Dear Banya: Made of Honor

Guarantee human.

I'm Nancy Glass, host of the burden of guilt season 2 podcast.

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Listen to burden of guilt season 2 on the "I Heart Radio" app. Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Amanda Knox, and in the new podcast "Doubt," the case of Lucy Letby, we unpack the story of an unimaginable tragedy that gripped the UK in 2023. But what if we didn't get the whole story?

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Listen to legally-brown-up, on the "I Heart Radio" app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I forgot what she was supposed to say for opening a line. Spoiler alert, we're in a different studio, and when I don't hear the jingle into the podcast, I am a little thrown.

We just recorded an episode. I'm a little thrown, okay. Um, it is Thursday. Thursday. Which means Trader.

Trader's. Okay, Trader's. Here's my favorite, first of all, I love her, and I love her accent. I love her.

“You have to watch her season of Love Island.”

I've tried. That's the only one I have tried to watch. Three times. Yeah, gosh. How do you not like this show?

It's so good.

I had never watched a full season, and now that I've watched USA,

USA and watched it in its entirety, I think maybe you're going to get it to it more. Yeah, but also it's a lot of- I do feel it's a lot of commitment. The way that I watch, the fact that these people are just everyday is in their bikinis, like sitting down, standing up, like making these toast to each other,

like it's such a weird thing that they're just like in their bikinis all day. It's like talking and chatting and like dating. It's so funny to me. Yeah, it makes the bachelor look like totally normal. Totally.

I wouldn't want to do anything in my bikini that many days in a row. You'd have to, you'd be like, I need- Have you gotten the water, you'd like to go change? Yeah, I've been changing my bathing suit every five minutes, because I don't want to get a UTI.

Um, okay, so traders, at this point, at first I was like,

okay, I always am rooting for the faithfuls that figured out.

At this point, I want Rob to win because the faithfuls are so dumb that I'm like- They're dignitized. Yeah, they're like so obsessed with him. I could be a cult leader. You know what, this season has made me realize.

“I don't know if you have to, you have to believe that, huh?”

Uh, I think they'd take me to his own room. Okay, run it by the higher-ups. Yeah, it's like such a fascinating study of like human behavior, because spoiler alert, when Candice got banished, and they found out that she was a trader, and she was going so hard for Rob and doing the Troo Avo for Rob that the week before, like the fact that nobody more picked up on it slightly, and then she was just like,

"Ah, but why would she do that to you? You're such a faithful." And I'm like, "How are you guys so enamored with this man that you cannot see that he's a trader?" I don't know, but he has something where he's like put a spell on them. A spell.

They're all the same guys and girls are under us, his spell.

No. Like, not only apologize to them for getting a Steven Al,

“like, perleading the charging and Steven, she's like, "I'm really sorry, you guys."”

Like, you're apologizing to the traders, and she's supposed to be a gay player. Yeah, she's a good gay player, and she's under his spell. They are, it is so crazy to me. Like, I, I don't, the producer's picking him to be a trader was brilliant. I don't think they could have ever predicted that someone would have such a hold on everybody and everybody.

It is, but I feel like Steven is like, "Luding to it all season." Like, now that I'm like looking back on other episodes, like, I feel like Jam Jam was like, "Oh Rob, like, come, whisk me away."

And like, Johnny was always like flirting with Rob and like all the girls.

Like, Durinda was like obsessed with him. I mean, yeah. Like, nobody, but, but, and he was playing an amazing game. Like, I actually thought that he was a really good trader aside from everybody. Just like being a real spell Rob.

He is a really good trader. No, he made one fatal, fatal mistake. What? In my personal opinion, what? The vote, where it was between Ron and Lisa, and his heart was telling him,

he can't vote for Ron, and he voted for Lisa, he should have voted for Ron, because then that made, uh, Candice, it made all of them kind of like not trust him, and then Candice going so hard on him, I thought would be a total giveaway. Like, I'm like, no, I was like, now Rob is screwed, because Candice is going out so hard. Once they find out she's a trader, they're going to know that he's also a trader.

