432: Family of 8 Found Dead Inside Michigan Home… Disturbing New Details Emerge | Karolkiewicz Family

the window.

We say they found the entire family. All eight members dead to adults and six children.

This is something that you just don't think is going to happen. We began investigating it as a suspicious death. Hey, true crime besties. Welcome back to an all new episode of Seriously. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome back to an all new episode of Seriously. I hope you're having a great start to your Monday.

Even though the likelihood of me ruining your right now is probably pretty freaking high.

Whether you are at work on your way to work, going to school, cleaning the house, working out. Wherever you are, I just hope that you take a moment right now. Get into your Zen place, grab your emotional support drink, whether it's a coffee, a water for me, a diet coke. Because we have a lot to unpack in today's case. And it's one that I've chatted with you a little bit about via headline highlights.

But I haven't done a big deep dive into it until now, just because there was so little information out there. And even so right now, there still isn't a whole bunch of information. But there is at least more. And there are some theories out there that I do think they're worth discussing. I of course will identify what is speculation versus what is fact.

“But I do think it's important to go over all the possibilities of motive of backstory and everything that rolls into it.”

Because it helps give us a clearer picture of how this tragedy even happened or why it happened. So today's case is the one of the Michigan family massacre. A man who annihilated his entire family then turned the weapon on himself and tried to cover up the evidence by strategically lighting fires all throughout the house. Now family annihilator cases have unfortunately been all over everybody's feet lately. I mean, at least mine, maybe not yours, which hooray for you, if it's not, but I feel as though my feed is just getting flooded with these cases.

And so with the case today, like I said, we're going to be talking about one of the more recent cases that has left people with a lot of questions. And it's one that I just felt like I really needed to come on here as your true crime bestie and break it down for you as best as I can.

“And this is the case of the Carol key of its family who lived in Grand Haven, Michigan, so a little bit of the backstory.”

On July 24, firefighters were called to a home after there were reports of smoke coming from the property. However, once they then entered the property, what they found inside was absolutely devastating because an entire family of eight people had been shot and killed. And pretty early on, investigator said that 47-year-old Chris Carroll Kovitch, who was the father and the husband of this family, is the one who was behind all of it. That he shot and killed his wife, Mandy, and their six children.

Before then, setting multiple fires all throughout the home and ultimately taking his own life.

Now, while that alone is a huge unimaginable tragedy, the more that the investigators uncovered, the more complicated this case became. There are became questions about the timeline, the motive, the family's history, Chris's employment, and if that had any sort of role in this, the marriage itself, and even some claims about a final email that was sent. An email that may shed a little bit of light on what was going through Chris's mind when all of this unfolded. And look, that's not completely abnormal, right?

In a lot of these cases, not necessarily family annihilator cases, but, well, let me rephrase that, not necessarily in family annihilator cases where they end up taking their own life, too. But, in family annihilator cases elsewhere, it's not uncommon that a note is left behind, or an email, or, you know, a wedding ring left out on the table.

“Little things that help you start to piece together, okay, what was the frame of mind here?”

Obviously, this person was trying to distance themselves, or creating a disconnect with the family itself, either in some cases we've unfortunately heard where the sheets are pulled over the loved ones faces, because they do want to create that distance and that disconnect.

So the reason I bring all of that up is because this email that people are saying, it sheds a lot of light on his mental state and what the potential motive and underlying factors were. It does raise some questions, and I want to talk through that with you.

“So that's what we are going to be doing today, and I know I already mentioned it, so I'm sorry to like rehash it, but basically my goal is to go through everything that I've learned about this case.”

What happened inside the home, what led the investigators to determine that it was crisp behind all of this, what the investigators have uncovered since this horrific discovery. And of course, most importantly, what could have led an entire family of eight to being killed in a single night. So let's start with the timeline. It all started on Friday, July 24th, 2026.

On the morning of July 24th, around 849 AM, first responders were called to a neighborhood in West Michigan.

This was after somebody had reported smelling smoke in the area. Now, at first, firefighters could not find an active house fire, so they ended up investigating a little bit, but they couldn't find an active fire, so they left. But then a few hours later, they started getting more calls and more calls, saying, oh, now there is white smoke that is coming from a very specific home in the grand haven area. Oh, okay, 911. I'll just say you're emergency.

Reverse side, trail and then even. Reverse side, trail.

“Oh, okay, what's your first and last name, was fine?”

Oh, oh. And I could call that number in case we get disconnected. Okay, something exactly what happened. Um, we're taking our doctor walk and there is smoke coming out of this house and, like, we're coming on the door. This car in the driveway, but nobody's answering and they're coming out of a window.

