differently?
“Well, look, I started when I was 19, I didn't have any money.”
We had $12,000 that we used to pay the rent for our store for an entire year because nobody would rent to us because we didn't have credit, and we didn't have anything that would make them want to rent to us. So then we had to finance the rest of everything on the credit cards, which put pressure on us and put that on us.
So I didn't have a choice, all right, I had to go. And for a long time, we had smaller competitors who, even at that level, they came from a rich family. They had an inheritance. They had an investor.
They had something, and I used to be really bitter about that. I used to get really mad about it. The first, especially the first three or four years where like literally we weren't making any money, it would really irritate me. I was like, what the fuck, we got to compete against all these people who have all this
and thatness and this, but what I started to realize is that because those people had those resources, they weren't learning the lessons that they needed to learn that made them effective. And so by year four, five, six, I was being able to outmaneuver them like very easily. And they couldn't figure out why.
Well the reason why was because I started with nothing and I had to figure it out, and they started with the safety net, and they didn't have to figure it out.
They could always go to just writing a check or going back to the investor or going to their
trust fund or whatever they had to do. So I started to understand that I was learning these skills that they didn't learn. By year 10, I had put most of these people out of business. So I went through that in a little bit different way, but I did realize from the very beginning that it was on me and nobody else, like nobody was going to come and do any
of the shit for us. It wasn't even, it wasn't even like something that I really thought about. Was I bitter that other people had better advantages than me? Yeah. Until I understood that I was the one with the advantage, because people who come with resources
and they come with safety nets and they come, those people never learn how to fucking
fight. It's just like people who complain about how hard it was growing up. And they say, well, I grew up here and I grew up with the trailer and I did this and I'd come from the hood and nobody gives a fuck about me. Do you understand how big of a fucking advantage that actually is?
Because you learn the skill of survival and fighting at a very young age, but because your perspective is based upon what people try to say is, you know, oh, that person got there
“because they had this or that person was lucky or that's what we hear our whole lives.”
We hear from other people around us, our whole lives, that literally everybody else that's made it did so because they had some sort of advantage that you don't have. That's not the way it really works. The way it really works is is that the people who build real shit, they actually come from the hardest situations early on in life because they had to learn how to survive
and provide for themselves in a way that these other people didn't, you know, they learn how to fight young. And when you come from that and you look at it at the right perspective, which is what I'm telling you now, you are at a tremendous advantage over everybody else, okay? But most people can't break free of that victim mindset and they don't understand the
reality that all of these people that they look at, they're reason they have all these crazy stories about where they come from, isn't because they make them up after they get there. It's because the people who had to go through the hardest shit or the people that are equipped to actually fight the battle of entrepreneurship. So this whole idea that is in society that is propagated by a bunch of fucking people
who are victim mindset losers that everybody who's done everything is somehow, you know,
“grew up with a fucking golden spoon in their mouth, it's total bullshit, all right?”
The best operators in the world came from the hardest situations, every single operator that I know that's built to anything relevant, those people came from shit, okay? So if you come from shit, you shit instead of like saying, "Oh, it couldn't promote this bit." And I got PTSD, T2, T2, T2, T2, from when I grew up, like motherfucker used that shit, okay?
I mean, into that, I understand that you are equipped with a set of skills th...
other people don't have. And when you apply those skills and they continue to go down the path, eventually you get to a point where all of the people with the court and court advantages have fallen off because they have a backup plan, they have comfort, they don't have to succeed. Otherwise, you know, they have the ability to go back to mom and dad or go back to
say, "Oh, I'll try this other thing or do this other thing or do this other thing." That's something you don't have and that's a blessing, that's not a handicap. And so, you know, I don't know if that really answers your question about, like, how do
“I realize that nobody's coming, the only thing you got to realize is that that's what”
it is, like nobody's coming, bro. People have their own lives in mind, they are worried about themselves. This is why all you fuckers that think everybody's talking about you all the time, bro. They're talking about you in a passing conversation one time, your ego's so big, you think people just don't mess over what you're doing, like fuck that, you know what I'm
saying? Like they're worried about themselves.
