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So we're here to help you transform your life and your money from the Ramsey Network in the Fair Wins Credit Union Studio. This is the Ramsey Show. I'm Jade Worsha.

Next to me, George Kamel and we will be taking your calls about your life and your money. Offer in the next couple hours, triple eight, eight, two, five, five, two, two, five is how you get on the line. We've got Daniel here who's in Orlando, Florida.

Hey Daniel, how can George and I help today? - Hey guys, thank you very much for taking my call. I'm sorry that the limon would like your guidance and expertise right now. So I make about $90,000 here before it takes.

My wife is a second year pharmacy student.

She was two years left in education. She's not working. We have $95,000 in liquid cash, 80k savings, 15, and a broker's account. And $40,000 in my 41K employer sponsor account.

We have $26,000 in student loans. I have about 11,000 and she has about 15,000 in her student loan. We currently living with my parents, Rick Free, which has helped us save tremendously. We've been made for a year now.

But my wife recently has been asking for our own space right for the sake of our marriage. - For sure. - Yeah, because of that, we started looking into buying a house, a 350,000 house,

who was a 20% down. But the concept I'm facing and I'm fighting hard to keep us out of debt, just this year, I paid about $4,000 out of my pocket

for her semester of second year.

So we don't continue inquiring more debt. My dilemma is, if we purchase a house

“and we put down 20% that's why saving, right?”

It takes 50% of my $6,000 net take home pay on a single income. So my question is, how do we balance even our marriage and get in her space without dropping us into a house for my marriage?

- I love that question. I think it's a fair question to ask, and I think she's in the right for wanting to have your own space. I think there's a couple of things to consider.

Number one, just because you get out of your parents' house doesn't mean you have to move immediately into a home that you've purchased. The option to rent is there. And I actually don't mind that option

because it does buy you some time and it buys you some money to save up the down payment that you want, which gets me to the second option, which is you kind of arbitrarily landed on 20% and my guess is you landed on that

because we tend to teach that. Like there was a time where that formula really worked out. It's like, hey, save up, you know, five to 20% down on your down payment. But we all know that the housing market

has inflated to such a degree that for many folks, putting 20% down does not allow that mortgage payment to be in a comfortable place in their budget. Especially where we teach it to be 25%.

“And I think I heard you say that you bring in 90,000 a month.”

So how much, or I'm sorry, a year, how much per month is that for you? - So after it talks, I would say about $6,000 in that take home. Hey, hopefully I make 90,000 a month one day.

- Right, but if you do what you said you do, I mean, and this is just a guess with the property taxes and insurance. But if you do a $350,000 house at 20% down, just looking at the Ramsey Solutions mortgage calculator,

you're gonna be around $6,000 a month, which is fair to say, you know, that's half of your take home. You're gonna be at $3,000. Yeah, a month, a half of your take home.

- So I think what's happening here is we've prioritized the home above all else and right now it's like goal number five. So goal number one, you mentioned this. I don't wanna go into any more debt. I love that.

So can you guys cash flow the rest of her school? - I think I can, if I'm truly still living with my parents. - Right. - I can pay off, baby. - But again, you've got a lot of cash.

- You said you have 95,000 cash in 80,000 in savings. - Correct. - So we can use that to cash flow her schooling.

But the problem is you've already earmarked it for that house.

And so in your mind, you're gonna weigh that's house money. No, no, no, no, that is money to help us build a financial foundation. And once we get to that part of the game, now we can apply it to the house.

So right now I would be working on cash flowing school, getting out of the 26K and student loan debt that you have. And then we can work on an emergency fund, three to six months of expenses, then the down payment. And then once you can get that down payment high enough

to where the payment on that mortgage would be no more than a quarter of your take on pay.

Which means in the meantime,

we need to go rent somewhere that we can afford off of your income alone, which is gonna be about what 1500 to two grand is what we're talking about here. - So can you find a place nearby?

- Yeah, and I've been looking truly, I started looking ever since she she brought those concerns up and, you know, so yeah, there is some available requirements around which, again, I just wanted guidance

from, you know, my mentor. So yeah, it's doable definitely. - The question is how is she gonna handle that? If you go, hey honey, listen, we're gonna cash flow school with all this cash we had,

that was gonna be a down payment. We're gonna rent for two years while you finish school. - Well, I think you have to,

“I think you have to phrase it really the way that we did,”

which is honey, deer, sweetomes, whatever you call or these are all the, these are all the things that we've said are important to us. We care about school, we care about moving out, we care about having a house,

we care about not going back into debt. But we need to prioritize those

in the right order of what we do first

so that we can do them all at some point or another. And that's all you're doing, you're just taking it and you're organizing it. You're not saying that something's not important. You're not saying you don't want to do one of these things.

You're just saying, we can't do everything at once. We've learned here, this is a Ramsey thing. We've learned that focused intensity over time on one thing creates momentum. So what George laid out is perfect to say,

okay, first things first, we gotta get you out of school and we can't go into debt to do it. So that's first things first, second thing. Okay, now we gotta move out.

And after that, now we gotta save up.

“And so I think that that's a fair way to put it.”

But I think that if she's, I believe just listening to you, that she's a very intelligent, very smart woman, I think she's gonna understand that. - Oh, I mean, again, I'm putting her needs above mine. These, that money saved was prior to our marriage.

So I want to make sure that, you know, we're a team, right? So that's your question, George. I think she would be delighted. I think just having to get out of, you know, having our own space,

especially in you, where this is a must, to continue building their foundation. But I think that's a great game plan, guys. So thank you very much for breaking this down for me. - Absolutely, thank you so much for the call.

- And it represents a lot of what people are feeling out there, going, I want to buy home. I don't want to, I'm putting air quotes on this. If you can't see me, waste money on rent. - Yes.

- And renting is one of the smartest decisions you can make, especially in a market, like we have right now. - Yeah, absolutely.

“- Or houses are so expensive that to go buy that same house,”

would cost you five grand a month in a mortgage versus two grand a month to rent it. - Yeah, absolutely. No one wants us, no one wants you to be in real estate more than us. - Right, we want you to be in real estate.

We realize that it's a major part of wealth building. We realize it's a major piece of just stability, familial stability, and just feeling like you have your American dream, but there is a way to do it, where it's a blessing and not a burden.

And that's where rent shows up. Like renting, it literally is buying you time until you can buy. - Yes. - And entrepreneurship has a very clear spot in the seven

Ramsey Baby Steps. Baby Step $1,000 starter emergency fund. Baby Step 2, knock out all the consumer debt. Baby Step 3 fully funded emergency fund, three to six months of expenses.

Then Baby Step 3 B, you save up for that down payment. Because what happens there, you've got financial peace. You've got no consumer payments. You've got emergency fund. Now you can move in without stress, with a lot of peace.

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Back to the phone lines where we have Matthew

who's in Portland or again.

“Hey Matthew, how can George and I help out today?”

Hey Matthew, great to hear from you guys. Yeah, I'm trying to figure out a balance for my wife and I where I currently work 6 days a week to pay off our large debts. And we have discussed about me going back down to 5 days a week. And we are trying to figure out how to make that work.

Wow, how long have you been working 6 days a week? Almost two years now. That is a long time. And is she working as well outside the house? No, we are fortunate that she was actually just able to become a

stay a home mom for our new daughter and so she stayed home. Cool. Okay.

And how much debt do you guys have left?

We have 30,000 and 30,000 about all of it in student loans. Wow. Started at 450 and in the last 10 months. I have a religiously to the penny track to every single expense and paid off 116,000 in debt.

“In 10 months, you're throwing like 11, 12k, does debt every month?”

Every single month, the track to the penny, we've gone two brand new cars, paid off and a bunch of others, small stupid debts that we had and all I have left to know credit cards, no nothing is just doing well in debt. Good. It's plenty.

We don't need any more. If you're income, I got to believe with this kind of student loan debt. There's got to be a nice, I'm hoping, a nice career with a nice income to back it up. Is there? Yes.