So that went, in my opinion, I was like, he should have voted for Ron, he would have been banished, and then Lisa and Candice wouldn't have been like so upset with him. He would, that would have been an amazing gameplay. In any other season, in any other person, yeah, that was his biggest mistake in my personal opinion. I don't care, they're so far, they're so far up in it.

I cannot believe it. He's going to win. I mean, Sean, to meet him, because I'm like, what is it about you? Because I obviously, he's very cute.

“Like, I think he's so cute, but I'm also like, is it?”

Because he is, I almost feel like he has that thing where he's so cute that he has to do, like, the bare minimum. So I feel like he's very nice, but like, nonchalant doesn't give anyone too much. So they're like, you're earning for his, his life protection is so weird.

I've never seen anything like it on television.

It's crazy. It's crazy. If he doesn't win this season, I'm going to be shocked. I know. No one's on him.

Even though they should be the next one gone. When Kristen was saying, if I get murdered tonight, it's going to be Eric. I'm like, she has just set him up to throw Eric under the bus. Oh, uh, Rob. Yeah.

Yeah. It's crazy. I'm curious to see what Rob does if he does throw Eric under the bus or if he tries to help him. It's going to be a big episode if they're able to get him out.

Rob. I just don't. I mean, no. It seems like there's no chance. He's going to the end.

And he's like, I think he's winning. And that's my prediction. He's winning the whole thing. Wow. Yeah.

“I mean, I don't see a world where he doesn't unless he does something just really out of nowhere.”

That's. Unless Eric also tries throwing him under the bus. I get around. I get around. I don't think he will.

That's why he chose Eric. I know. I don't think he will. I could just see Rob literally looking them directly in the face and being like, I'm a trader and they're like, no, you're too much of a baseball.

I was like, you say that. Yeah. I was like, you say that. But you know, the trader's finale is next week. Oh.

So we have tonight. And then we have next week. Yeah. I'm like, we're going to be in the Bahamas. So we're going to like VPN or do some things.

I'm so excited about the Bahamas. Yeah. But you're really bummed about that. Well, I'm missing the season 50 survivor premiere and the trader's finale. So it's really a for a TV addict.

That's a big blockbuster week for me. This is a big. This is a big step for you in your addiction. Yeah. It is a big step.

We have to plan a trip to the Bahamas to get taught in your way from the television. Yes. But these are also two shows that we watch as a family. So they're having to wait for you. I don't know what they're going to do.

I wouldn't hold it against them if they watched without me. I would allow that because I would want to watch. I'm trying to give myself the grace to watch in the Bahamas without them. That makes. Oh, nice.

You got it. Yeah. Tip for time. You know what that was. Sacrifice for love.

Let's shoot the other. Sacrifice to sacrifice for love. Speaking of jingles. We have some new Dear Bonnie jingles. That I am very excited to hear.

But first we're going to take a break.

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But in 2017, the FBI got inside.

“This is Special Agent Regal, Special Agent Bradley Hall.”

This MSS officer has no idea the US government is on to him. But the FBI has his chats, texts, emails, even his personal diary. Here how they got it on the 6th Bureau podcast. I now have several terabytes of an MSS officer, no doubt, no question of his life. And that's the unicorn.

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Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. We're back. So we have more jingle submissions for Dearbania.

“And before we start the Dearbania segment, we thought why not test them out here?”

Yeah. So we have a few. Everyone was very inspired, which is awesome.

First, we're going to start off with, this is from DJ Poppins, who has contributed to this program.

Before, we're big fans. Big fans. Here is the submission from DJ Poppins today. Remix with Sacrifice for Love, which we are just seeing. Here is the submission from DJ Poppins for Dearbania.

Oh, you're gonna call with the question on you. I have idea.

It's still giving this Rachel.

“It's still, it's maybe just the melody of the jingle.”

Like is it us? Yeah, it might be us. It might be that. Let's hear another one, Easty. Here's Maureen.

