Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

Dear Banya: Passenger Princess

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I'm Nancy Glass, host of the burden of guilt season 2 podcast.

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Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. It's ever, ever season this season for scrubbing in. So I have to tell you something. Okay, and I feel like you're going to agree with this because you just, I just know you are.

But normally, I'm like, I have become a passenger princess. Okay, Robbie just enjoys driving all the time. He does not enjoy being a passenger, he likes driving. So when we go places, he drives. Me too.

I'm usually just driving myself for the kids.

I'm never driving him. I see, do you know what I mean? Yeah. So for his birthday, I did some activities that I didn't want to tell him. So I drove him to these activities, right?

So he was in my car. And he is the worst backseat driver. Like, he's just chirp chirp chirp in a way, but he wasn't wrong. And that's nice of you to acknowledge. Yeah, like I don't really stop.

I drive really slow. So I will say that I'm like a grandma. I drive really slow. However, I don't fully stop at stop signs. I kind of just like roll through, roll through.

But I go slow. I'm going slow. I'm like speeding through. Like I'm still going slow.

I'm just like slowly approaching and then slowly I'm off.

And then up the canyon's way, there's like windy, kind of like these windy roads. And I don't really stand my side. I just like take up the whole whole road.

Because I've never seen any other cars coming around.

And he was like, babe, if there was another car coming around the corner, or like that would be so bad. And I was like, you're right. Yeah, it would be. It would be bad.

But I haven't seen one ever in driving these streets since 99. Well, let's just start trying to stay within the lines that are there for a reason. But they don't have lines on them. They're lineless. Yes?

What road are you talking about? Random roads. They're lineless. Because they're small. They're small road.

OK, so like they're lineless. The residential streets often have lines. That's what you're saying. Yes. Oh, it's a road.

I see. It's residential. Don't you gotcha. I'm not like going down the hollowed boulevard. OK, let's go.

Like all the other side of the road. I personally, so I too am the driver of our relationship. Haley is very much the passenger princess. And it's not because she doesn't want to drive. It's because I'm like absolutely not it.

Because I'm not kidding, like nine times out of 10, we will bigger because she will do something. And she'll be like, babe, I swear. Because I'll go, I'm a bad backseat driver too. So it's a bad combo because she'll miss, like,

not see someone has their brakes on and slam on her brakes.

Or she'll be staring at me.

And I'm like, can you look at the road and shoot? So like you're just so beautiful. I get distracted. I'm like, well, then I need to be driving. So that's our role, you know?

- Uh-huh. - You're so scary to ride in the car with. - Why? - Yeah. - You'll just be like, let me replay this song and like, floods it with your phone. And I'm like, we're going down literally

big admins, like zooming. I don't consider you a slow driver, actually. - Really? - I don't think so.

- Really? - I think I'm always quite scared

of how erratic and fast we're going. - That's crazy. - Yeah. - That is like a long day because I drive very slow. - Well, I don't, maybe it's slow and erratic.

Either way, I always am thinking if it's my choice,

if I'm riding in the cartonia, I'm going to offer to drive. Never not offering to drive. - Well, it's all been noted and I'm gonna start taking driving lessons because I think I do. I think there's some things that you can correct

without needing lessons though. I think it's stopping at a stop. - Yeah. - Stopping at a stop sign. You can do that. Staying on one side of the road.

- Do a bull. - Going to speed limit. - I do want to speed limit. - I drive it like the slow lane on the freeway. - But that's also dangerous.

- Why? - Why? - If you're going to slow on the freeway, you're not going to slow, please, please, please. - Please respect. - Please respect. - I have some respect on my name.

- Sometimes you're a conversation that's like, our relationship really mirrors each other.

- Me and Robbie and you and Haley. - Yes, yeah.

- With you being Haley and Robbie and I being like. - Yeah. - It's tough being in a relationship with us, so I understand. - Wow, you're so self-aware right today.

- I'm nothing if not self-aware. - Nothing. - Self-aware. - We're skipping the jingle until we have what we want. So don't worry.

- Now you're just gonna get us singing live each time. - You're gonna come with the question on you. - I have an idea. - Dear Bonna! - That was Amy Rose, by the way.

- Yeah. - From Sonic the Hedgehog.

- We rose, but we'll never know.