My six days a week that I'm working before bonuses or anything, it is 228,000.

And at five days, it would be 190,000. Okay. And what do you do? Optometrist. Okay.

Wow. Wonderful. Is the room to grow in that field? What does that look like to be making more money? If you were a working five days a week?

Typically, the place I'm at now, it would be based on bonuses and the example that I see would be making more money and everything we stepped into a manager role and so that's what's led to the increase in the salary. Okay. Have you charted it out?

“Because you need, you need to know what this looks like, right?”

You want to know how long am I in for? Have you charted this out at both? Yeah. Work weeks. How long it would take at 190 and how long it would take at the 228 that you're at now?

Yes. At 228 right now, we would currently take about four years to finish paying it off, given the reduction in my wife's income at the five days a week in as extremist as possible. It would be probably around eight years to nine years to pay it off. Whoa.

But now, what was your wife making before she started staying at home? Can I ask? Yeah. She was a school teacher at at private Christian school and she was making around 38,000 a year before she became a stay home on.

Okay. So that didn't like majorly set you guys back, especially when you think about childcare. Okay. I'm going to choose how going down one day a week doubles your debt free day. Yeah.

That's crazy. It's because we got a higher mortgage payment and if I cut down from six to five days, that is a $1,700 a month reduction in my income per month. How much is your mortgage payment? Mortgage payment.

Right now we're paying 37 for it. Okay. The minimum payment's like 34. Okay. And you're not investing or anything, right?

It's just pure cash. Yeah. Doing our 401k match, and then $100 a month for our daughter for investments just now. Okay. So the good news is there's a place that we can trim to find a little bit more.

It's not going to be the be all-in-all, but I'm guessing what's the match four or five percent. Yeah. Okay. So if we can bring that money back temporarily, because again, this is temporary and

you guys are young. There's plenty of time to get back into investing when the time comes, but the truth is that I mean, you're at a dollars and cents down to the dime guy. So every bit of money, you know what I'm talking about, it is going to make a big difference.

So if you temporarily pause your investing, knowing that you're building the foundation so that later you can invest and do so with no worries, with no risk, I think that's worth

That's the next for 12 grand a year. So that's a full month you're gaining towards your debt free date. And you're said you're going down an income about 20 grand a year based on your take home. You said 1,700 a month is what you'd be losing. Yeah, losing.

Roughly 1,700 is what I'd be losing. Okay. So you just gained 12 back by pausing investing right there. So now you're going, okay. There's an 8k gap.

Can I do anything else to make up the difference?

Because the goal is how do we keep you on this amazing momentum and not delay you by four

or five years for your debt pay off journey, because that's also, there's hard on both sides. Absolutely. In debt for eight, nine years is a slog and being at work an extra day every week for four years also a slog.

And I mean, I want to encourage you, you know, Sam and I we had major amounts of debt and major amounts of student loan debt. And I'll tell you, I mean, I was a person. I worked seven days a week for a long time, Matthew, for years. I worked seven and six days a week and it's not fun, but there's a part of this where

to George's point, you're choosing your hard and the time is going to pass anyway.

“And so you have to ask yourself, which, which do I prefer, you know, when I look up”

in four years, do I want to just know that I'm going to be done or do I want to elongate this possibly like you said, maybe not eight or nine years, but significantly into the future.

And I think when you frame it like that, you just kind of go, okay, what I would suggest,

and this is just a suggestion, I would suggest you continue to work this six days because you doing that is going to be better than any side hustle. You're going to earn more money from that than any side hustle could bring in, but then what I would suggest on top of the four years because your wife is like, man, this is not what I envisioned.

I want to be able to see my husband. So we need to try to meet her where she is there and for you too, and I think you guys can do that by setting up some milestones and kind of setting up a reward based system in this so that you're feeling not only the momentum from paying off the debt, but you're also feeling excitement when it's like, hey, for every, you know, you guys can set this up

for every 15,000, we pay off. This is something that we do together, we go on a date or we, you know, get a sitter. Like whatever those things are that are going to make you guys feel refreshed. I think that's good.

Or, you know, you're working six days a week, but you decide, hey, there's one, there's

one Saturday that I don't work, right? One Saturday a month, little things like that go a really long way. So I don't think that it's all or nothing, either work five days or I work six days. I think it's, let's set out to work mostly six days a week. Let's make sure that we're adding in some milestones and that way we're making this something

that we can sustain, but there's no version of this that feels easy. Right, but you told me that you can throw 11k right now at the debts every month?

“That, that's what we're averaging and it's surprising to me that we're able to hit it.”

It's hard. Well, think about this. I'm roughly doing that. I'm crunching the numbers right here. If you pause your investing, it's an extra 1,000 bucks a month now throw the debt.

You're not throwing 12k a month at the debt. You got 330 left. You're done in 27 months, just over two years. So instead of 48 years or eight years, I'd rather see you sacrifice hard for a shorter period of time versus sacrifice, but lay little lower, take the foot off against a little

bit and take eight years. And I'd also be interested in, is there anything that your wife can do from home? She's obviously right now, if you guys have a newborn, she's on the throws of it, but maybe six or eight months from now, there's a little bit more mental load margin that can free up for her and maybe that there's something that she can do from home or at certain

hours per day. And again, every little bit counts towards this. Well, I wonder, what are these cars worth? You said you have two new cars that are paid off. Oh.

Yep. And so we bought a 2024 Kia Sportage, and I have a 2025 Honda Accord, and they are initially bought them for about 30 grand each, a couple years to a year or two ago, and those are part of the initial that I just paid off because of the highest interest and got it done as cook as I could.

Okay. Let's say you're like, man, I could shave off three months of sacrifice and get it down to two years flat. If we sold one of these and downgraded to a different car in cash, that might be something you look into.

“If you want to speed this up, so there are levers you can pull, it just, you guys deciding”

as a couple, which ones were willing to pull and for how long? Absolutely. And in my book, man, I'd rather be done with this sooner rather than later, now you're making crazy money with no payments in the world. Exactly.

And you can enjoy your degree. You can enjoy your profession instead of working for the money. And I think that's the thing, when you have debt, it changes the way you work and I want to see you being able to work because you enjoy it, because you, it's something you believe in, not because you have to make your next payment.

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Hey, Julian. How can we help today? Hey. So I've been saving up for quite some time, 23 years old, and I want to buy my first home. I have uncle who's, he's invested in the real estate in the past.

He was telling me I should get my first home. Should be like a duplex or a triplex. That way I can ideally have somebody else pay my mortgage. It would also be my first time buying a house. I'll plan on putting at least 10% down, but I know how, you know, I'll listen to some

of the podcast and things like that. And I know how you guys feel about borrowing money. I mean, is it a good idea to do that, considering to be my first time owning a home. And then also, you know, it'd be my first time investing in a real estate. I figured I'd chill two birds with one stone, you know, by trying to do this.

So I had a guy, Dave and I were hosting together a week or so ago in a guy called in. And he purchased a home, the correct way, where the payment was no more than 25% of his take on pay and he was able to cover the entirety of the mortgage on his own, but he then had a couple of roommates that came in and rented rooms and paid him. And we praised him because we thought, hey, this is great.

That's a smart move. And then he took that money that he got from the rents was going to save it up and use the money to pay off the house and then buy his next rental. That was his plan.

“So there's a way to do this that I think is smart, especially if you're young and”

single and you have the money to be able to afford this on your own. I do worry, and I mean, George, I don't know how you feel about this, but the duplex and triplex, I do worry a little bit about that just because it's a lot. And those tend to not be in the greatest of areas. And so that's the part that gives me a little bit of an orange flag on there.

So I want to know more about your numbers. I want to know what you want to spend and what money you actually have. So I got like around 70,000 saved up, I've been saving it for quite some time. I have no other debt besides a vehicle payment that I've purchased about two years ago back in 2012.