Maureen says, "Hey, there's scrubs. Long time most scenario. Fellow Gray is no longer watcher. I'm no Hayley Kiyoko, but other to fiddle around with music making. Had to take a whack at a Dearbania jingle.

Time is very committed performance of up by Shania Twain. At the end of last week's pod was my in-spot. Hope you like it. Thanks for keeping me company in the Carly's ears. Thanks Maureen.

Here's your song. Okay. Who you're gonna call with the question on you? I have idea. Dearbania.

I can't. I'm realizing it's us. It's us. It's sorely us. Because we have the beat of our, it's our voice melody.

It has to be not some mystery. Rachel. Maybe we give some more rock tracks. Let's see one more. This is from Priyana.

This is a new idea for a jingle. This is not your voice. This is without a singing. Okay.

When you need a second opinion, because you don't know what to do right.

Dearbania. We're here for you. Wow. Here's the thing. I like it too.

I like it too. All great. I'm realizing it's our jingle. That is hard to add music too without it sounding like a children show. Yeah.

Yeah. One more. One more. Amy says, Hey, Bonnie and me. This is my past.

Dearbania, jingle. We love to hear. We all think about it. Feel free to take bits of it and tweak. However you want.

I'm a day one scrubber. I love tuning in every single week for the record. I did love the scrubber to dub tagline. And if I may still have missing it. Oh, thank you.

That is. I hope to hear from you all soon over the airwaves. Here's Amy's song. Oh, you're gonna call with the question on, yeah. I have an idea.

Oh, dearbania. Wow. I like it. That's some addition. I don't know how to do some.

Yeah. I like the ring because it's like. The sound effect is awesome. Yeah. Okay.

So I think what needs to happen. Yeah. Yeah. Is we need to find a melody sounding a little like childreny. You know?

Like the jingle. So it has a jingle. It's going to have a jingle cadence to it.

“But I think we need to give them more to work with.”

So the way the way we. Okay. So give me an example. We could do a wrap. I have an idea.

I have an idea. I have an idea. Okay. So who are you going to call with the question on you? I have an idea.

Call bot. No, dearbania. Don't we say it together. Okay. Go.

Who are you going to call with the question on you? I have an idea. Dearbania. Oh. It's my voice.

Well, you do your song like the hedgehog. Yeah. It just happens. Maybe we just do one more. That's like a little sing songy.

To like. Who are you? I'm going to call with the question on you. I have an idea. Dearbania.

It might just have to be misragedly. Just flows. It feels on brand kind of. Yeah. I don't know if we will.

But. Dearbania. It might just have to be misragedly. It just flows. It feels on brand kind of.

Yeah. I don't know if we will. Yeah.

Well, the problem is it's more on brand for me.

Less on brand for you. Yeah. I don't know that I'm cool, but you're much cooler than I. It's fine. I can say that.

I people know.

“I think that it's just finding a little more.”

Balance of it. Hmm. We're going to continue to search. But I think this. This part.

I'm realizing it's on us. Yes. It is on us. But I don't hate it. I'm really grateful for the submissions.

It's not you. It's us. We need to rearrange some things. Yeah. Okay.

Maybe we should get in the studio with a jingle creator. Jingle jingle? A jingle producer. Hmm. Okay.

I look into it. Hmm. I see a family has anyone that's too good right. I have someone I think we could work with. Who?

That's right. I mean, yeah. You aren't ready. Yeah. I think I have someone.

Okay. Okay. We're going to continue to search continues. And let's get into some Dear Bonnie. Let's do it.

All right. This was from anonymous. Trying to be a good mate of honor. Dear Bonnie and Mark and Easton. Hi.

I'm a demon listener. And I love you all.

She is the Tanya to my Becca.

She got engaged this past fall.

“And I'm trying so hard to be the best mate of honor.”

And be excited for her in this stage. Which I am. I couldn't be happier that she found her person. But it just can't seem to find the motivation to want to be involved with all the wedding events.

I had a baby just over a year ago and my life has changed so much. Wedding things just feel like a low priority for me. I'm trying to juggle learning how to be a mom to a toddler, working full-time, and moving. My husband and I just bought our dream forever home. My best friend also lives out of state.