- We really thought Tonny can't channel Amy Rose unless she's singing the dear Bonna. - It's a complicated situation we're in. - You know who's gonna be really sad one day? - Ew.

- When I finally get my role in some animated movie, the Sonic people will come crawling back to me. - You're just watching. - Are you gonna hang up on him when they do that? - Yeah, I'm gonna say, sorry.

I'm already gonna be in Frozen 17. (laughs) - Wow, we have a long way before she gets hers. Her start. (laughs)

Her voice was weird. - Are you interested in Belle though? Do you think you see her? - That's why I went to Belle. She all are pretty simpateco.

Is that the word like in line with each other? - But it's a rivalry now. She took your job. - Only on one side is, so excited rivalry. - It is.

You're gonna take her job from Frozen. By the way, she's coming on the show on Friday. So tomorrow. So yeah, you're welcome to call her out. - Should promote this movie?

- No, she's talking about the actor awards. - Oh, the sag awards. - Yeah, formerly known as, yeah.

- Oh my gosh, you should have a Amy Rose voice off.

(laughs) I wonder if she has it down. - I'm sure she auditioned for it. And that's what she has to use. - Yeah, I'm sure.

- But maybe you could just give her some tips. (laughs) - Face to face. - Face to face. - You're just like eyeing her down and she's like,

"What's your wife doing?" - Weird. Why is this girl looking at me so weird? - Um, dear Bonia, shall we? - From an out of a shallow scrubbing in crew.

My first time riding in 'cause I genuinely don't know

what to do or who to talk to about this. I'm three months postpartum after my second child. I went back to work and I decided to join my work indoor soccer team. 'Cause I played soccer in high school.

I was nervous and I felt vulnerable 'cause my first time doing something this active since the baby and my body is different now. I had my husband coming brought my two-year-old daughter in Newborn's son.

I was out of shape, but I felt proud of myself. I could hear my two-year-old cheer for me from the stands. On the way home, my husband told me he heard a woman say that if I was just coming back from my baby,

maybe I should have joined a less competitive team. What is she doing here anyway? He told me this 'cause he said it made a mad and he wanted to offend me. Ultimately though, he's telling me the story made me sad

I started to cry. First, it's supposed to be a fun work league. It's not supposed to be competitive. Second, I was so nervous and that sort of confirmed my fears and I felt dumb going to play.

I was proud and happy my kid could see me out there, but it felt like that all was out to window after hearing that story. I need to advice I was to do next. My work wants me to come play

and my husband's trying to tell me don't listen to other people. Still play, it's easier said than done.

The way I tell anyone about this comment that was said,

I'd love to keep playing soccer

and find my daughter who cheered for me,

but I'm having a hard time putting myself in a vulnerable position again. And he thought it'd advise her, "Welcome. "Thank you for being a space where I can write down my thoughts "and feelings, even if you don't read this on the podcast."

- Well, you show up every single week. - Oh my God. - Perfect. Because, you know what, I can say this because I've recently just started playing in the bat and it's not even a league.

The basketball thing I'm playing is just like a pickup basketball game. Going and doing something like that new with people that you don't know very well or only know on like a work level

and putting yourself in a vulnerable position, especially when you know like you're not at your peak

athleticism or being in shape is so powerful.

And I hope that you don't let, I heard this thing that the day don't let the criticism of losers affect you. And I was like, wow, that is such a thing because why do we listen and let things get in our head

when it's from people like you're such a bad ass woman going out there having a baby and then going to play soccer? Like, I couldn't even play soccer right now. It's so much running.

So I say, don't listen. Go out there, show them why you wanted to play. And if you for whatever reason feel like, hey, this like feels a little too advanced for where I'm at right now, I wanna join.

If you feel that way, take a step back but she doesn't. She's literally saying she's having fun. She loves having her kids seeing her out there. She's enjoying it.

- That's what I'm saying. But I'm saying if she gets to a point where she's like dang, like the struggle or you know, I'm like, but as long as you feel good about being out there,

I say you show up every week. - It just bothers. I know it's so much easier said than done. It's so easy for us to say here and say, don't listen to what anybody has to say,

like live your life unapologetically be you.

And like I'm the first person to say that,

but I know it's so much easier said than done. But at the end of the day, like that's your life. You know what I mean? You don't wanna have regrets about something because of somebody else's stupid opinion.