What's left on that? And 9,000. Well, 9,700. Okay. And what do you mean?

Yeah, about 85, or a year. Awesome. Okay. So all the cashier names 70 grand.

Yeah. And that's, yeah. And that's just the cash.

“I mean, that doesn't include the other investments.”

That's what I have. I have two raw IRAs. And I have a traditional and a two-month employer. I gotta pull along. And what makes you want to become a landlord?

Just the passive income. You know, I mean, I've read some of you, you know,

you never have your tenant knock on the door.

That's next to yours. Just say, hey, toilets busted. You gotta fix that. I haven't. You gotta stop the party next door because you can't sleep.

Or they stop paying. Well, that's not an experience that, yeah. But I hope you don't. But I'm just saying, that's the reality. Because what your uncle's doing and what you see on TikTok is a bunch of guys saying,

here's the path to wealth. Just get a multiplex and then do that 17 times. And all of a sudden, you're a bajillionaire. And it just never works like that in reality. And the reality is, Jade's right.

These are, these don't go up and value the same as a single family home. They tend to be in reference areas. And I don't want you to bite and off more than you can chew. Just so that your quote unquote, they pay the mortgage. Now, if I were your shoes,

I would follow the blueprint of the gentleman that called earlier, I'd say, okay, the primary point here is you need a place to live.

“So what if you bought something that had two or three bedrooms that you could afford?”

I'm not saying the $70,000 is going to get you there just yet. But this is just as dreaming. What if I bought something that was two or three bedrooms? And I know a couple of guys. These are people who are reputable that would rent a room.

And even if they don't rent it, I can still afford it. But this is an opportunity for me to just kind of get my feet wet. And what it feels like to own something of my own. What it feels like to collect rent. Do you see what I'm saying? What it feels like to fix something that's broken in the house?

And then later on, if you save up cash, because you've got people paying you, once you pay off that mortgage, because it's going to be nothing crazy. You know, as modest as possible, then maybe you can start saving up for another piece of real estate, right? And we're kind of doing this slowly in a way that is serving you and you're also able to learn from the situation that you're creating.

You're not just jumping, you know, 10 toes in on something you completely never done before with a triplex.

And in a neighborhood of town that you're having a hard time finding great renters. You see what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. So if you want truly passive income and index funnel, do that.

But if you're telling me you love real estate and you want to get into it, you want to become a landlord, that's a different story. So if you're going to do this, then make sure that this works without the tenant there. This payment is no more than a quarter of your take on pay 15 year fixed rate mortgage. And before you do any of that, you're paying off the car today. You're setting aside an emergency fund for yourself, 36 months of expenses, for you that might be 30 grand.

Now you're left with 30 for your down payment. And now we can continue saving for the next year and start looking. And look for how see you'd actually want before you just go looking for an investment slash a place to lay your head. I wouldn't try to combine the two at this stage of your life. Okay.

Are you going to get married anytime soon? No, not yet. No, probably another two years or so. No. Okay.

That's something to think about. If this is a long term decision, you know, nice gal comes your way. I don't know that she wants to live there. She might have her own idea of what her single family home or whatever town home looks like. And so I would just tread with caution with an uncle saying, dude, you got to do this.

I made so much money.

It's always an uncle or brother-in-law.

So you're doing great. Like all things considered to be your age and have that much in cash. And now debt free after this call is over because you're about to pay off that car loan. You're doing so good. So I would stay on the path and I would avoid tick-tock real estate videos.

And now that's going to served up to you now after we talked about this. That's right. That's so true. I just want to say this because, you know, I don't want anybody to walk around with a bad taste in their mouth. Like, Jayden George, they don't like real estate.

We do like real estate. And I particularly think that when you're this guy like this or a lady, you're young, you're unattached. You don't have kids. That is the time where you can try things where you can do things that you maybe wouldn't be able to do. You know, 10 years of marriage and I don't want to have roommates in the house at 10 years.

And you know what I'm saying? So he's in a phase where he can play a little bit if he does it the right way.

“And I think that if he does this, it's a fair way to kind of get into maybe, do I like renting what I want to live near?”

Because here's the thing, if you don't want to live upstairs from your your boy like your friend, you certainly aren't going to want to be due to duplex neighbors with Trevor, you know, who you've never met before. So like, I think that's just a really great way for him to dip his toe in and see. And to not leave him hanging, I'm going to give you a free ticket, Julie, and to our investing essentials virtual event next week. And night one, the second part of night one is all about real estate investing.

And Dave goes through. Here's all the different categories. She's all the ways to do it.

Because this is the biggest decision you've made so far in your life.

So we don't want to jump into it just because we see one. It might not be a deal. It might be way right. Right. Right. And you can't get a tenant to rent there for what you want for it.

And now all of a sudden it's not paying your mortgage. And then you need to sell it and now you're messed up because maybe you didn't get a good deal. And now maybe you're not even getting what you sold it for yourself. So hang on a line. When Christians are going to pick up, we'll make sure we get you a virtual ticket to that event.

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“can we purchase investment properties and consider paying off those mortgages as part of our 15% towards retirement?”

Or is the baby set for rule specifically that your 15% for retirement be only cash that goes into an investment account? That's a unique question. Love the question. Well, here's a deal. Dave Ramsey loves real estate.

He's got a whole lot of it. And it's sort of accidentally a huge part of his network, comparatively, two his investments. Right. Because of how well he did at the time he bought it. He has both.

He always recommends diversifying.

And so because of that, I'm going to do both. I'm going to invest in the IRA, the Roth, do 15% there. And any extra money outside of that, you guys could use to purchase that next investment property in cash. But paying off the mortgage does not count as part of your 15%. Even though you're building equity, it's a part of your wealth-building journey.

We want to make sure that we're investing for the future in a lot of different ways.

“And real estate income can be a great source of income in retirement.”

But I would love for you to have a nest egg on top of that too, especially because of the tax advantages. Yeah. So I'd both end. I like that answer. I concur.

Alrighty then. Kimberly is in St. Louis, Missouri. Hey, Kimberly. You're up next. Hi.

Yeah. What's up? I'm so excited. You have no idea what this means to me. Like, I have listened to this show for years.

Well, we're on a lot. Yeah, we are. Oh, I don't know. Hopefully you don't want to screw this experience up for you. I know.

I'm very nervous. Well, I hope not. I mean, I'm in a very good. I'm in a wonderful place because of you all. So thank you for that.

I love it. My question is, is it ever okay to have like more than your annual salary in wheels and motors and toys? We, I lost my mother a little over a year ago.

And she, we have always driven like no one else.

So that someday maybe we could drive like no one else. And she always said, when she passed away, she wanted my husband to have a new truck. Well, we waited a year. And we finally did it. But now I feel guilty because we have so much money tied up in motors and wheels.

$75,000 in cash. Yes. And what do you guys earn? We earn about 130. Thank you.

And we have a lot of other things.

“What is everything out up to with wheels and motors?”

$181,000. Oh. So you guys like toys. You're going to have to go down that list because we want acquiring my daughter. No curiosity.

Are there boats? Four wheelers are these? Well, part of it, a big, a $45,000 of it is a tractor, which was also basically part of our inheritance from her. So you can buy that. Let's just count the stuff that you guys paid for.

No. So minus the minus the $45. It's all we have. So $145. $400,000.

Okay. $135 or so. Yeah. But you guys really all. I mean, we have seven cars.

Why? My husband is a car collector, I guess. But they're like, oh, he's an addict. Well, they're like town and country minivan that we bought years ago that he just keeps driving. You know, he's driving a 2013 town and country minivan with 300,000 miles on it.

Because he's an odd one. So what about the other choice? Six cars. My vehicle's worth about 25. Okay.

We are so reasonable. We'll keep that one. Yes. We have the work van, which is only worth $1,200. Okay.

We have another minivan that we use when we travel. This worth maybe six. We don't need that. So he has a very old truck that he uses on the farm. That's worth maybe a thousand.