So I have to buy a $500 flight every time she has a wedding event. So far, I've already traveled twice for her wedding events, engagement party and wedding dress shopping. And I have at least three more trips planned for wedding shower, bachelor party, and the wedding itself. I want to be involved, but feeling like this is a low priority for me and having to spend in scene amounts of money is just putting more stress on me. Not to mention that I'm expected to also plan the bachelor at, which I don't even know when I'll find the time to do.

She did all these things for me when she was my mate of honor. So I really want to return the favor and be there for her. It also doesn't help that she's been distantly lately. She's busy with her new friends who are local and she isn't talking with me nearly as much as we used to. Not for lack of trying on my side.

She has no idea I feel this way. I've been putting on a happy face and being supportive. So should I push through and put myself in debt or try to reduce my involvement slightly? And if so, how do I approach that conversation?

Thank you. You're amazing. This made of dishonor.

Oh. I, I would say do, do not put yourself in debt for this. This is not something. You're friend when it won't want you to put yourself in debt for this. I do think maybe there's a, um, like I loved that. Tonya had co-mose because Paulina is organized.

She's a planner and so we were able to kind of bounce off of each other and help each other with like the things that we were good at.

“And I think you should maybe connect with her new or friends who are local with her and just lean on them.”

Like I would just pick, hey, I know that, you know, I'm the mate of honor, but being out of state. I've really like, I feel a little bit overwhelmed with responsibility. Is there any way that you all that we can kind of delegate certain things for different people? Because you've said, well, I'll let you talk to this, but you were like, I wish I just made everyone a mate of honor. Because we all like, you know, we're equally involved in, in all the things. Yeah. And I think, um,

to the scrubber to anonymous, if you're able to kind of just reach out and like not put it all on yourself. They all should be taking responsibility and being a part of like celebrating her. And I also think too, like having, you're saying that she knows your friend doesn't know any of this is going on in your head. I do think having a conversation with her and not making it like starting off by saying like, I want to be there for you. I want to be the best mate of honor that I possibly can, but like I can't travel as much as I've been traveling.

Can we prioritize, like, what's really important for you for me to be there for? Maybe you can face time for a couple of dresses. Yeah. Shopping is like, to me, like, if my friends couldn't come to travel, I, I would, could care less. Do you know what I mean? I definitely needed, like, one per, at least one person there every time I went.

But like, I didn't need everybody there all the time. So yeah, she might not need you to come out for dress shopping. And that's five hundred dollars less in your, you know what I mean? So I think having that conversation with her, I do think as a best friend, she will understand that you're trying to juggle all these things, especially if you just moved and you just had a baby. But I also think that there's ways that you can be involved and show your love and support without physically being there for every single thing.

Do you know what I mean? Like, it's just coming up and being creative in different ways. And I think she would not want you to go into debt. I think there's lots of things that you can do that show that you care that don't involve flying out or spending money. Checking in with her constantly checking in, sending her any, like, inspo, asking her a few if she needs any help or anything you can do to help organize.

I know you're saying it seems like a low priority because you just had a baby and I can't speak to that because I've never had a baby.

But I also think this is a time and your best friends life. This is her top priority and this is her only chance that she's going to get to have this wedding. And especially because you said she was so there for you when you were doing it,

“I think you need to remember how important and how special that was for you in that season of life,”

so that you can show up for her in that season of life, given what you're going through right now. Yeah, I think have an honest conversation because you're saying you feel like she's being distant. And if you're so close that you're each other's made of honor, you probably know each other really well. Yeah, I can tell even over text when Tanya is distant from me. So I was, I was angry last week.

I know and I could feel that. I'm going to feel, I felt that you could feel that because you followed up with a several text after and I was like, I'm just going to thumbs them up. I know and I, I felt that. But I think the thing is she's probably sensing that you're feeling overwhelmed and can tell that it's not a priority free,

be like, I am so excited to celebrate you and to be fully transparent.