You know what I mean? And we get it all the time. People are constantly like, even in our Facebook group calling us out for things that we, or how I act,

or if I'm annoying or if I'm this or that, if I listen to people, I would literally drive myself nuts and trying to just like appease every single person. At the end of the day, you have to live your life

authentically to who you are. You wanna go out there, you wanna play the game, you're having fun. It seems like this is the only person that has a problem with it.

And it's not her problem, it's not her business. I stand on business.

- I think you should go up to the girl who said it

and say I heard that I'm kidding. I heard that you were talking about me. And I wanted to know if you were still feeling that way. But I also think-- - She's not gonna do that.

- I'm just kidding, I'm kidding, I would never do that.

- Why don't we do that? Why don't we do that? So we just like, showing up in like being good at soccer is the best form of a response. - Yesterday we were whenever day was Robby and I were out

to breakfast and we had Sunny with us. And this girl at the table was like, kind of just like giving us these like vibes. That's what I was keeping Sunny like on the other side, right? And she was like being so chill.

She didn't jump on her, she didn't. She was just there, okay. So the girl's front comes back to the table. They start speaking in their different language. That Robby knows.

And they're like talking mad, oh my dog. They're like, oh my god, that girl's dog like just scared me. And the other girl was like, yeah, her fur just got all over my food. And Robby was like, they were talking mad, you know what?

On Sunny. And I was like, why didn't you tell me we were there because I literally would have turned to the table and been like, maybe if you're trying to talk ish on somebody else, speak a different language

because my husband kind of understands you and I know exactly what you're saying. I was Robby would have responded in the language. I know, I know, he's just like, he's an unproblematic king. Like he just like can't be bothered.

And I was like so pissed because he said it as we were walking out. And I was like, I'm tempted to go back there and just like go off. Why don't we do that? We should do it more.

People need to not be able to just do this stuff. Just speak their minds. No, like this girl's saying whatever this is the soccer team soccer was saying. It's like, no, I'm going to say anonymous.

What do you get?

What do you get out of not going back to this soccer team?

Like what do you get out of letting her win? Yeah, nothing, nothing. You're just going to be like dang. I wish I was playing soccer weekly. Nobody got in her head and now she's feeling insecure.

We really know. I know. But I need to take that into security. And even if you're scared, even if you're nervous, do it anyway because the more you show up and continue to play,

the easier it's going to get, not only psychologically, but physically, it's going to get easier. The more you're playing, you're going to feel better. You're going to feel back to your high school self.

You're going to feel proud that you're out there.

And that girl's going to be like, dang, she's pretty good. The insecurity is from the other woman. The woman who said that.

She clearly wish she could be out there.

Absolutely. The day you stop caring about what others think is the day you start living. That's it. And one more thing. I know it's hard.

It's hard. The next time you score a goal and you're running back towards midfield, I want you to look at her. Yes, I want you to stare her down. Yep, that's it.

And she may not even know why. Anonymous, I need an update, but you better be on the soccer field next week. And if it's in LA, we'll come cheer you on. OK, this next one is it's not funny, but it's a dilemma. We should break beforehand.

But I don't want to do this one because we've never gotten.

Yeah. And they close to this before. Yeah. And it's funny. [MUSIC PLAYING]

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Jermaine was sentenced to 99 years. And like, lower this can be real. I thought it was a mistaken identity. The best lie is partial truth. For 22 years, only two people knew the truth.

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I've been a day-one listener, I love you for so much.

I only listen to one podcast, and it's scrubbing in. Best vibes, easy going, makes me laugh if you have it all. That's nice. I need your text. I have a six year old Scottish fold cat.

She's super cute, soft, and a lover, but she's a covert baby, and didn't meet anyone

else new for the first year of her life.

And as a result, she's incredibly mean and scary to anyone who comes into my house. She has nine pounds of terror, and everyone knows it. She's caused injuries. My sister-in-law Banger had a fridge running away from her. A friend got attacked on the foot for just standing in my kitchen, and my boyfriend filled

on the stairs and sprained his elbow after she missed and lunged in him. My siblings won't let me babysit their kids because they're so scared of her. She won't let anyone but me pet her, and occasionally we cuddle. When people come over, I lock her in my bedroom. I have a huge room, lots of windows, and not cruel, I promise.