Okay. And then our daughter, who is in college at the moment, we own her car. And it's worth about 15. I would say. Okay.

That still feels like a far cry from your 130. Yeah. Well, you got yours at 25. His trucks at 75. That's already 100 right there.

Yeah. Yeah. That's 100. Okay. Where are you guys at in the baby steps?

Do you have any debt? No. We have no debt. We have no debt free for quite a while.

“And I think what happened is our net worth changed quite a bit overnight.”

What we lost my mother. So that was a big change for us. How much did you inherit?

We inherited the total of the estate was 2.1 million.

Wow. And so what's your net worth today? Is it stands? 3.1. Fantastic.

Wow. What a legacy. Yeah. She did do good. I mean, we were just at baby step in a year when she passed away.

But I mean, all but about 40,000 of that was tied up in retirement in our home. So wasn't like we had a lot of money at our disposal. And you're more good to play it on today? Yes. Our mortgage is paid off.

It's been paid off for about four years. So you're worth just through the invested portfolio is 3.1 million. Did I understand that correctly? There is like one point including our home. There's like $1.6 million in real estate.

Because I'm also thinking about when the day comes that you retire. I don't know how old you guys are. But I'm also thinking about what you would draw off of that nest egg. I'm kind of fudging a little bit and maybe thinking through some of that as well. And how old are you, too?

We're 55. Okay. What's the goal for retirement? We would love to retire now. But obviously, that's it.

I mean, our financial planer says it is somewhat possible because we inherited like a $1 million taxable portfolio.

So you could use that as a bridge account. You're saying until you would access your time. Right.

“But the caveat to this and part of the reason I think I feel guilty for the track is we have a daughter who's”

Interest senior year of undergraduate, which is all paid for she had a full rights scholarship. Good. You want to say that, though, I'm just going to say this, though, because I think it's. I think it is what it is. You don't feel good about the truck.

And even though this person who you love so much said, I would love for your husband to have a truck. She didn't say you had to pay 75,000 for it. She just said it would be nice for him to have a new truck. Right. Correct.

So for that reason, for those true reasons I'm going, we implied 75,000. You guys implied that. And then you have said, these principles matter to us and now we're feeling it. And because of that, I think that you're inclined to do something about that. What would it look like for him to go, I maybe don't have a $75,000 truck.

But I sell this and I get a $40,000 truck. And now I have this nice chunk of income to go towards my child's education. Right. I think there's something there that might give you a little bit more peace. But also, you know, preserve the memory of your loved one.

Do you see what I'm saying? And also give you guys peace at night. Yeah. And I think that's kind of why I am all about it.

And I'm like, you know, I always have heard him say, you know,

if you put this money in the table and live on fire, would it affect you?

I don't know because you're saying it will. You just, you laid out some beautiful ways that it is affecting you. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I guess mentally, emotionally affecting me.

Well, the fact that it's affecting you is worth bringing up to him going, hey, what can we do to solve this? Well, one solution is we sell all these dang cars sitting out in the yard, look at like a junkyard and he downgrades to a $40,000 truck. You keep your $25,000 car.

Not because it's in the Ramsey parameter. Now, you know, you've been absolved of your sins. But because it's not a part of your value system. Yeah. Yeah.

And so it's more about that than I mean, he didn't dry for that truck. You know, I kind of, I guess I sort of pushed him like, Huh? This is something my mom was very adamant about.

I mean, she always, all the time said, I want you to do this.

What was the heart behind that? What do you do? I'm sorry.

“What was the heart behind her wanting him to have a new truck?”

Because I feel like he grew up very poor as a child. And we've been together for 40 years. So he is basically her kid. I was an only child. And I think he had always, we have always driven junk, older vehicles, Dave cars.

He still doesn't sound like. It does. And she just said, that boy needs a really, I want him to have, and she did say, I want him to have a really money. And a $40,000 truck is a really nice truck.

So she didn't say he needs a brand new $75,000 truck. Just something that isn't a piece of junk. And we went to the furthest part of the spectrum. Yeah. To go, all right.

Let's go to the dealership and hand over a nice big fat check. Yeah. If you were to keep this truck, if you were to keep everything exactly the same, your world is not going to implode. But since you called and since you really do seem to be bothered by a purchase that you made,

it sounds like you have a little bit of buyers remorse. It's living in your head rent for you. Yeah.

“I think it's time to evict the truck and move to something a little bit more reasonable.”

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We're headed right back to the phone lines because we have Timothy, who's in Newark, New Jersey on the line. Hey, Timothy, how can we help out today? Hey, guys, how's it going? Thank you so much for taking my call.

Big fan of the show. More a question for you guys. I brought a two family home with my sister quite some time ago. Unfortunately, I had to take legal action to suit to get out of the property.

My question is we don't wouldn't speak anymore and we were super close growing up. When you got taken action to try and mend that relationship or leave it alone kind of as it is. Why did you have to sue her?

Why did you even get to that point? So my sister and I brought a two family house that we both lived together and write that on another side. And I wanted to get married and start a family. And in the fact that we want to be responsible for being a landlord anymore

doing the credit checks, fixing everything that was wrong with the house. I brought my own single family house, wrote to be close in the same general area. And we had conversations about me trying to get out of the house. Didn't want to be responsible for it anymore.

She refused to sell it. She'd put it on a market or buying it out of it.

“Was it because she was living there or she needed the income from the tenant?”

She was still living there. So as a mother daughter, a side by side, she was living in one side, renting out the other side and collecting rent. And she told me that she couldn't afford to move out. Didn't want to.

And you guys had no agreement about what it would look like to force the sale. Or to when when and if we're going to sell.

We did. We first brought the house again. It's a brother and sister.

So I was more of a verbal agreement that we're going to stay here for a couple of years until we figure out what we're going to do with our life. What it's super young. I was 24 at the time because it was 26.

Sure.

This is going to be temporary.

The plan was for both of us to eventually either move out. Tell it or rent it out and start our own lives and our own family. So the communicator was terrible. So far it's been well. We had a verbal agreement.

It was a couple of years. Eventually we were going to. And so that's our part of the chaos. How many years did it last? We lived in that house together for about five years.

Okay. So that feels like it. Suffices for let's try this for a couple of years. And you took her to court. Obviously she hasn't spoken to you in a year now. About a year.

And you want to remedy the relationship. Uh, I do. Is that the goal? Again. Do you have anybody in touch with her or she like blocked you no contact.

There's no way to even have a conversation. So I'm the younger siblings.

So that's my older sibling.

I don't exactly know how to approach it. There's no blocking. I don't believe so. But once attorney's gone bald. Yeah.

Everything went just through attorneys. So I don't know how it would go about it. But you guys live in each other at all. Uh, we're in the same general area. Yeah.

A couple of towns away from each other.

“Do you send a text and say, hey, would you be willing to meet up and get coffee?”

Next week. Do you think she even responded? I don't think that she would. Okay. What if you just.

I mean, you could try a couple of things. You could try writing a letter or sending an email. You could try calling her and just cold calling her. You could try leaving a message. Like there's so many things that I think you could do.

And I think of everything. Um, let me ask you this. I don't think so, but. Do you owe her any apologies? Or this is simply.

Uh, I want to find a way to. Repair our relationship. Is there like an apology owed? So, or no. Yeah.

If anything, there is kind of sure that most people on my side of the argument would say this. If anything, there's a policy that's owed by her. Okay. I'm going to be more. Understanding of the sibling.

She's very stubborn and way more intellectually smart than I am. So, when she thinks she's right on a point, it takes it full more. I actually keep up a lot of things in the cell of this house. I didn't collect rent for the two years that I owned that house. I was a living there.

I let her keep it all. I let her do a mortgage assumption. So, she kept the grade rate that we had on that house.

When we first bought it, I didn't make her.

You know, listen on the market. I actually took less money after we got all the approval back for the house. So, there's anyway that owned apology. I feel like it would be me. But it's still one of the only family members that I have left.