Like, I feel like I'm drowning and I feel like it's just, I'm feeling a little overwhelmed. I want to be there for you like what Tanya was saying, whether it's face timing in on the dress, you know, fittings, I can't, I realistically cannot be there for every single one right now, but I want to be there in the way that I can. I want to be able to help you organize things and plan things from afar, whatever I can do to help that's not me physically being there.

And when you are physically there, like, especially even like the wedding weekend when you're physically there, try to make it a priority to like, help her in ways and like, like, stimming the clothes, getting everything ready, like, just like being there and doing things that that alleviate her stress or whatever she's feeling.

“But, um, I think when you're made of honor, like, you can just be transparent.”

She's not, she's not oblivious to the fact that you have a lot going on, but her priority is her wedding. And so I think you reach out to the other girls and just be like, hey, is there any way we can kind of, that you all can take on some of this because I really want to show up for her, but it's just not realistic,

but do not go into debt over this.

Yeah, and I feel like you're just doing all this because you're not having the conversation with her. I think once you have the conversation with her, you're going to feel so much better. Yeah, you're going to feel lighter. So I would say, give yourself a moment to be a made of honor by having an honest conversation with the bride and relieving yourself of some of the, the expectations.

Ooh, you're going to call with the question on, yeah, I have an idea. We dear, Bonnie at that, um, that we missed some of these, uh, jingle options. We have one more submission. Oh, my gosh. Yes, let us hear it.

Eastern.

“Let's play one more that we got this from Anna.”

Here we go. Hi, he's coming in team, apologies in advance because I'm a little bit sick, but this is my idea for a new dear Bonnie intro. It's supposed to be, like if it sounds muffled through a microphone, or at least have a sound effect similar to that.

But this is what it would sound like. Hey, baby. I think we need some advice today. Yeah, thank you. You know what?

It's the perfect time to send a new note. Okay. Dear Bonnie. In honest defense, I did put the effect on there. And it was probably a little too heavy.

I was doing kind of fast, but, uh, yeah, that's, that's another thing. I like the muffled idea.

“Yeah, like, like, oh, like, should we call, should we not, a lot to work with here?”

Yeah, we have a lot of ideas. Think yellow the best thing about. Um, okay. We're going to go to, we're going to take a quick break. Yeah, we're going to come back because somebody's liking,

and some of your boyfriend is liking some thirst trap in Serampus. [music] In 2023, a story gripped the UK of looking horror and disbelief. The nurse, who should have been in charge of caring for tiny babies, is now the most prolific child killer in modern British history.

Everyone thought they knew how it ended. A verdict, a villain, a nurse named Lucy Lepby. Lucy Lepby has been found guilty. But what if we didn't get the full story? A moment you look at the whole picture of the case collection.

I'm Amanda Knox, and in the new podcast doubt, the case of Lucy Lepby, we follow the evidence in here from the people that lived it. To ask what really happened when the world decided who Lucy Lepby was. No voicing of any skepticism are doubt. It'll cause so much harm at every single level of the British establishment of this is wrong.

Listen to doubt, the case of Lucy Lepby, on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

China's Ministry of State Security is one of the most mysterious and powerful

spy agencies in the world. But in 2017, the FBI got inside. This is a special agent, a legal, special agent, Bradley Hall. This MSS officer has no idea the US government is on to him. But the FBI has his chats, texts, emails, even his personal diary.

Here how they got it on the 6th Bureau podcast. I now have several terabytes of an MSS officer, no doubt, no question of his life. And that's the unicorn. No one had ever seen anything like that. It was unbelievable.

and how one man's ambition and mistakes opened its fault of secrets.

“Listen to the 6th Bureau on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts,”

wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Clayton Nackard, and in 2022, I was the lead of ABC's The Bachelor. Unfortunately, it didn't go according to plan.

He became the first bachelor to ever have his final rose rejected.

The internet turned on him. If I could press a button and rewind it, I would. But what happened to Clayton after the show? Made even bigger headlines. It began as a one night stand, and ended in a courtroom,

with Clayton at the center of a very strange paternity scandal. The media is here. This case has gone viral. The dating contract. Agreed to date me, but I'm also suing you. This is unlike anything I've ever seen before.