That is. Correct. Okay. Do you guys are at that residence now and you can't be contact? Yes.

Yeah, we're trying to knock on the door and know they do have two dogs. Okay. Okay. Yeah. What color is the smoke?

It is white. It looks like it's okay. It's almost electrical. I think I don't know.

“It's coming out of one window again before.”

Yep. So when crews were dispatched and they went back out to that neighborhood a few hours later. This was eight, eight, nine, 10, 11, about three hours later. They went out at 11.46 a.m. And this time, they found the house that was on fire.

And they started working immediately to put out this fire. Not only put it out, but starting from the outside before then entering the inside to put it out. Because they knew on approach, they needed to contain this as fast as possible. So the first step was, okay, let's put all of these flames out that we can see on the exterior of the house. Then safely and securely, we will work our way inside the house to put out those flames and see if anybody was inside.

See if we can save anybody and really work from the outside in. But as I mentioned, when they then entered the home, that's when they made the horrifying discovery. A family of eight, all dead.

And here's what struck them as odd.

This family wasn't dead from smoke inhalation or from burns or anything like that. They were dead from gunshot wounds, meaning they had likely died prior to this fire even starting. And even more disturbing, their bodies were found in all different bedrooms of the house. So think about that for a moment. They're walking into this.

They see that these deceased people, who they didn't know at the time were family members, but that these deceased people had died from gunshot wounds, not even the fire itself. And it wasn't as though all of them had gathered together. They were trying to escape the house fire. They were trying to escape a burglar or something like that. All of these family members were in different rooms throughout the house,

which, to me, immediately indicated, oh, there wasn't an element of surprise here. They weren't expecting what happened to them to have happened. They were caught off guard, which is why they were all in separate rooms. And let's go through the victims.

First, there was 39-year-old Amanda, who went by Mandy, 47-year-old Christopher, who went by Chris, their 15-year-old son Keegan, 12-year-old Bennett.

There are 11-year-old twin daughters, Caroline and Ella, who, by the way, had been adopted by this family from China, a 11-year-old Smith, and five-year-old Theodore, who went by Teddy. So you have a five-year-old, three-eleven-year-olds, a 12-year-old, a 15-year-old, and then two parents, 39-years-old, and 47-years-old.

When they got inside, they noticed that there was several numerous people deceased inside the home.

They then notified the sheriff's office and we began an investigation into that. What I can tell you at this point is that eight people are dead inside the home. There's two adults and six children. All eight bodies were immediately sent to the medical examiner's office, because they knew they needed to investigate. They needed to perform these autopsies and figure out what the hell happened here.

And sure enough, the Atoa County Sheriff's Investigators called in the Michigan State Police to assist with this investigation. They weren't sure what they were dealing with.

“Could this have been a stranger? Could this have been a robbery gone wrong?”

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And the investigator started collecting evidence to try to figure out not only what happened, but also to build a timeline. Then, the following day, on Saturday, July 25th, a neighbor who lived in the house behind this family called 911. Now, in this 911 call,

the caller told the dispatchers that she had heard gunshots the night before. She said that she heard these gunshots sometime between 8 p.m. and 9 p.m. However, she wasn't sure if she should worry, because she wasn't sure if maybe she was mistaken these gunshots for fireworks,

firecrackers, different noises like that.

“And again, I think that this is also something pretty common.”

And just speaking for myself, I live in Orange County. I don't really live close to Disneyland, but I live close enough that I can hear the fireworks and I can't see them, but I can hear them. And even around the beaches on the 4th of July,

I can't tell you how many times I've heard what I believe is our fireworks. But then, I questioned myself being like, "Oh, well, could those have been gunshots? I don't want to overreact." But there is a correlation between the sounds.

And we've also heard this in past cases, as well, that they didn't report anything because they thought it was just a firecracker or a firework going off, because they do sound unfortunately very similar. And it's hard to know that distinction unless you're a trained officer or you're highly trained around firearms.

So she said that she heard what she now thinks were gunshots between 8 and 9 p.m. And she said that the reason that she now actually was prompted to call 911 and report this is because she heard that this entire family was dead. Before she was trying to chalk it up to fireworks, but now hearing that her whole entire neighborhood family was deceased,

she knew that she needed to call and give the details of what happened to the police. Are you excited to respond? Yes.

last night we were watching TV. We live off of 150 second private drive, so they're behind us. And when we were watching TV last night, I can't say for sure.

But I thought I heard too gunshots. And I was going to say something to my husband, but they were like, they weren't like outside.

“They were in the distance of what did I hear a firecracker?”

Or did I hear a firework or did I hear a gunshot? And now with this I'm kind of assuming I heard a gunshot. And how about between 8 and 9 o'clock last night?