I've started to have a relationship with her. And my first son was just born six months ago. And I would like for him to know his basically only family. So, I don't know if this is that's kind of the catalyst of it. And now the dust settles got passed and finally sleeping through the night.

And it had some time to actually think and breathe. And that I would like him to know who's in it. Yeah. But you remember relationship with somebody. I didn't use the one that was apology.

Yeah, maybe you are.

“But I think that what you're saying outweighs that, right?”

Yeah, this is the only family I have. I have a baby in this world. And he should know his aunt. Right, all those things outweigh who owes who in apology. I think at this point.

So, I would, I would kind of come hat in hand. And I would say, I'm so sorry this happened to us. We were, we set out to try to do something. And it, it created this rift between us. And I hate that.

I, I love you, your my sister. I want you to know my family. I really hope that you would consider. I would love to repair a relationship with you. It's going to be hard for anyone to turn that down.

The extra layer that I don't think that she would be willing to is that she's also an attorney. It was representing herself through this entire ordeal. So, I think there's an extra layer of synthesis of on her end. Because she was, she didn't have the filter that you had. Correct.

Okay. And you technically won the legal outcome. I, I did, she assumed the mortgage, I got paid half the equity that was in the house. Which, I mean, that's a whole separate. I don't know what to do.

Yes. Well, you can only do what you can do. You can't force her to be open to this. But you can do it. Start just planning the seed and be it persistent.

But also, you know, reasonable. You don't need to be knocking at her door. Like answer. We got to talk. But I would just say, hey, I miss my sister.

I want my sister back. I, I know what happened happened. That's water under the bridge. I just want to be a part of your life. I don't want us to not have a relationship over something that happened a year ago.

On a business transaction gone wrong.

“You can also ask her to, like, quantify and say, what would you need?”

What must be true for a family relationship? Yeah. What would you need from me for us to be able to move forward? Maybe she feels like she's owed an apology. Because sometimes, you know, everybody perceives things differently.

And I'm not saying I honestly can't judge who's right or who's wrong on this. And I, for me, it doesn't matter. But if she perceives that she's owed an apology, sometimes, listen, if you're married, you know this.

Even though it wasn't on you, just to apologize to my wife every day.

Come on, man. Just a sort of conversation. Just wait till the day. I go ahead. When you get out of bed, I'm sorry.

And then you just go on with your day. But you see, I'm saying Timothy, there could be something there. If you know, if you happen to know where she feels she's owed an apology, even if you're like, man, I'm right. Like, I did it.

It could be worth it to say, I'm sorry. For X, Y, Z, it could be worth it.

“And if not, if you truly don't know, just ask her, what would it take?”

I really want to know what it would take to be back in your life. I miss you. I love you. We've got X amount of years history. We're the only family we have.

Gosh, I would love to make this right this year. Just, please, let me know what I need to do. And she sounds like a tough nut to crack, but you can try it.

But the key is you go first.

You put the ball in her court. Yeah. At least then, you'll sleep better at night knowing that you made the attempt. And whether it's reciprocated and there's some healing, that's not in your control, unfortunately.

And at the very least, I mean, who can resist a picture of a cute baby? That does have a very good point. But my other concern would be, how do you even find it to forgive somebody

“when they click themselves between you and your new family?”

Now, there's the part that I'm wrestling with. That's the part. And I think that your own bitterness and resentment, I can get them away for sure. I think that you may need to deal with that Timothy before you come to her.

Otherwise, you guys are going to start arguing. It's just going to come out eventually. And it's going to close the door once again. Uh-huh. So get with the counselor.

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“All right, Justin is in Baton Rouge, low-easy Anna, what's up, Justin?”

Hey, how y'all doing today? Excellent. Yeah, thanks for taking my call. So basically, I'll be 40 this year and honestly, I never really considered retirement with my life. I've always believed, and I mean, I still do that Jesus will return soon. But of course, I don't know that. I don't know when that will be.

So if it happens to be 30 or 40 years from now, I don't want to be 60 years old, seven years old, comment around analytics. So once you start listening to y'all this year,

we did decide to open up, but we're like, "It's about two weeks ago.

We decided to open up a raw IRA." And we just went ahead and maxed it out. So we just went ahead and put $7,500 in there. Okay. Since we haven't done anything. You went zero to 60 in retirement.

What's that? You went zero to 60 real fast, 11. Yeah, and then me and my wife, we talked about opening up, now she's 31. So we talked about opening up her one, but we haven't done that yet because I know I'm assuming it won't let me put any more than $7,500 in there since that's the max.

Well, you each can have one.

“Right. Yeah. So that's what we were thinking about doing.”

We're just opening up her one also. But the main reason for my call is whenever I open it up,

I just put the whole $7,500 into best and P500.

Because we hear y'all talk about that one a lot. And then after we did that, we were thinking, "Okay, well, y'all also mentioned about putting it across four different types of investments, but I know so little about retirement or investment that I'm not sure what the best resource is to find out

what mutual funds we should put it. There are money in and what are the four did that? How do I determine what the four different groups are? I don't know one of them was international. And then the other three, I don't remember.

One was aggressive growth. I guess it was a long-term growth. Yeah, there's aggressive growth growth in income growth and then you've got your international. Let's talk through this.

I love that you're asking this question. Because a lot of people out there, it is confusing. And there is a level of financial literacy needed to make sure that you understand what you're investing in and not just do it because Jade or George or Dave said to.

And so the S&P 500 is the top 500 US companies by market cap. And so those would be large cap companies. So those would fall into the sort of growth and income category. They're pretty stable, they're huge, they're like a cruise ship. They're going to go into the growth category, which is going to be more

of your mid cap companies. So what you're missing out on right now are the other three categories of funds. Mid cap small cap and international. So you can do far worse than the S&P 500. You can become a millionaire, multi-millionaire, just by investing in the S&P 500.

Well, we're recommending is diversifying even further than those 500 companies. By saying, hey, we're going to not just get the large ones, but those little ones, the medium size ones, the international ones. So that over the course of time, it's all going to balance out.

And you might get some great growth off the small ones over the long haul, some great growth off of international and the US markets are down. And you'll be better off in a long run. But either way, you're doing a good thing. You're not investing in a single stock or crypto.

So nothing wrong with what you got going on right now. And I'll give to you a ticket to our investing essentials event. Because what we actually do, Justin, Dave and I are going to look at sample mutual funds in a 401(k) and help you understand how to go about using the process of elimination to find the four that makes sense.

And we do it in two minutes. So Dave, we literally did the rehearsal yesterday in Dave Hunt. Well, you could have done that and still had time to go eat lunch. It doesn't need to take three hours of googling and researching different funds.

“You're looking at a few key pieces like long-term return, the expense ratio,”

the type of fund. And so we know, hey, if it's a bond fund, we don't want a bond fund. If it's a target date fund, we don't want that. So now you've already ruled out half the funds in your IRA or 401(k).

Because you can choose any investment under the sun, which can be more overwhelming. Now the work that I was looking at them. Don't know, you go ahead. I was just saying whenever I was, we go into a Charles Slob and whenever I looked at it,

I searched for the S&P 500 and then I just looked at the market. And I literally, it could have been Chinese to me. I literally had no idea what I was looking at. Other than just looking at the trains of them, but I would be fair to death to put my money in something that I didn't understand and had no idea what it was going to do,

which I know you can't necessarily predict that. But after listening to y'all and hearing about the S&P 500,

“that's what we were like, okay, well, we still comfortable putting our money in that.”

But then we would still want to, if I've only got about 20 years of investment in 20, 25 years to do that for me, I would want to spread it across all four of them to the best of my knowledge, where it's going to be the best return on investment. Well, the good news is I think you're going to feel a lot better about knowing how to select those funds after the event. And if you still feel like, hey, I need a little bit more help.

You can get with a smart investor pro and they'll help you understand it. And they'll make sure that they're guiding you in the way that we teach around here the Ramsey way. So I would definitely make sure to hit up that event. And again, if you still have questions, get a smart investor.