I'm Stephanie Young. This is Love Trap. This season, an epic battle of he said she said, and the search for accountability in a sea of lies. I'm done nothing to get hurt. I'm a f*cking bachelor.

Listen to Love Trap on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts.

I'm Nancy Glass, host of the burden of guilt season 2 podcast. This is a story about a horrendous lie that destroyed two families. Late one night, Bobby Gumpride became the victim of a random crime. He pulls the gun. Tells me to lie down on the ground.

He identified Germain Hudson as the perpetrator. Germain was sentenced to 99 years. And like Laura, this can't be real. I thought it was a mistaken identity. The best lie is partial truth.

For 22 years, only two people knew the truth. Until a confession changed everything. I was a monster. Listen to burden of guilt season 2 on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

All right, we're back. We're back. We're back. Wow. Did you hear that?

Deep inhale? Yeah. From time to time. Yeah. A severe sniff there.

Sorry. This is from anonymous. Do you're back at Tony, Mark and Easton? I've noticed my boyfriend quickly likes alone. Oh, sorry.

I've noticed that my boyfriend frequently likes. Salona Mars Instagram post, especially when she's posing or looking sexy. She's obviously beautiful woman. And I totally understand we all have celebrity crushes. That said, like he almost every single post feels a bit much to me.

I can't help but feel a little insecure, especially because I don't look like her. I'm not sure if this is something I should bring up with him or from overthinking it. For context for about 30 and I've been dating for about four months. Thanks in advance for the advice. Oh.

The dating for four months makes a tricky. I know. Because you can't, like. You can't show your cards fully. I mean, you can.

No. If not, now win. If not two years in. Who? You.

“I think you should just say, hey, I have noticed that.”

You always like, alone and Mars Instagram photos.

And for whatever reason, it triggers an insecurity in me. And I obviously want to make sure that I'm working on that part of myself. But for me, it feels. It makes me feel a little disrespected when you're liking. Another girl's like sexy photos.

Maybe you don't even say alone. Maybe you just say, I noticed on Instagram, I see your name pop up and it will be like a sexy. Yeah. I feel like not saying, maybe not saying that, like, you notice that he's liking all of her photos specifically. Hmm.

But maybe saying, there's people I follow where I see you. It's the sexy ones that really is like the issue. It's not liking another girl's photos photos photos photos photos. Yeah. It's like, yeah.

It's the sexy photos. And I feel like that's what's throwing you. So I feel like that's the conversation. And if that would, if Robbie were liking photos of like girls in their bikinis, it would make me feel a certain type of way. Absolutely.

I would not like it. I think you're totally valid.

“I mean, that's, I think, you know, everyone's different.”

They're like four months. Are they, if they're just dating, if they're not boyfriend and girlfriend, then that's like, his door is. Yeah. Yeah.

If you're not. If you're not official. If you're not close off, then like, she doesn't really have, you know what I mean?

it does make things more serious. It does give you kind of more free reign to kind of have these conversations. Right. If they're just dating, they're not closed off. They're just chatting.

If you're not an in an official relationship with him, I don't think you say anything. Yeah.

But take note of it because maybe you don't like that guy who's like always like he's sexy photos.

Look at who he's following. If it's all just like girls and models and bikini models. Go see if he's following puppy melons. Puppy melons. That's what I'm saying.

“But if you're all official, I think you just say, hey, I,”

when I see you liking other girls' photos on Instagram, it makes you sexy photos. Yeah, sexy photos. Yeah. I think you clarify sexy photos. Mm-hm.

It just makes me feel insecure and just feels disrespectful. Well, you could even say like, I just don't like it. Yeah. I don't like it. Yeah.

Doesn't make me feel good. It's like too bad. And he's like, oh, it is a matter. And it's making them. Then four months will be four months in one day.