I'm not always after 8 and maybe between 8 and 8 o'clock or 8 o'clock.

I'm sorry. I'm setting this on. Yeah, I get it. 8 and 9 o'clock. Okay.

So I'm just wanted to say that. Yes, I do think I need some time parameters. I think that's when I heard something last night. Okay, yeah. Actually, would you mind if I took some information from you,

so that our employees could call you if they need to? Yeah.

“So over the weekend, the investigation continues.”

Then it kicks into a little bit of overdrive by Monday. This was July 27th because then investigators collected a gas can, a grill lighter, carpet samples, fire debris, burned paper towels, and other evidence from several bedrooms throughout the house. So immediately upon collection,

they sent all of this to the Michigan State lab for processing. That same day too, as I said, it was big day. The autopsy findings were released and it was determined. But we're sure that all 8 family members died of gunshot wounds. And more than that, that Chris's gunshot wound was self-inflicted.

That he took his own life. The fire that was started after the deaths also killed at least three dogs and one cat that was inside the home. So the investigators then held a press conference. And they said in this press conference that the evidence suggested that Chris

not only shot his wife and his kids, but then before turning the gun on himself, he set fire to the house in all different corners of the house.

Which is so cruel and callous because first of all to, you know,

desecrate your loved ones bodies in such a way and try to burn away their bodies and the evidence. But also, they were living animals still inside this house. Why didn't he just open a door? Let the dogs out, let the cat out.

Why start fires strategically and calculatedly in all these corners of the house to ensure that the house was engulfed in flames and that no one would have a chance of survival. That is pretty freaking cold-hearted and evil in my opinion. That was also said that the handgun that was used in these murders

was illegally registered to Chris. He bought it about two weeks before the murders. So was this premeditated? Was this planned?

“And this becomes really important as we continue.”

They also mentioned that Mandy had likely died before the children. Her death certificate lists her date of death as on or after July 23. While the children and Chris's death date, they are all listed as having died July 24. Now, there could be a few reasons for that right. One being he killed her because he knew that she was probably the strongest in the house

and could potentially fight back if she heard the other gunshots going off and that she could either collect, she could either maybe fight him off, collect the kids, run away, do something

so making the active choice to take the strongest one out first.

I also do think, and I don't know. What kind of torn on this and I'm curious to know your thoughts. For Mandy, I kind of think it was a blessing in disguise. The fact that she didn't have to witness all six of her children be killed at the hands of their father.

Not that it makes it any better or easier, but at least for her it was quick and she went and she didn't have to witness that, hear it or see it because as a mother, that is obviously the worst possible scenario to see your children in pain, to see them fearful, to see them killed. So I don't know.

I mean, there's no silver lining here, obviously, and anything. I just, that does give me a little bit of comfort for her. Not for the kids because I do still believe that they were probably fearful even if they were asleep, even if one only won woke up, but at least it's comfort for her if that makes sense.

So the medical examiner also believed that each person died either immediately or within seconds of being shot.

Nobody was shot and then was bleeding out and in pain and in agony for minutes or hours or until the fire then started and they were unable to move and the gunshot is what ultimately killed them, but still they were scared to death and they knew what was going on or that the second victim was shot and had to hear all of the other gunshots and know that their family members were being killed

at least according to this and according to the medical examiner, at least it happened where they died immediately or within seconds of it happening. There were also no signs of struggle inside the home

and there had never been any law enforcement calls made to the home in the past,

which this became an important topic because anytime there is a family annihilator case or a mass family murder case, usually you want to look at history. You want to see, okay, was there a pattern here?

“Had there been past domestic dispute calls made to the home?”

Was there domestic violence at any point? Was there escalation? Was there a pattern? And in this case, there really wasn't. There were no signs of struggle. There were no other law enforcement calls to the home in the past,

which that doesn't necessarily mean that there wasn't a history of some sort of abuse taking place. It could have just gone unreported. But that also then is going to carry us through to what we talk about in a few minutes here, the possible motive, the gun being purchased two weeks ahead of time and things like that. But first, I want to play this clip for you where the police chief is saying

that the incident started the night before and that it went into the following morning. Take a listen. Sparks says they may have taken place long before the discovery around noon on Friday. We believe that the incident could have started, you know, the night before and then carried over into the morning. You know, early morning hours. The sheriff's office did not find any sign of a struggle and said,

no one aside from Christopher fired the handgun used in the killings.

Neighbors told news channel three they never had any indication something like this would happen, a feeling echoed by police.

I'm not aware of any. Now even though there was no past history and no calls made and that this seemingly happened out of nowhere,

“I think that that's all the more reason why this community is struggling so much with this news.”