But the one thing I might tweak is, you know, we always teach over here 15% of your gross income.

So kind of just landing at, I'm just going to max out of Roth. There might be more ways that you can invest. So I would challenge you to say, okay, well, what's 15% of my gross income, and can I invest that every single month? But the good news is, even if we just plugged in the work that you've done,

the 7500 that you've already invested.

“And let's say that next year you did the same thing,”

but you just split it month by month, right? We got a calculator up right now if you're watching on YouTube or Spotify. You can actually see Jay's using the calculator live through this. So again, I'll just go through it real quick. The 7500 you've already invested for this year.

But let's say next year, you start breaking it out every single month, 625 a month. And let's say you do this until age 65. Add 11% which you would hope to make that even, you know, just in a index fund. I mean, if we calculate that, that's over $1.1 million for you. And you're nothing else.

That's just your account.

If you do nothing else, you never get a raise.

You never invest more than that. And so I want to encourage you that you're doing great. You're doing better than you think. And you don't need to be a prodigy investor to have wealth. You just need to invest consistently into the right things,

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(upbeat music) Alrighty, so George, that call that we just took with Justin.

“It really does bring up a bigger teaching point that I think it's important to hit,”

which is a lot of folks feel like it's too late to start investing, but we just saw with Justin. Even if you're 40, yes, he's going to invest $625 a month, but he still has the potential to be a millionaire.

$1.1 million is what our calculator showed.

But there is a benefit that if you can really capture what it is that we teach, the earlier the better, right? I mean, obviously, the quicker that you can start taking advantage of compound growth,

So let's rewind in the words of share. Let's turn back time. I love it. What if Justin had started at 21 years old, right? So 21, no debt, maybe already have just $1,000 in investments,

just like he had, he had $7,500.

“But now you've got 46 years for this money to grow, right?”

You've got a much longer time frame, and it's not going to cost you as much of your own personal money

to build the same 1.1, in this case, 1.8 million dollars of growth.

So, it's pretty incredible. You want to crunch the numbers live? Yeah, I'll crunch the numbers live. So again, I really love this calculator, and I would suggest it for anybody. It doesn't matter what your age is, but it's really great to kind of get on there,

and just play around with your life. So let's pretend there's already $1,000 of growth, maybe it was a money that your grandma gave you, whatever. You've got $1,000 there, so let's start there. Now, if you're 21 years old, and you just say, you know,

I'm going to put around $100 in here. Just $1,200 a year. I mean, that's nothing. We can all find that. We spend that on subscriptions every month.

Exactly. No more dash. We're going to have it grow for 46 years, because this person is going to run $267. Yeah, to 67 years old. And again, I'm going to keep it at 11 per cent.

That's a fair. I mean, if you go and just look at an average annualized rate of return for S&P 500, you'll see that 11% is a fair rate of return. And then if I calculate that, oh my gosh, 1.823 million. Let's point out something way more interesting.

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Because we don't know what that is. It couldn't end up being something very lucrative for you. Is that fair? Yeah. I mean, I've been an engineering manager at a few companies.

And it's always been stressful.

I've been very alert to live. And I've been looking to maybe do something like a physical therapy assistant where I'm helping people find mobility or get parts of their life back. Okay. I have a little bit of my own personal history there.

Okay. So you do have an interest that you have something that you're targeting on. Yeah. How does that affect you guys? I mean, I got to believe that making 224,000 a year for quite some time. You've got a good financial footing.

Yeah. So my wife and I have about 1.3 million invested between my 401(k)s and Ross. A little bit in Ross IRAs. We weren't very smart about that when we were young. And you know, a lot and just a brokerage account going about 800,000 there.

“What about your home is, you know, do you have a word about paid off?”

We're a little bit paid off.

So we have 225,000 left on the mortgage on a, you know, 450,000 dollar house.

I think we got for 400,000. What would that do for you guys? If you let's pretend tomorrow you found a job in physical therapy. Suddenly you're making, I don't know. So what is that pay 90,000?

60,000. 70, 80 grand. What is it? Around 70. So now you're making 70 instead of 224.

Where does that put your mortgage in this situation as far as monthly payment? Yeah. So my wife has around like 80K in salary. And that pretty darn close to covers like our full living expenses. And she has the option to like work some our semesters, which she doesn't.

Yeah, do right now. So we would get, you know, to the point where we have like pretty negligible, like cost of living 50 between the two of you. I was just giving my salary. My wife makes an additional, you know, 70.

Yeah, 80K. Yes, that's when I make 150 household income is what it would go down. household income is around 300,000. No, no, no. If you were to take the job in physical therapy and make 70 and then she keeps making

the 80, is that okay? I just want to make sure we are following you on that.

“Because that's what we're talking about here is we're going down from, you know, this house”

will income make an over 300 down to 150. What is the mortgage? Can you just tell us what it is every month? 1800. Okay.

All right. So you need to bring in 70, 200 to make this make sense. And you guys currently bring that in even if you're income went down. Yeah. So that's understandable.

And you got that taxable brokerage account to kind of fund any schooling or if there's a gap, you can kind of buy yourself some time because you guys have done this really well. But I would just make it a goal to still invest 15% of retired dignity and not just go well. I make 60 grand for the rest of my life, but I'm happy. I think you can get back up to making a six-figure income and doing what you love.

Yeah, you're obviously a really smart guy. And I do think, don't hear me say, what you do work, you have to do work that matters to you. You're doing this for the rest of your life. But gosh, maybe one day you'll own the coffee shop. Let me tell you what I get asked all the time.

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So keep doing what you're doing. Plant that seed. You never know. Yes, plant that seed. I love that.

All righty, then, let's go talk to someone else who is experiencing the same hope that you'll be sharing. Abby, who's in Los Angeles, California. Hey, Abby, how can George and I help today? Hi, how are you? I'm wondering if I should get rid of my 2014 Hyundai Alonja,

and get an encore. I wrote this question. What are we thinking? What are we going to get? Right.

So I was thinking on getting a basic yard like the cheapest car to get. That's like new. I'm thinking of losing, not buying. You had me in the first half. Same cheapest.

You go, you say, and cheapest car, and then saying, at least all of these things, they're like, don't go together. Don't go together. Don't go together. That I rent forever.

So what's behind? I'm thinking behind losing. I'm like, God willing, I have like many kids.

So after a while, I'm always going to like upgrade a car to like space-wise.

So that's my thinking of... So you're married? Yes, I'm married. Okay. Okay, cool.

And you have no kids now, but the future, there will be kids. And you don't want to get a car, and then have to switch it out with another car. Yeah, I don't want to keep on buying and selling and buying and selling. Why? Tell us why you want to do that because cars, they go down and value.

Like, you don't want to keep leasing something that you're overpaying for. You're just pre-paying the depreciation. The worst part of it upfront. And that's if you don't have any extra damage or extra mileage that you pay fees for. And not to mention you're paying a payment for a life, which means that's money you're never going to be able to invest.

You're never going to be able to put it towards your goals. You're never going to be able to put that money, Abby, towards your kids' college. Right.

“So can we give you another path that might get you what you want that's not costing you?”

Yeah. We can all agree. You deserve a car. Great. You've worked hard.

Yeah. The car is 12 years old. It's got a lot of miles on it. I'm sure you're ready for something new. How much cash do you have on hand specifically for this car upgrade?

So I'll tell you basically I am 19.

So my husband's 21. We got my last year. My husband has, we share like our money. So we have all together receiving. And I don't know 12 thousand dollars in savings.

Okay. And then my husband's been investing in, in retirement and everything. Since he was 17, he means. So I don't know so much about that. But I know he's been investing.

He's been investing. It's not. Eventually he's investing in a lot. So I have nine thousand dollars in debt. But it's interest free.

And it's not like something I need to pay ASCB. It's good. Some of the family fund. Oh, she makes it even more. Okay.

