It’s Not Only Always Been Like This, It’s Always Been Worse | Trust But Verify

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“It's not only always been like this, it's always been worse, it's not new, okay?”

Ancient Greece had earthquakes and horrible storms and natural disasters. People suffered, people were killed, people stole the money intended to help those people. Ancient Rome had tyrants and bullies, it had pointless cruelty and systemic injustices. For centuries, people have fought over minuscule differences. Their governments have been dysfunctional, their traditions seem like they were falling apart.

Stuff was changing, stuff was stressful, stuff saw.

It's not only always been like this, it's probably always been worse.

You can look out at the news and despair about things, or you can zoom out and see progress. You can focus on bad people and miss that the bad people today are almost certainly better than the bad people back then. Even the people you disagree with and dislike politically are not selling their enemies into slavery, sending children to work in minds or doing science experiments on minorities, things

“that we're not only common in Zeno and Mark's realists' time, but common enough not that long”

ago. You live in a time of abundance and medicine and knowledge and opportunity, things that the Stoics could not have imagined in their wildest dreams. So yes, see what is broken, yes, work to make it better, but do so with gratitude, and not despair.

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He says first off, don't let the force of an impression carry you away, say to it, hold

up a bit, let me see who you are, where you are from, let me put you to the test. One of the wonders of your mind is the quickness with which it can comprehend and categorize things. As Malcolm Gladwell wrote in Blink, we are constantly making split second decisions based on years of experience and knowledge as well as using the same skill to confirm prejudices

stereotypes and assumptions. Clearly, the former thinking is a source of strength whereas the latter is a great weakness. We lose very little though by taking a beat to consider our own thoughts.

What do I really know about this person? Why do I have such strong feelings here? Is anxiety really adding much to the situation? What's so special about? By asking these questions, by putting our impressions to the test as Epictetus recommends,

we're less likely to be carried away by them or make a move based on a mistaken or biased one.

We're still free to use our instincts but we should always, as the Russian proverb says,

trust but verify.

“You know, it is funny, I think the impression of the stoics is that they have no notions”

that they're unfeeling, unflinching, I don't really think that is it at all, I think they're not as immediately reactive or emotional because they do this, they stop and they think about it, they stop and they question, they put it to the test. One of the things my therapist has said, you know, you start to say something and that's me after does know, preface it with what I make up about that is, right, because it's

so easy to take what we're about to say or what we think has fair, viable and disputable fact when it's really opinion when it's really an assumption when it's really a stereotype when it's really an extrapolation and inference, it's not real and once you put it to the test, you go, oh yeah, this isn't really based on anything, I've made this up, I'm guessing, I'm basing it on past experience and when I stop and go, hey, is this really so bad?

Is really what I think it is, what do I know about this, hey buddy, sorry, my son just came out of his room, can he go in your room, I'll send mom in, this is making super entertaining, super entertaining episode, I think I'll leave this all in for you, so you just get a taste

“of of what my life is, you know, even stuff like that, right, I try to, you know, maybe”

sometimes your first instinct is, oh, this is an inconvenience, oh, this is annoying, oh, this is not how it's supposed to be and then you stop and go, but it's that true, actually isn't an opportunity to me, that's what Marx really is reminding himself with that idea of the obstacle's way, right, you go, okay, yes, I can see it this way as a problem, not how I want things to be as an inconvenience or whatever, and then actually you can stop

and think, no, it's this chance to do something, it's a chance for things to go differently, it's a chance to do it again, like as I'm, seriously, I'm going to wrap this up here in just a minute and then I'm going to go in and get a second chance to lay with my son as he goes to bed, and that's not annoying, that's not a problem, and this is important,

these are arbitrarily made up things to begin with, right, but that's not how I always

think about them, that's not how I necessarily think about them, actually, but it's taking this second to put it to the test, to think about it, to question it, and that's true for the email that you just got that had a rude tone, did it have a rude tone or did it have

“no tone at all, and that's what you thought was rude, did it have a rude tone, because”

that's the voice in your head, now what was coming across, what did this person mean, what's a nice way to interpret, right, you can put all these impressions assumptions to the test, and you should, and the more that you do that, better and happier, you will be the more stoic, you will be, now sometimes that initial instinct is correct, that's what that expression, trust, but verify means, you verify, sometimes you're right, sometimes

you're not, but you've got to do that work, and you understand that, you know, your mind is not always your friend, and your impressions are not always right, when you go, I trust my gut, do you deserve to trust that gut, right, have you done the work that warrants that, or would just a little more investigation, a little pause, a little more thinking, but that actually make everything better, I think that it would, so with that, I'll close

up today's episode, I'm not going to record anymore, I'm going to go hit a second crack at bedtime, and I hope that you are probably listening to this in the morning, so I'll wish you a good day, and, uh, talk to you all soon. Hey, it's Ryan, thank you for listening to the Daily Stewart podcast, I just wanted to say we so appreciate

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