They're really having a difficult time grappling with what happened. My kids are telling me that they're feeling unsettled just overall, not knowing, you know, exactly what happened and it's just scary. It's a scary feeling, you know, to be a teenager and to know that this happened to children is really, really unsettling and pretty heavy for them right now. So now I want to talk a little bit about the family, the family history, the family dynamics and everything that rolls into it.

The husband and father Chris worked from home. He worked from the family's home and he served as the national vice president of sales and marketing for the American Heart Association. He worked for them from September of 2023 to July of 2026 and remember this all happened in July of 2026. So in that position he supported the organizations CPR and first aid training division. Now his employment ended in July of this year as I just mentioned right shortly before the killings. However, no official information has been released as to why he stopped working there or if it had anything to do with this situation.

If he was fired, if he was there, I've seen rumors of investment. I've seen rumors of an affair and we'll talk through all of this in a moment once we get to the theories section. But no official announcement has been made of why he was no longer working there and if it has any sort of direct correlation with the murders. Mandy, the mother, the matriarch and the wife, she was remembered as someone who dedicated her life to helping others. She was very passionate about special needs and trauma informed advocacy. She also was passionate about mindfulness, reading, traveling and spending time along the lake Michigan shoreline.

She also worked as a substitute teacher where she was described as someone who went above and beyond for her students, especially for students who were struggling or having difficult days. She wanted to blend her heart and a hand to them. She wanted to help guide them get them through any sort of struggles that they were having. Years before her death, Mandy even wrote a children's book about learning to see the good in yourself.

“This book is called The Magical Mantra and she dedicated the book to her children, which I think that that is so beautiful.”

Like not only are you an amazing mother who loves your own children, you've adopted two children from China, but you make it your life's mission to help others.

Passionate about special needs, writing a children's book that she dedicated to her own children, but for other children to consume that is teaching them about how to see the good in themselves and just how to raise confident young children.

So police said that they had found multiple suspected spots where the fire was started in the house and get this. There was at least one fire in each of the six kids bedrooms.

“Then there was another fire started under the basement stairs and another in the basement storage room. So, Chris seemingly wanted to engulf this house in flames. He wanted nothing left behind. He wanted to burn it all to the ground.”

And I want to just level set here for a moment what this would mean if you were Chris, okay? You kill your whole family, right? You shoot all of them in their beds in their bedrooms while they're sleeping while they're not expecting it. Then you go even further and not only like these fires to try to burn any sort of evidence or remains, but you go into each of your six children's bedrooms, see that they are dead, reminded of what you just did and still make an active choice to grab a paper towel roll, light it on fire and set it down in the corner of the room finishing the work that you had just done finishing your mission.

It is so diabolical to even think about like, what kind of fucking monster does this? I, you know, I can't say that like I understand here to the moment making a rash decision and shooting your family and doing that. I don't understand it. There's no part of me that will ever understand it. However, I would hope and pray and think that maybe once you walk back into that bedroom for a second time and see what you had done,

that you feel a little bit of remorse or a little bit of shame, but you don't or he didn't, he doubled down and just stuck that paper towel roll down there,

“lit it on fire with one of those long grill lighters and left and went to the next bedroom. One after another, it is sick. And look, based on what we've heard so far, it doesn't even seem like it was a one and done in each bedroom”

and that he was successful at starting the fires the first time, because what they found was partially burned and also completely burned paper towel rolls, suggesting that there had been multiple attempts to start a fire. Some of the fires went out because they ran out of oxygen while others caused major damage to the house and, you know, took flight and carried on throughout and engulfed the house and flames, but he really made a concerted effort to get the job done. If you were a hot sleeper like me, summer nights can be brutal. There is nothing worse than getting into bed, trying to go to sleep, but immediately feeling too warm and kicking the covers off, turning down the AC and still just like not getting comfortable.

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At least one of them was taken from the main floor and then another was pulled from the basement wall.

So, obviously in my mind, the only thought that comes to mind as to why those would have been manually removed and missing is because he didn't want it triggering the fire department to come and intervene. And remember, the only reason that the fire department came both times at 8 a.m. and again at 11 a.m. is because there were 9-1-1 calls coming in from people passing by in the area. It wasn't because a smoke alarm went off or something was detected or a neighbor heard the beeping of the smoke detector. So, my thought and maybe there's another rational reason, but the only thing that comes to my mind is that, oh no, he wanted these fires to burn as long as possible.

“He wanted to get rid of everything he possibly could in that house and, you know, anything to disintegrate and burn up that he could, right?”