But I do this because I'm constantly worried she'll attack someone. And here's the part I feel awful about. My boyfriend is thinking about moving in, and I'm considering rehoming her. I love her, but I don't feel super connected. I crave a connection.

We don't have. I've even thought about asking the breeder to take her back.

Most people are devastated when they're animal passes, and I'm here.

And here I am contemplating giving mine away. I feel terrible, but I also don't want my boyfriend uncomfortable or anyone else getting hurt. What would you do? Love you all.

Thank you for making my week twice a week. Okay, this is a real dilemma, and I'm sorry you're going through it. But the injuries of everyone's gathering and pursuing a 9-pound cat is just catching her lunging on him. Like my friend, I'm all like on this too.

I was a sister-in-law running and banging her head into the fridge, that's just great. But this is clearly a really a problem for you, and we're sorry you're going through this. Um, and that's no much long time, but I also don't know much about cats, like cats have a long life. Like they say like nine lives, like, this she's going to, you're going to have this cat

for. Between 12 and 18 years. No, not much longer. I'm being told. There's no way.

12-18 is a long time.

I think 20 is like the oldest cat I've ever been around.

And the check Scottish fold cats, 11 to 15. And what are dogs? Average lifespan. Isn't it summer? Forever.

Forever. Don't talk about that right now. Okay. I don't know much about cats. Because cats lived much longer than dogs.

Huh. Learn something new every day. I don't know if you can train cats, like, I don't know if you don't have a dog. You can't, like, you can tend to like, like, cat camp. You know how you can send dogs away to like a trainer, and they come work on behavioral

issues. I don't know if cats have that same. They must. I don't know. They're different.

You know? It's a different. It's a feline. It's a, yeah. I have no issue.

If you find someone that is going to love the cat and, like, be able to, to, to deal with this cat's temperament, and it's all of its, all the things that it comes with. It's terrorizing behavior. I am not opposed to rehoming. Rehoming and, like, being diligent and finding a nice home is one thing, but I feel

like just giving her to a shelter. I don't support that. I don't. Yeah. I think that would be really sad.

So I would say maybe contact the breeder first, because they might be able to, they

might have, like, a weightless, so they might be able to rehome it to, for example. Yeah. I don't know, like, someone that would really wants, just a cat in my, I don't know if this whole works, but maybe it's just the old personalities don't mesh. Maybe she'll find someone and be super loving and cuddley.

But also you have a life that's, like, very, it feels very active a lot of people around. Yeah. Like, some people don't have very social lives or, like, a little bit to themselves. So, like, the older person. Yeah.

This might be a better pairing for somebody like that. So I would say, don't feel shame in needing to rehome. If you can find a place that's going to love and nurture this cat, yeah. They're also, sort of Scottish folds, I think are very, like, expensive and I just know Taylor Swift has.

I don't know anything about cat, um, literally nothing. But I'm really sorry you're going through this, because I know it's a hard decision, but it seems like once you get the, once you can find someone to take her on, you'll be happy to have her off your hands is what it sounds like. Yeah.

Taylor Swift has two Scottish fold cats, Meredith Graen, Olivia Benson, are both Scottish fold cats. And I think that they're pretty cuddly and sweet.

So I think, unfortunately, I think our listeners thought that's what she was getting

in.

Unfortunately, did not.

But I would say, you know, I don't know, looking to training cat training. Yeah. That's what I would do. And then if not, I was one.

It's based on phase one fails, phase two, if phase one fails, seek a loving home that will

match this sweet little terror of a cat's lifestyle. I'm just like, Phoebe's nine pounds, I'm picturing Phoebe just like, hissing and chasing after. We can get scary sometimes. No, she doesn't know.

Sometimes, she can. She's, she has some mentality. She's, she's stout. She's dense, dense. Yeah.

That's a density. Stout isn't excellent. Yeah. Um, good luck, Lisa. We're wishing you the best.

Mm. Good luck to your family. I didn't like to everyone involved is at risk. Whoa. Don't you add.

All right. High scrubbing in squad.

I'm a long time listener and lover of the pot.

I'm very much a backup. I hope you can help me navigate a dilemma I'm dealing with. I've been dating my boyfriend about six months and he decided to throw his mom. I've got a surprise birthday party for an upcoming milestone birthday. I love that he wants to celebrate her in such a thoughtful way.