Yeah. I just think, well, could have that reaction. But I think you just have an honest conversation. I don't think you come at attacking him just by, hey, it makes me feel insecure. And I don't like it.

And, you know, I just, we're early on in a relationship.

But that's just a boundary for me. Yeah. Because you're still getting to know each other. And like what you're having in those conversations early on though, it really is. Yeah.

Because you don't want to come across as like, needy and the word is. But here's the thing. Here's the thing. You're not being needy or you're not doing anything wrong by not liking that. We're in like this weird world where like we have photos of people at our fingertips

and the ability to like them, which then could just lead to an innocent DM. That turns into something not innocent. It's just, it's setting the boundary for yourself. And that's strength. It's power.

It is. It's just really hard having those conversations. I know. But you can do this anonymous. Yeah.

And if not now, one. Don't let it rest. It's not like in your head. Ooh. Yeah.

All right. Our last year, Bonia. Our final one of the week. This is from Ashley, a psychic flashback. I was listening to the May 13th, 2019 episode.

Thanks for the specifics. And you were talking about the guy that the psychic said,

“Tony would meet and said, you would be, is she said it would be a parent?”

But I was thinking now it's Robbie. It was a parent. In the very next sentence, you guys said, Diplo would be on and he has great hands just knowing what I know now. It seems like fate with Robbie.

He just didn't know it yet. This episode also had me cracking up because you guys told someone sister that they were pregnant and Tony's fake voice had me laughing out loud. I love this podcast.

I love you all so much. I love how Tony is so unapologetically herself. How markets choked up when somethings. We happens. And how Eastern loves things so fiercely and gets so excited.

And how effortlessly hilarious and cool back is. Thanks for being here. Hope you have a magical day. How effortlessly cool back is. And effortlessly hilarious and cool.

Back again. It gets a cool card.

You don't decide never get the cool card.

But you're so unapologetically yourself. Which is cool. Is it? Yeah. It is cool.

It's fine. I'm fine with it. Like I love it. I don't all love that. I love that.

Oh, my gosh. It is so true. It does have good hands. She says it would be a parent. But it and he's a parent.

But it kind of crazy. The initials were not right. The initials were not right. No. Not even.

Can you say them now? Since it's all said and done and you're married. No. Why? Why?

Because I don't even want to like. It's like bad vibes.

“Do you know that episode of friends when Monica and Chandler married?”

And then TV's like Monica. I found this guy that or she tells Chandler like she thinks that's kind of perfect. I agree. So funny. Yeah.

He's a cool. Yeah. It's like that. I think it's like those initials. I don't need to muddy the water.

Yeah. I think you're good. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you.

And he has good hands. And he's a parent. And he's a parent. That is pretty crazy. Mm-hmm.

Yeah. I love the attention to detail. I do too. Especially. I appreciate the flashback too.

Because I feel like I would be interested especially in the like early days. And I was eating Robbie the early days when you were dating Haley and like weren't sharing. Like what you were saying. Do you know what I mean? That feels so foreign to me.

Yeah. That time in my life. I know. But it was just yonder. I mean, it was four years ago.

Yeah. I was thinking about. Well, what were we talking about? Before you were part of it. So Haley's fans started a trend where like it's the girls like girls new song playing

from the trailer. And it's like girls like girls the music video. And it's them in 2015. And then it's like a swipe.

And it's them now. So I did it. And I was on the bachelor. My season of the bachelor was airing. On 20th and 20th.

When the music video came out. Crazy. A world ago. Yeah. Really.

But like the world ago that brought me here. Yeah. You know. So what a full circle. I love you guys.

Thank you all for always submitting Dearbanya questions.

They're always so lovely to read. And also relatable knowing that everyone's going through. Everybody's going through something. And even though I don't wish ill on anybody.

“It's I think it's nice to know that there's in life that there are ups.”

And downs. And there's celebrations. And there's trials. And we're all in it together. True.

If you ever want to submit one, you can do it on Instagram at scrubbingin pod. Or you can email us at [email protected]. We love hearing from you. We're working on the jingle. Thank you everyone for your submissions.

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