Why else would you do that? It's not because you're trying to have some sort of insurance case and commit fraud and say that, oh no, it was an accidental fire and we didn't notice because there were no smoke detectors. Like, first of all, you couldn't even get away with that because obviously it was arson, they found a gas can, they found the lighter, they found the paper towel rolls, but like whatever reason could there have been rather than not wanting people to be notified sooner, right?

But here's where it does get a little bit weird and I am curious to know what you make of this.

So, this report also says that the home was ensured through state farm under a policy that had been purchased just three days earlier, three days earlier on July 21st. And this policy was purchased by Mandy. Now, at this point, there is no evidence suggesting that Mandy had any sort of knowledge or participation in any of this. That's not to say she didn't, this is still very much under investigation, but my thought was okay, that doesn't really, you know, hold a whole lot of weight for me on my insurance policies,

whether it's for our cars or house, whatever it is, I'm on some of them, Jeremiah's on some of them, it just, you know, it depends on who's calling, who has the time to do it, but I can't help but wonder. If this was Chris's plan and if it had been building and it was premeditated, which we know he bought the gun two weeks earlier, was there ever a thought in his mind that he was going to leave a survivor? And that they wanted that survivor to have the money, make whether that survivor be himself, maybe Mandy, whomever, but why else ensure the home three days earlier, unless you are expecting a payout.

And then did something change in his mind along the way to where he decided, I'm going to take my own life to, or I'm not going to leave a surviving family member to collect this money, or whatever is going through his mind. And maybe my brain is like completely rotted right now from the Clancy trial, because I've just been inundated with that to where I can't think straight, and maybe there's a totally different reasonable explanation, which sound off in the comments if there is.

“But that's the only thing I can come up with, like, why would you ensure your house three days before, unless you had every intention of collecting on that policy?”

I don't know, it doesn't really make sense. Now, let's speak to the family dynamics for a moment, because as we know, there have been no past indications that there was any sort of domestic disputes within the home. There was nothing indicated that there were, they were an active turmoil, or that there was chaos within the home, and even more than that, Mandy's father, Gary Anderson, he spoke out after she was murdered. And not only did he say he loves his daughter, and he loves those six kids, but he also said, quote, "in a way, I still love Chris," which is kind of a bold statement, right?

You still have love for this man who seemingly wiped out your entire family, not your entire family, but your daughter, your grandkids, and broke apart your family. That is a hell of a lot of compassion to still have, and he's a bigger person than I am, because I don't know that I would be able to utter those words if I were in his shoes.

But Gary also said that he was still struggling to understand the why, saying, "I'm sure that it will come out in the future, but I just have no idea why."

And that's been a question that so many people have been trying to grapple with. Why did this happen? How did this happen? It makes no sense. Like, there was no paper trail. There was no electronic trail. There was no sort of like indication that this would happen, aside from the premeditation, you could argue of purchasing the firearm, and then getting the home insurance policy. But nobody understood what the root cause and motive was here. So let's get into a little bit of that. Let's get into a little bit of the speculation with that. There has been a lot of talk about this case out there.

You name it, social media, Reddit, mass media, wherever you look on the internet, whether it's articles, mainstream media, Reddit, there are theories and there is chatter everywhere. And the chatter mainly circles around what motive Chris may have had in all of this. Now remember, Chris was fired from his job at the American Heart Association, and that was right before all of this happened.

And there was a lot of speculation as to why he got fired.

More than that, though, there was speculation that maybe that was the catalyst in all of this, that maybe losing his job was what catapulted him into killing his entire family. There was also a lot of talk about his and Mandy's marriage, and if there were any sort of issues there that could have led Chris to quote snap.

“And look, I kind of take a little bit of personal issue with this, and not because I think people are looking for a motive.”

I think that that's natural, and I think it's natural to ask questions and be curious. But I am so sick to death of people asking the question, when there is a murder, or when there is a familiar side, saying, "Well, what made him snap?" Was there something going on in the home that made him snap? Is there something she did that made him snap? And I bring that up too, because recently I was working on a documentary for with Elizabeth Chambers, who does a lot of work within advocacy for domestic violence survivors and toxic relationships.

She actually has a show called Toxic. I've had her here on the podcast before. And we talked a lot about that in just an off the cuff conversation. Why are people so quick to say something forced them and trigger them to snap? And that that then takes the blame and the choice away from them making this choice, this active choice. And it puts the blame on it and alternative factor, or an alternative person. You think of even the show snapped itself, right?

It's like, no, he made a choice to do this. He coherently decided to do this by saying and asking the question, "Well, what made him snap?" You're now diluting that choice from him and saying something. It was like a causation on him.

“And I think that that then waters down what he did and just how violent he is.”