I've been helping with the planning. I enjoy that kind of thing. And he's really not the best at it. Here's where it gets tricky. I've never met her.

I just met his twin daughter for the first time less than a week ago at a group studying

at church. Going to this party doesn't feel like the right move. I don't want his mom to feel obligated to spend time with me. Her own celebration when she should just be enjoying herself and going from a very brief introduction with his daughter right into a big family event feels like a lot.

To make him more complicated, he told me he invited his daughter's mom, her mom's boyfriend, and her mom to the party. He's also mentioned multiple times in the past that his daughter's mom won't like me, which has another way or a awkwardness. I do want to add this.

I know he has dreams one day of having a big cohesive blended family with his future spouse and his daughter's family. I'm totally on board with that. I'd love for us to be amicably attending events together and supporting his daughter as United Front.

I'm just not convinced that jumping in this situation this early is the right way to build that dynamic. His mom was out of town. My neighbor before the party is not an option.

His daughter's mom and him were never romantically involved, so it's not a lingering feeling

situation. He really wants me to go and is clearly annoyed that I'm hesitant. I've met some extended family and his brother but only once. I want to be a supportive girlfriend. I know how much the one this party means to him, but I can't shake the feeling that

I'm walking into a nightmare. Do I go on supporting him or is it reasonable to set a boundary here and sit this one out? Love the girlfriend with no onboarding. Hmm.

Hmm. Hmm. Why have all I need to know? What do you mean? Because she says, I'm trying to find exactly where it's.

She said it, but um, she said that her boyfriend really wants her to go. That to me is a green flag. The fact that he's not trying to hide you and then like keep you from this party. Imagine he tried to say, no, no, don't come to this party. And like, that would be even more annoying.

I think I think you'd feel certain type of way if you didn't want you to come to this party. The fact that he wants you to come to this party. It's not going to be about you.

You're not going to make the mom feel weird because you've never met.

You went, you go, you'd be super nice meet her and then be on your merry way. And just be a nice fun guest of the party. Don't make it about you and go and have a good time. I don't think it's like, I don't think it's setting a boundary.

I also don't think you need to rush into anything.

You know what I mean? Especially if you think you're going to be with this guy for a long time. If you're not writing, you're not comfortable. But I feel like the fact that he wants you to go is a green good sign. I agree.

I was going to suggest because she said two lives out of town. I don't know if it's like they're driving for the day and then coming back. I don't know. But I was thinking, I wonder if they could set up like go the day before and they could go have dinner with his mom. Just so it doesn't feel like you're like meeting her for the first time at the party.

You know what I mean? Or even like a FaceTime or something. Yeah, just something where you kind of get a sense of getting like meeting each other before a party. But I think even though I totally validate your hesitation and like the things that you're listing out that would be uncomfortable. But if you just go, don't feel pressure to sit with his mom or entertain his mom just go and be more of like a support for your boyfriend that clearly wants you to be a part.

And don't overthink the like meeting for the first time part of it. And if you can make plans and go up a little earlier the day before, maybe you can go have dinner or you can go to the house just to say hey. So that that like initial icebreaker moment is out before the party. Yeah. And if it is that the party just going to be like I'm so happy to be here and I'm so happy to meet you on your birthday like just be you.

Yeah, happy birthday.

What can I get you to drink?

Yeah.

Let's take a look together.

Oh, he's breaks the ice. Yeah. I don't drink. Yeah. I mean read, read the book.

Yeah. What about her before you ask about the shot? Yeah. I think this is such a green flag. Yeah.

I'm like not a boundary that you need to set.

And you don't need his daughter's mom to like you. It'd be great if she does. Oh, my god. I don't need nothing to prove to her. Just be nice if she wants to like you.

If she already doesn't like if you if you already doesn't like you. No. She didn't say that. He said she probably won't. I know.

Like it's already assumed then don't have expectations. Just go and be yourself. Maybe all will hit it off and it'll surprise everybody. And maybe he's right. Maybe she's just not easy.

Like maybe she's. Has a hard time liking anyone that's new. Yeah. That's not on you. I think you go.

Be you. Be the star that you are.

And don't feel like you have to like prove yourself.