So, but, no, I mean, one of the things that I've always had a hard time understanding
is like that whole thing of like, "Oh, everybody else has got it and I don't have." It's like, well, first, like, you don't even know if they actually do have an advantage. You don't know because you're just seeing the end result, not the, not the work that went into that. That's one.
But then two, who gives a shit, it ain't you? It's not your shit, right? Right. Right. You know what I'm saying?
It's like, coulda shit would've been, could've been, hope it was, too fucking bad. Okay? It ain't. Yeah. It is what it is.
Like, that's right. That's right. Right.
“You have to be dedicated to producing the end result.”
You have to be obsessed with it, dude. That's the thing. It's like, you know, like, these idiots on the internet who put out all this shit about balance. So, I'm gonna have to work like, there's no work life balance as an entrepreneur.
That's not real, especially when you're getting it going. It's not a real fucking thing. Okay? And anybody who says different hasn't built anything. You know, the whole problem with the internet is it gave a voice to people who can
talk real well and say nothing. Right? So, that's the entire problem with the internet. How many of these people are saying, "Ooh, you're going to rule of work life balance." Have actually built anything significant.
Okay?
I promise you, they did not have work life balance in the first five to ten years.
They didn't have it. You have to be obsessed, bro. That's the level of competition because you have to understand other people that are obsessed. There are people that will eat a bowl of glass and eat a pile of shit every single day for as long as it takes to get where the fuck they want to go.
And if you're not one of them, they're going to beat you. That's it. That is reality. So, I had this kid message me the other day and I was showing something on my Instagram. Oh, I know what it was.
I was showing the startup of my career GT and he could see all the other cars through the windshield. And he message me and he's like, "Dude, I'm so sick of being where I'm at."
“Like, honestly, how do I acquire this level of wealth?”
Like, how do I do it? And I'm like, "Dude, how old are you?" He's like, "22." I'm like, "Perfect. You're the perfect age."
You have to become, you have to become so obsessed with producing the outcome that literally nothing else fucking matters, nothing. And people will say, "Oh, that's selfish. That's wrong." It is what the fuck it is.
That's what it takes, okay? If you are not obsessed with producing that outcome, especially in the beginning, you're going to get eaten alive. You're going to get eaten the fuck alive.
And it doesn't matter what Joe Schmoth therapist or, you know, dude who never built anything
on the internet, who's doing shit for like, shares views. Remember, half the shit on the internet is pacifying victim-minded bullshit that people post to make people feel better about them not doing the thing they're supposed to do. Okay? Learn to take a step back and watch people's content.
A lot of the things that are being said are not said because they're the truth. They're said because it makes the majority of the market, which is people who are not going to follow through feel much better about not following through. Okay? It is, it is, is giving them permission to stay where they are.
And that's why it gets the like-share's views. That's why when you see a clip of me saying what I just said, people are like, "Oh, are you happy? Yeah, I'm a motherfucker. I actually am happy.
I walk into my garage every day and you get to pick out a car like you pick out your fucking shoes. Okay? It's cool as fuck. I get to do whatever I want.
If I want to go to fucking Vegas today, I'll call up and they'll be an airplane in 30 fucking minutes and I can go there. I can do whatever to fuck I want any time I want.
If one of my family members or one of my friends or somebody I know, or house...
to get four clothes on, I can fix that.
Okay? Someone gets cancer.
“If I can fucking pay for that, which I've done all those things, okay?”
If our city gets hit by a tornado, I can fucking contribute to that. I can make differences because then those things make me happy. So this whole idea of you either get to be rich or you get to be happy is it's not either or, dude, it's how you get rich and what value system you have and what you do with the money that allows you to figure out what you're going to do when you be happy.
You have this lie in their mind, you know, because I'll tell you, this is true, too. After a while when you own all the material shit, it stops mattering. Like when I walk into my garage, you know this because you've been there and we bring someone, even if they're famous, into the garage, she's been around it. They're like holy shit.