That's my personal opinion. So I understand the question and I understand that it's a common question and it's a common term that people use in all source of murder cases. Like, what made them snap? What happened? But I don't know. It's a little triggering for me and I take issue with it. And maybe that's just me being overly sensitive, but sorry to go off on that tangent.

But like, that's just where I'm at with it. Now I want to go through all of this speculation, okay? But keep in mind, everything that I'm about to tell you is alleged. It has not proven to be true. It is just speculation.

So as always, do your own research, form your own opinions, come to your own conclusions.

So let's get into the marriage of it all and also a past affair. Back in 2024. So two years before these murders happened, Mandy had actually written on a subreddit called as one after in fidelity. And her entry on this subreddit was about Chris allegedly cheating on her with a younger intern years earlier. So just for timeline sake, the cheating or I'm sorry, the entry was back in 2024.

So two years before the murders. But in the entry, it said that the cheating happened to years before that. When exactly, we don't know. But you know, years before 2024. So she wrote a reply on a thread where someone was apparently asking for advice. And she said, quote, my husband literally cheated on me with a younger version of me, except a way wilder than I ever was.

When my husband and I met, I was the intern at the company that we both worked for. He was divorced and older than me. Fast forward, 10 years and five kids. He was now cheating with the intern again. The same age I was when I was the intern. So obviously, not the best track record, right? Cheating though doesn't mean you're going to be a murderer, not, but like I also just get a divorce.

“But he was divorced and older when they met because remember too.”

He was she was 39 years old and he was 47 years old. So not a full 10 years older, but eight years older than her.

we hooked up. Now he's cheating on me with another intern who was the same age when he and I got together.

“You know, kind of like not Peter Pan syndrome, but always going to the younger girls, right?”

It's like a cliche tail as old as time. So then in another reply, she said that if it wasn't for the children that they shared, she wouldn't have worked toward patching things up with her husband. Saying, quote, we have six kids. They are why I worked for reconciliation. I would not have stayed if we didn't share them, or even if they were out of the house, I probably wouldn't have stayed. I kept telling myself, I love my kids more than I hate my husband right now. They have no idea that I faked it until we made it.

And now we're in a much better place for and a half years out, but it's still a fight to stay in a healthy place. And I can relate to this. Okay, I think a lot of women can relate to this. And we hear about this so many times, right? When you have children, especially young children, it's difficult to know what you will or will not tolerate. What your threshold for shit is. And I'm not saying that my husband has done anything. He hasn't.

Jeremiah is an angel. Well, I mean, not an angel, but an angel that comes to cheating. I still puts his mugs on the counter rim and not in the sink where they belong. No, but we hear about this all the time in cases, not even in cases, but just in everyday life. Like, they either, there's either infidelity. They are no longer in love with one another. They fight all the time. They hate each other. But for whatever reason, they stay together for the kids.

Either until the kids graduate and I are out of the house or just indefinitely.

“So in this entry, I think that really is what she's illustrating.”

I have young children. I wanted to fake it until we made it and we did come out the other end. And we came out on the other side of this and they have no idea that this happened. And it's common. People want to protect the nuclear family. And so like I said, their threshold for cheating anger, resentment, that changes. It fluctuates. It's fluid because they don't want to disrupt the family.

However, people also noticed that in one of her very first posts, she said that Chris had some quote, "major red flags that she ignored." And she said that he was raised in a quote, "toxic family dynamic that encouraged lying."

Now, as for the exact post, she said, he has always had major red flags that I ignored due to my own trauma and anxious attachment.

He was raised in a toxic family dynamic that encouraged lying about everything. For an example, don't tell your dad I bought that for you or don't tell your mom that you were here for this long, or she might get mad, which I was always vocal about how dumb it was. Once we had kids, I refused that behavior in front of them because I didn't want them to learn it as well. I have always caught him in the dumbest lies and prior to D-Day, I actually never even approached them with him

because I always figured that they were stupid, minor, and not worth it.

“Now, I think the D-Day that she's referring to is the affair.”

But that kind of goes hand in hand. Like, okay, he's lying about little things. Like don't tell your mom how much sugar you had. Don't tell her this. Don't tell them that who's to say that that's going to go from smaller scale lies to lying about a full blown affair. But obviously, in this case, wasn't too far from one another. So then she went on to talk about how they started marriage counseling and how Chris got very emotional and angry over simple things that they would talk about in these sessions.

Saying quote, "I was able to very clearly express my needs, not angrily, but clearly and firmly. I finished my statement with, you know, turning to the counselor. Her reply was, "I hear you, but do you hear her Chris?"

He seemed fine in the moment, but the rest of the day, it's always emotionally draining after stuff like this, which feels pretty normal.