Totally. Because he wants you there. Yeah. Which is key. Yes.

Which we love. Which we love. I think we're going to play the birthday game. Oh. But we're going to take a quick break before we play.

I love that you love playing the birthday. Birthday game. Keep coming back for more. Because you rarely win. You know, she did win recently when you weren't here.

So I'm not sure if it's that she rarely wins or that you always win.

I get so lucky though. Like I know. I just look. So I'm hoping luck is on my side. Today I have a feeling to date.

I have a feeling to date. I'm on my side. Here we go. Okay. We'll be back with birthdays.

I'm Nancy Glass, host of the burden of guilt season 2 podcast.

This is a story about a horrendous lie that destroyed two families. Late one night Bobby Gumpride became the victim of a random crime. He pulls the gun. Tells me to lie down on the ground. He identified to mean Hudson as the perpetrator.

Jermaine was sentenced to 99 years. And like Laura, this can't be real. I thought it was a mistaken identity. The best lie is partial truth. For 22 years only two people knew the truth.

Until a confession changed everything. I was a monster. Listen to burden of guilt season 2 on the iHeart Radio app. Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. In 2023, a story gripped the UK of looking horror and disbelief.

The nurse who should have been in charge of caring for tiny babies is now the most prolific child killer in modern British history. Everyone thought they knew how it ended. A verdict of villain, a nurse named Lucy Leppi. Lucy Leppi has been found guilty. But what if we didn't get the full story?

A moment you look at the whole picture of the case collapses. I'm Amanda Knox and in the new podcast doubt the case of Lucy Leppi. We follow the evidence and hear from the people that lived it. To ask what really happened when the world decided who Lucy Leppi was. No voicing of any skepticism are doubt.

It'll cause so much harm at every single level of the British establishment of this is wrong. Listen to doubt the case of Lucy Leppi on the iHeart Radio app. Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

China's Ministry of State Security is one of the most mysterious and powerful

spy agencies in the world. But in 2017, the FBI got inside. This is Special Agent Regal, Special Agent Bradley Hall. This MSS officer has no idea the US government is on to him. But the FBI has his chats, texts, emails, even his personal diary.

Here how they got it on the 6th Bureau podcast. I now have several terabytes of an MSS officer, no doubt, no question of his life. And that's the unicorn. No one had ever seen anything like that. It was unbelievable.

This is a story of the inner workings of the MSS. And how one man's ambition and mistakes opened its fault of secrets. Listen to the 6th Bureau on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Clayton Eckard, and in 2022, I was the lead of ABC's The Bachelor.

Unfortunately, it didn't go according to plan. He became the first bachelor to ever have his final rose rejected. The internet turned on him.

If I could press a button and rewind it all, I would.

But what happened to Clayton after the show?

Made even bigger headlines.

It began as a one night stand, and ended in a courtroom,

with Clayton at the center of a very strange paternity scandal. The media is here. This case has gone viral. The dating contract. Agreed to date me, but I'm also suing you. Please search for it.

This is unlike anything I've ever seen before. I'm Stephanie Young. This is Love Trap. This season, an epic battle of he said she said, and the search for accountability in a sea of lies. I am done nothing to get pregnant by the f*ck Brassler!

Listen to Love Trap on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. We're back. I've got here seven celebrities with a birthday this week. All right.

We're going to start with Tanya. Okay. You'll give the agent back. We'll say higher and lower. We'll go back and forth. And whoever gets the most of the seven correct is our winner.

All right, Tanya, we begin with you. You knew he was going to birthday this week.

Dakota Fanning has a birthday this week.

And I'm asking you how old is she turning this week, Tanya? Is Dakota the older the younger? Well, I can't answer that question. I'm going to say Dakota is turning 29. 29 Becca is older a younger, we'll go that way.

He's older. She's 32. Very nice Becca is off to an early lead. I just know she's older than that. Hell fanning is the older one though. No, she's the younger one.

She was. All right, Becca, this one's for you Emily Blunt. What do you think about Emily Blunt? What kind of birthday we're looking at there? I'm going to guess Emily is...

44. You can turn 44 that is incorrect. Tanya is Emily Blunt older or younger than 44. She is turning 43. That's right.

It's the back as that's what it is. That's okay. I'm so sad I'll miss it.