Let's let's reframe this because what I'm hearing. I actually really love this call Abby. And I'm glad that you called us.

“Because I think Georgia and I are going to.”

You're going to look back on this call. And you're going to say this was a turning point for me. Because what I hear is a brand new marriage. The potential for a brand new family. You guys are already thinking about family planning.

And you're exactly right Abby. This is the time to start really good habits. Now is the time to start planning for the future for the life that you see for the values that you guys have.

Undergird that.

“So you can do this with so much security and so much peace and not risk.”

All of those good things. So what I would suggest for you Abby truly is our basic baby steps. Seven baby steps plan. And it's going to be perfect for you because you already have a major head start. And the fact that you already have some money saved.

You don't have a lot of debt. You're going to be able to walk into these seven steps and really just kind of cruise through them. And you're going to be shocked at how quickly you're going to be able to accomplish the things that you want to accomplish. Okay. So that's me setting it up.

So the first thing that we teach people is you really just need a thousand dollars.

Just a quick cushion in your life. You guys have that you have twelve thousand. Okay. So baby step one for us. You've already knocked out a thousand dollars saved.

But baby step two is we need to eliminate the consumer debt so that we don't have the risk in our life. And so that we have all of our monthly income at our disposal to use towards our goals. So with that in mind. What I would do is a bet twelve thousand saved I would pay off that nine thousand dollar debt that you have today. Absolutely because even though it's zero interest, it is a family friend and every debt every day that you keep that around.

It's affecting that relationship. Here we believe that the borrowers slave to the lender. It's biblical. I believe it. I've experienced it being in debt and changes the relationship in a bad way.

Your uncle shouldn't be, you know, or your aunt or your friend should not be your loan office. When they see you taking a vacation, they find out you got twelve k and savings. And you still haven't paid them back. It's going to damage this relationship. And if you paid that off today, you still have three thousand dollars.

You got three thousand left. You still got money. And now we can save up an emergency fund of three to six months of expenses. And that's basically three. We're going to keep driving this car for another.

Let's say six months. You'll be there. Right? Right. So you're at baby step three.

You got three thousand saved to George's point. You save up a little bit more. And now we can start to buy this car. But from there, and those are just the first three. You've cruise through.

And now, like you said, your husband's already investing.

So now he can start investing 15 percent.

That's baby step four. This is you guys starting to build wealth for your family. Baby step five. You've got, you know, you've got, you know, your first pregnancy underway. And you can actually start to put money aside for their kids college in a five 29.

And then you can start on a house buying a house, paying down that mortgage. That's baby step six is putting extra on the mortgage. And this is the way Abby that we've seen millions of people start their lives. They go from kind of being frustrated. They go from being disorganized to they go from not having a plan to having a plan.

And feeling like they have control of their money. They know exactly where they're going. They know exactly what comes next. And these are the people who build wealth quickly and efficiently. And with no risk.

Right. So also the reason I was thinking about getting a car. So I do put on teaching. So with that I'm coupling and that over the month. I calculated that that would give me four hundred dollars a month, which I would be able to like keep the.

But if you can do that, why not keep what you're driving and just bank that 400 a month. Now you got five grand after a year. Yeah. Because here's the problem.

“If you, if you want to break out of this mentality,”

this is, this is how broke people talk. How much down how much a month. That's all they care about is the payment or the interest rate. Right. The only zero you should be focused on is zero payments.

So that all of your hard earned money and your family stays with you. And said, there's going back out to payments every month. Right. So the reason I was thinking about getting a car. Because my car is like slowly but surely it's like breaking down.

Like my agency's not working. And doing some engine issues and acceleration issues. Okay. So put what I said aside, Abby Forsay put put all that wonderful wealth building talk that I just did put that aside for a second.

And let's just pretend okay, all Abby wants is a brand new car. Can you at least guarantee me can we at least pay save up cash? Can we use at least use the $12,000 to buy a cash car? Can we at least do that? I don't know.

I'm scared of like bringing down. Don't be scared. Guess what? The new car is going to be a used car right after you drive it off the lot. Right.

And that one's going to have issues eventually too. That's what happens with cars.

“And that's why it's even worse to have a payment on that car or rent it expensively.”

And so I'm just telling you I can tell that you're not listening to us. We're missing each other right now. But I'm begging you at 19 to not buy a brand new car. It is the number one wealth killer in America today. It's what keeps the middle class middle class.

And if you can avoid this at your amazing young age, you're going to be so wealthy.

And so smart. And be able to buy anything you want one day. Instead of looking back from now 10 years gone. What I buy that stupid new car. Yeah, Abby.

If you buy this car, I'm guaranteeing you. I am coming from the future and I'm telling you. You're going to look back on this call and you're going to go. I can't believe I didn't listen to them. They gave me fabulous advice.

They're 20 years older than me. And I didn't listen. We're old people.

Okay. I'll take that. Hey, what's up, guys? It's Jade.

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Taking calls about your life and your money. Still on it with George Campbell. Let's go to Anna who's embossed in Massachusetts. Hey Anna, how can George and I help today? Hi, thank you so much for taking my call.

I was wondering, I'm in a situation where I've been married for three years. I have two little kids at home and I'm a state home mom. And I thought by now my husband and I would have merged finances already. But every time I bring it up or say that it would really mean a lot to me that we could beat the team. He just completely shut down and ISIS me out and officially we're married.

But we have no nothing else that's joint. No, I'm not even on our house. I'm not on a bank account. I'm not on anything. And I just really don't know what to do.

“Why, if I were to ask you, why do you think that is?”

Would you say, oh, he's just really controlling. Or would you say he had a relationship in the past? What would you say is the reason in your estimation that he's icing you out? I think he doesn't control me in any other way. He's really a very sweet person.

It's not like a bad horrible marriage or anything like that. My gut tells me there's obviously something more must be going on. I feel like maybe he's hiding something because I'm the one who's actually quite responsible with money. Before I was, when I had it, he isn't so much. He's more of the spender.

He doesn't say we don't have an emergency fund. I mean, nothing. We're not doing anything that we should be doing before we were married. And when I was working, I was attempting to do the baby step by. It was a long way off, but I was trying.

And now since then, I haven't been able to do anything. So I just have to assume maybe because that that he's hiding. I really don't know, but there's obviously it's a very deep issue to him. That's a fair assumption to make. And I think that it's okay for you to feel that way because you know him the best.

He's your husband and you're observing his behavior with the money outside of the money. So that being said, I'm guessing that you have gone to him and said, I don't like the way this feels. It feels like you're hiding something. I, you know, it feels like we don't trust each other.

Have you had that conversation from that point of view?

Yeah, yeah, I've never felt like I feel like you're hiding something.

I try to be, I try not to nag or attack or anything like that. I just tell him, I just really want to be a team member and a partner in our marriage. But if you're honest and say to him and I'll use some doctor John Deloni's language. If you say to him, the story I've been telling myself is that you're hiding something. And there's something, there's this huge amount of debt that I don't know about.

And you're keeping something from me. I don't want to keep telling myself that story if it's not true. Can you help me? And the other story that I like to tell myself is that we're married and we're a team and teams do things together. That's the one I want to be true, but I'm not seeing evidence of it.

Right? And so you're kind of like laying out both, you know, these juxtaposing sides of yourself that are at war.

“And just let him know and you kind of have the key to this because the balls in your court.”

And unless you tell me that none of that's true and you open up the finances to include your other team member. Something's going to have to really change here. And you be the strong one that's got a clear point of view.

And let's see how we response to that.

“Yeah, I mean, we have had fights and more civil conversations about this and it seems like a pattern where, for example, I don't have a bank.”

We don't have a short shared bank account. So if I want to get groceries, I have to ask for the debit card and then I have to ask for how much money I can spend. That's crazy, Anna. And have you said that one of them really shared like, hey, I am scared. I'm frustrated.