I woke up in the middle of the night and I realized he wasn't asleep. He was having trouble sleeping and he was so angry and mad at himself because the counselor asked him if he heard me. It seems like such a big reaction to a pretty normal question from a marriage counselor. He is so sensitive to correction that I'm feeling so discouraged that we will ever be able to make progress. And this is something I also take issue with men or women who gaslight and play victim after their bad behavior. Now, I don't know about you, if you've ever been in a relationship like that, I certainly have been. Not my current relationship, but past relationships where I caught them cheating and then somehow they reverse uno card back onto me as though I'm the problem and that I'm overreacting and that I am the cause of it or that like I just don't understand so much so to where would I really think about it right now guys.

I was in a such a fucked up relationship once that I caught him actively cheating. Then I, you know, full-borgo psychopath and like I searched yelling at him and pissed off and threatening to break up with him, which threatening how pathetic I should have broken up with him.

We're you're trying to get back in their good graces where you are walking on egg shells when it's their bad behavior to begin with and like I look back at that time in my life kind of shaking myself and kicking myself being like, what the hell were you thinking of you like the writing was on the wall.

“But when you love someone, I think that that sometimes happens. You have this whether they're a true narcissist or not, but you have this dirt bag who's trying to gas like you and make you feel like you're in the wrong for their choices.”

And it seems like that's what happened here with Chris that after these sessions he would give her the cold shoulder, he'd be angry, he would, you know, be upset that he would and have this big reaction because he would the the counselor dare question him if he even if he understood something like, I just it bothers me so much because I am so familiar with that behavior. You all know I love a good way to unwind at the end of a long day. I'm trying to decompress, I'm trying to like get in my zen state of mind, but I don't always want alcohol or bloating or waking up the next morning feeling like I'm regretting it.

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She also later wrote that her husband understood that she would never accept infidelity again, writing, he knows that I now know that I deserve better than what he gave me in the past.

Now the affair actually took place four and a half years prior to these posts in 2019 and 2020. They didn't start counseling though until these posts were made, which was in 2024 and although Mandy appeared to share a lot of this online her family says that she was very private about it when it came to sharing personal matters within her family or with friends. So, if all of this was true and if they were struggling this badly or had struggled in the past this badly, nobody in her life knew about it because she never told them.

And I also think that's pretty common because first you don't want judgment if you choose to stay. If I were to tell my mom tomorrow, you know, he's been cheating on me, but I'm going to stay with him for the kids. All these thoughts you don't want that judgment whether it's vocal or not of somebody judging your choice to stay. You also don't want the awkwardness family get together in the future where they're giving him the cold shoulder or they're, you know, giving little jabs here and there and saying things. So sometimes it is easier to bottle it up inside.

Is that the healthiest thing? Absolutely not, but at least in Mandy's situation it appeared that she did have an outlet she went to the threads of Reddit to at least get some of this off her chest, which I would imagine would be a little bit cathartic in a way. But also the way that Mandy was, you know, allegedly talking here, she sounds like she wasn't 100% confident that they could fix their marriage and again, that the only reason she stayed in the first place was for her kids.

So after reading all of these posts, people started wondering if there was still some kind of anger or resentment about the situation or worse, if Chris was maybe still hiding something.

“And if you felt like the only way out of the situation this time was to kill his entire family.”

Now another theory that came up was that Mandy was still struggling with what happened in their marriage and that she was going to leave Chris and she was going to take the kids with her. Which that too wouldn't be the first time that we've seen or heard something like that. So did she threaten to leave, even if there was no paper trail, no meetings that she's had with attorneys, no confiding in a friend or family member that she was planning to leave, but was she planning to leave.

That could have very well been the case. We don't know yet. I would imagine more will be learned as this investigation continues, but it is a possibility. Now another theory that is out there is investment. And this isn't being talked about as much, but when the story first broke and the detail that Chris had lost his job recently came out, some of the people who are local to the area said that the reason he had actually been fired from the American Heart Association was because he was imbezzling money.

Now, the talk about investment, I want to be clear. It is completely alleged and it's not known where this idea came from, who said it first, if there's any sort of rooted truth in it, how much money he was supposedly imbezzling or any other details, but it was brought up. And so I wanted to bring it up to you because it could be a possible motive, right? He's fired for imbezzling. He knows that he's going to have to pay for some financial crimes that maybe the police are going to be investigating, maybe they're such shame that Carrie is carried with that that he decides to take his own life and that of his entire family, which at that point I just take your own life guy, but like, you know what I mean?

Then there is the email of it all, and I talked about this at the top of this episode because in another Reddit thread in alleged family member of Chris's has spoken out, and they spoke out saying that there is still a lot that's going on that the public doesn't know about, including in alleged email that Chris sent just days before he did all of this. This person claims that they are the brother of Chris's stepfather, and allegedly, this email, quote, explains his state of mind, and police do have that email in evidence now, so it is being looked into.