Now, Tanya, you should have an advantage on this one.

I think you did it in briefly. Josh Groben. No. Arthur. I talked to him on radio.

You raised me up? Yeah. Yeah. You raised free. He kind of did it.

That was the one where she crowdsourced all of her responses amongst the staff. I got a really nice back in 4th ago. Yeah. But the second she tried is... Tanya is older again.

So I didn't have anybody around. So he's an happy Saturday? No. I can't remember. That was Matthew Perry got happy Saturday.

Yeah. But she said something to him on her own without running it by to meet me. I know you like it. I know you like it.

That you never heard from me.

Good riddance. You know? Yeah.

How old is Josh Groben turning this week?

47. Okay. Going 47. Older a younger backer. Younger.

He's turning 45. That's right. Back is off to a 3-0 lead. We might have to go and see if she gets a clean sweep. Young but.

That Josh Groben. Indeed. Back at Chelsea Handler has a birthday this week. How old? Chelsea Handler turning.

54. 54. Older a younger. Younger. She's 51.

Come on. Come on. It's 3-1. There could be a comeback brewing here because this kind of right in Tony's willhouse, Tonya.

How old is Justin Bieber this weekend? The Bebes has a birthday on Sunday. Okay. I know this. Because he is going to be 33.

He's not going to be 33. Older a younger backer for a pretty major steal here if you pull this off. I feel like he's younger. He's turning 32 years old and backer snakes. Bieber away from time.

He's younger than Selena. I got two more if you want him. Why not? How old's Kesha turning this weekend? Oh, Kesha.

I would think that Kesha's 36. 36. Older a younger. Younger. She's turning 39.

Five to one. And finally. How about Mark Paul Gosseler? Saved by the bell, yes. He's Zach.

How old is he turning this weekend? Meet. My turn. He's your turn. You last chance.

Only have one point. 50. The big 50 is not the case this weekend. Older a younger backer. Younger.

Oh, he's 52 this weekend. So time he gets one final score. Backer five. Time you two. And she's taking it as a moral victory.

Pull it off Mark Paul at the end there. Good job. Time to say age. Yeah, no. You don't hear me.

You do not.

Yeah. Damn. That's okay. Next time. Another loss.

And maybe you can lose the most.

And that's how you win. Tauget. You can be the worst at the game. You can be the very worst. And that's how you win.

And being the very worst. When my comeback arc starts arcing. Hmm. You're going to be sorry. I'm going to be proud.

Say. And I start.

I'm going to not only just going to be guessing them right.

I'm going to guess their ages correctly. Just like naughty older younger off the tip. Yeah. I can't wait for that. Thank you.

We are done for the day. But we love you so much. Our love. Our episode's end. But our love does not.

I guess. Exactly.

Hope you have a wonderful weekend.

Yes. Filled with love and cuddles. And if you like that. Oh, sure. Or really good television.

Yeah. All the things. I'm.

And I've already been thinking about sharks a lot.

So just like, you know, my brain has been reeling. I told Haley we can swim. It's more about her because like I stay in shallow waters. Which I also know sharks can get in shallow waters. But I tell her that she just can't go deep.

Got it. Yeah. Just limitations on. But she doesn't listen.

So then I'm just left stress.

I haven't really liked submerging in water as of late. So I'm not. What? Why? I'm not sure.

Okay. Ever since the New Year, just being a completely submerged underwater hasn't really sounded appealing to me. I think it's a really good. It's very cleansing, especially in the ocean. We'll see.

Yeah. Good. So then we'll keep you posted on that. If John is submerging us. Because we're here with the hard hitting news that's scrubbing in.

Exactly. We love you so much. Bye. Bye. I'm Nancy Glass, host of the Burden of Guild Season 2 podcast.

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I think it says he's always going to be there and that will do anything to be there is the only guy that's not there.

No matter what, I'm going to prioritize my wife and my children. I dread the conversation with my son. Listen to on purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeart Radio app. Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Amanda Knox and in the new podcast doubt the case of Lucy Letby.

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Listen to doubt the case of Lucy Letby on the iHeart Radio app. Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. This is Special Agent Riggle, Special Agent Bradley Hall. In 2018, the FBI took down a ring of spies working for China's Ministry of State Security. One of the most mysterious intelligence agencies in the world.

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