To me, I don't even notice it. Like I walk into it. I'm like, this is my life. This is what I do. All right, I don't give a fuck about, like, I know you guys see me post all the cars
and shit. I'm posting that for fucking 18 year old, 19 year old, 20 year old, Andy, to say, hey man, look, what the fuck you can do. How do I get that? Right.
This, this idea that you can buy all this shit and it's going to make you happy. No, that's not, that's not true. But it gives you far more ability to make impact on your friends, your family, your community, which makes you really happy, okay? So, you know, you can't really listen to someone who says, ooh, or you hooked, you know,
he's got all the shit, but is he happy?
“Well, they don't know because they never had anything, okay?”
You never hear someone who has made a bunch of money and worked their fucking ass off and
worked for 30 years and built this incredible life and then they say, oh man, I wish I hadn't done that. That's, I don't know what the fuck you're saying. You only hear people who haven't done a motherfucking thing, say that. And then you have these feel good predators on the internet, who could, by the way, they
understand what they're doing, okay, this is why I call them predators. They know and are aware that most of their market is people who are going to not do the thing. So they curtail their content to make people feel great about not expanding their own human potential, which is ultimately the entire goal of being on this fucking planet.
Listen motherfuckers, these people are handicapping you and not a single one of them has made any money outside of the other, outside of anything other than making people feel like it's okay to just be right where they are.
And dude, the reality is, and then you have the Christians, I am one who don't understand
Christianity and think that being a very small little, you know, poor little me is somehow biblically the way you should be. The Bible actually talks about you, not wasting your fucking talents to become who it is, you're supposed to become. God gives you gifts, he gives you something inside of you that is meant for you to pull
out to develop and give to the world and there's no favor in God's eyes to not use those things. It talks about it in the Bible. So this whole idea of there's some sort of moral high ground of wasting your life being a nothing is a complete lie and it is totally exploited by these feel good predators
who know that their audience is a bunch of fucking victims and if they say something like,
“hey, you have to be obsessed with your goals and you have to like fucking basically for”
a period of time, give up everything else. They know that those people don't want to hear that. They want to hear what they want to fucking hear it makes them feel good about how they are now. And that's why these people do that.
They know, they fucking know what they're doing. That's the thing you don't understand. You know how I know they know what they're doing because I know these people and they've told me that and they said things like that and it's disgusting shit. Imagine, you're whole business is being some sort of therapist or some sort of influencer,
or some sort of author and your whole business plan is to make people feel good about being way less than what they could be because you know that's what's going to sell shit for you. That is fucking evil shit. That is predatory shit and that is what you are listening to and then furthermore the rest
of the people that post all this content about, you know, oh, you've got to have this
This and listen man, they've never done anything.
They don't know, okay, people are good talkers.
“They're not just because they can get on a microphone and get in front of an interview”
and sound real smart. Doesn't mean they fucking know what the fuck they're talking about, okay, there's these things. I don't know if you know them, they're called, it's called acting, okay.
“Like, you know, there's this is another thing called line, right?”
And just because someone, like, do you ever notice that the people who seem to be the
nicest are always the ones that lie the most?
Yeah, I know shit, okay, like, how about this so nice? Yeah, right.
“You find out all this fucked up shit, I'm going to tell you right now, I'm totally”
fucked up. Okay.
So I don't ever pretend to not be, but I'm going to tell you this.
I know what I know about winning and if you're not obsessed with winning and you don't realize that no one's fucking coming, you're not going to get fucking anywhere. I love it, dude. I love it, man. Well, guys, Andy, that's a hell of a way to start a week.
All right, guys, let's go out, let's get better, we'll see you tomorrow on CTI, do not be a ho. We're sleeping on the floor, now my jury box froze, fuck up, fuck up, fuck the stove, count it millions in the code bad, bitch, who the smoke got a on bank road, can't vote, does it know, can't shot, case, close, close.