The family member says, quote, Chris sent an email before he took his life, "A copy is in the hands of the Ottawa County detectives now. I did not personally read it, but it was read to me after being delivered to detectives, and it does help explain his state of mind.

“There is another thing that he mentioned in his email, which I believe exposes a flaw in our society as a whole.”

Chris mentioned that he felt that he was living behind a mask and that he lost his sense of self.

It goes on to say, Chris's last words were in an email that he sent to John just prior to taking his own life, which apparently John is another family member. It says, and in his sick mind, it sounds like he really thought that he was doing the right thing. He seemed to think that his children couldn't possibly be happy without the financial security that he had been providing.

“I've heard the investment rumors, but there was nothing in his email that indicated that it is consistent with the false life that he admitted to be living.”

So, that's interesting, right? Because if this email is true, which and is fact based, it is what the detectives are right now, so I'm sure we will know in the short-term future.

But that sentence, he seemed to think that his children couldn't possibly be happy without the financial security he had been providing. Now, whether that or not proves investment happened, who knows, but it does prove, or it at least insinuates that maybe this all did stem from him losing his job. Even if he was just laid off because they were overstaffed, or he was under qualified, or, you know, innocent enough reason.

“It could that have been enough to send him into a spiral to think that my kids will never be happy if I'm not financially supporting them the way that they're used to.”

And I'm doing the right thing by not having to have them suffer through a life like that, so I'm going to take all of us out.

Maybe, I mean, it's not rational by any means, but it's possible. Now, this user also alleges going into his double life or his life behind the mask that Chris barely graduated high school and that he dropped out of college. And you search his name on Ben verified the website. His education is listed as Mendoza College of Business at Notre Dame, so I don't know anybody can list anything right, but is it verified who really knows, but in the post it says, what I can say is that the reason that he lost his job may have been related to a history of making false claims on his job applications and resumes.

He barely passed high school with D's. He dropped out of Grand Valley College yet a search of his name on Ben verified's list under the education section. It shows that he attended the Mendoza College of Business at Notre Dame University. This user also says that Chris had a history of getting really great jobs, but only holding them for a short period of time. And he believes that Chris was using fake resumes to get all of those jobs, so they speculate that maybe the American Heart Association found out that he was lying about his credentials, which is what ultimately resulted in him getting fired.

I'm raising my hand right now. I think it's pretty common and look, I never lied instead of a lawyer or a doctor or that I can handle finances in some massive way, but I think people do embellish or elaborate on their resume when they're trying to get a better job. Not maybe outright lying and saying you held a position you never held or a degree that you never held, although I do unfortunately, I think that's kind of common too, but it's not the craziest thing I've ever heard, but it would explain why there's a lot of turnover with jobs he's held in the past.

“He lies and says he's overqualified and then can't do the job and then they determine either, hey, you bullshit it us or you're just not qualified, so we're getting rid of you and then he's constantly looking for a new work.”

I would say this, anytime I have embellished on a resume, I was damn confident that I'd be able to do the job I was hired for. I would never say I could do something or had past history doing something that I couldn't figure out and do to the best of anybody's ability. I don't know if he was like outright doing crazy, outlandish lies, maybe, but who the hell knows. So I guess my question for you and for myself and as we continue diving into this is was this a situation where Chris just couldn't handle being fired.

He started spiraling, he started feeling like he wasn't good enough for his family and that he couldn't provide financially anymore, so he decided it would just be better to end it all.

“Or was it something that was going on in their marriage that was never fully resolved and it did cause him to feel like this was the only option?”

I don't know. Remember, all of these motives and theories are alleged they have not been confirmed by authorities, police have not confirmed a motive at the time of this recording. And really, depending on what was left behind aside from that email, we may never know the full motive. We might be able to piece it together if say there was a phone call with a divorce attorney or if there was something else.

But with everybody gone, it's going to be difficult to build an accurate timeline and accurate series of events of what really was the motivating factor here.

And I also am still really stuck on the house insurance, right? Getting that three days prior. Why would you do that and pay for a policy unless you had every idea of collecting on it? Unless now that I'm saying it out loud, maybe he thought that the beneficiaries would get the money, whether it's a brother, a dad, grandfather, whatever it is like that the house would go to them, but then again, also not when there's clear signs of arson in the house, then you don't get the policy. So I don't know, I'm confused on that. Curious to know your thoughts because again, maybe I just have like brain rot right now because my mind has been all over the place with Clancy, but curious to know your thoughts.

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