I didn't get married so that I could have a daddy, I need to ask an allowance for. I'm raising our kids. This puts me at risk. I don't know anything about our finances. It's only where it happened to you.

I have no clue where to start. And this is a non-negotiable of our marriage that when we became one, it has to include our money too. I've actually said all of that. And he shuts down. Yeah, he should get really defensive.

You need a third party to enter the conversation.

Yep. And good, because this is a marriage problem at this point, the money is a symptom of something much deeper. And I don't know. I can't say from here that he's there's, you know, financial infidelity or what he's hiding or if it's just maniacal control.

But whatever it is, it's very unhealthy. Yeah. And your family, your kids deserve better than that. Because they're watching. They're watching mom and dad and see how they operate.

And they're watching mom scared begging for grocery money. That's not a picture of the marriage that you intended. No, not at all. And so if it's you going to a marriage counselor on your own, that's a good start. But he's going to need to join at some point.

Otherwise, it's him opting out of this relationship. And that's a very good point that George makes. I would definitely go to him and say, we need counseling. And if he won't go, you go on your own. And one of the things that I would want you to talk to with that counselor is what are some things that I can put in place.

That will let him know that this is a serious deal breaker for me if it doesn't change. And how do I kind of enforce those in a way that he knows that this is serious? And in the meantime, how do I keep myself safe? And right, and talk about those things and what that strategy is because it is important for you to be able to not just bluff, right? When you have these conversations, there has to be something behind it.

Otherwise, he's going to go, no. Right, and you're just going to take it and keep doing it, right? So there's got to be a point that you decide. At this is my point where I go, I can't go forward unless you pick up the slack here and do your side of things. Okay, yes, I have tried to for a long time.

I've suggested going to a counselor, but he also refuses to do that. So I figured that was the case. Man, it takes, it takes two to make the thing go around and he's not doing it. Okay, yeah. And it's because he doesn't want to deal with whatever is being hidden right now. And it needs to come to the light.

“Yeah, that's what I wanted to ask, but what do you guys think?”

See? I mean, I can tell you something's being hidden. I 100% listen, I don't know what, but when people are hiding things, it's because they have something to hide. I can tell you that, I don't know what it is, it could. Right.

I have no idea, but we've seen things on this show anywhere from gambling to other types of addictions to just, to George's point, just purely control. It could truly just be a control freak in a certain area. But it's the bigger thing that I want to caution you on is we just get calls like this a lot, Anna. And women in these situations tend to let this go on far too long.

And the way it ends is not good. The longer they let it go on, the worse the ending. And so I really just want to empower you to stand on your two feet and really just have a backbone in the things that you're saying, and really take action on the things that George and I are saying because I don't know about you, but I'd want to know sooner than later who this guy is.

And who he's, what he's going to choose when it comes to his family. Yes, it's terrifying. But yes, I know you're right about that. Because a marriage is built on trust and respect and right now you have neither of those things. On top of no accountability, no transparency.

So I don't care how nice he is in other areas of your life. This marriage is going south and we need to rectify that. And if he's unwilling to participate in that, that's very telling.

“And so you need to get help for yourself because you're in a really bad position right now, being in the dark.”

And he's basically sees you as a roommate taking care of his kids.

Yeah, and I just also want to say it's a form of abuse financial abuse is a real thing. So I just want to use that language so you know how serious this is. And please, Anna, call us back if you need anything. We're definitely here to help and we're rooting for you.

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But don't wait on a rate that you can't predict. Okay, nobody can predict this. And so we say go ahead and date the rate and marry the house. Remember, you can always refinance later and just remember, no matter what the market is doing, only buy when you're financially ready to do so.

We want this to be a blessing for you guys never a burden. Now also in other news here, median home prices did dip below 429,000 last month, which honestly, that's a 2.4 decrease from the previous year. So that's good news, especially if you're ready to buy. One in five listings had a price cut last month, again, good news.

So you do have room guys to negotiate on the price repairs and closing costs here in Nashville. It's starting to turn into a buyer's market. So that's really nice.

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or free tools to buy or sell with confidence, go ahead and go to RamseySolutions.com/market or you can just click that link in the show notes. Love it, love it, love it. All right guys, let's go to Crystal, who's in Atlanta, Georgia, high crystal, you're on the line. Hi. Hi. Hey.

Thanks for taking my call. So out of the state, oh mom, the last year, because the single mom is two, my youngest, my younger, my children school yet. I found a part-time job. I also started a business, but it's not yet paying me and I lost my job.

So now I'm not a money and I'm out of credit and I don't, I mean, I don't even want debt, but I don't know what to do. Wow. Sounds like a lot of life has happened. Yes. How long have you been a single mom?

A year.

“Okay. Is there any kind of alimony or child support involved?”

I do get child support. There's no alimony. I get a small amount of child support each month. Okay, how much is that? $5,000. Okay. Currently, that's your only income?

Yes, for the last two months. What is your rent or mortgage? My rent. We have an apartment. It's about $13,000 a month. Oh, wow. So we're already going 300 in on the credit cards just for rent.

We haven't done anything else yet. Yeah. Tell us about the part-time job and tell us about who's taking care of the kids. So I had a part-time job at a school at preschool. Okay.

And my kids could go there. But then I lost the job. So I also at the same time. What caused you to lose the job? Because I didn't have jobs here for my youngest.

Oh, my oldest could go there when he was three.

“So you physically couldn't go to the job due to child care issues?”

I could go to the job. And my youngest could go there with me.

But then she just got too old when she was with me at first.

I was baby wearing her and she was super young. But then she was running around and it was just too much. Understood. So the three-year-old and how old is the oldest? The oldest is he's three.

Three. How old is the youngest then? I'm sorry. She's one. One and three. Okay. Do you have any family near you?

Are you kind of on an island or is there friends and family nearby? I do have a church community that has helped me. And they've covered my branch before. Okay. So I have some people.

What we're looking for. The main key here is you got to be able to work.

Because people just giving you money, that's going to run out real fast. And it's going to get old with people really, really fast. But if you can find a situation of child care, that could really be helpful. If you can look on maybe look into a group where there's a share,

where people are sharing the load, and maybe you take weekends and watch the kids while the other moms go do something else. Something like that. If you can find it.

But the first thing, so I'd be looking for things like that.

But the number one thing is let's start job hunting. Because the thing is, if you can find a full-time job, doing the things that you know how to do, you can generate enough income to be able to put them back in a daycare, and then have some leftover money to actually make your life run.

So we got to. Did you send them saying? And this isn't forever. Because once they're, you know, four, five, six, they're going to be in school.

And that'll free you up even further and relieve that daycare cost. But in the meantime, let me separate what I said, because I don't want it to be confusing to you.

“You need to find that, that big job that's going to give you,”

you know, we're looking for something that, let's try to make $50,000, or $60,000 a year. But in the meantime, you're going to have to take something to fill in that gap, and that's where it could really be helpful to find some kind of co-op situation with these kids

through your church. Maybe there's some other moms there. Maybe they offer a mom's day out. Whatever you can do, maybe there's an older lady at church that you're like, hey, can I, you're retiring?

Do you need something to do? Can I pay you? What I have just for this season? Right? This is the time to really lean on relationships

as much as you can for time for help with time, not money, if that makes sense. Yeah. Okay. How much did you currently have?

Um, a crate card to get around $20,000. How quickly was that built up? Um, since I didn't, since I became a single monster about a year and a half. Yeah, okay.

So yeah, I don't want you to look up a year from now, and be $40,000 in credit card debt at 27% APR, and just wonder how you're ever going to climb out of it. So the goal is to stop the bleeding, quit going into debt, cover our four walls.

“That's what you should be focused on right now.”

It's just food utilities, housing transportation. Do you have a reliable car? Yeah. Okay. I would be asking the church community,

asking all my friends, hey, there are any open roles that you know of, because full-time work, making salary, would really be a blessing right now. And have you applied for any assistance in the meantime? I have. Good.

Okay, so I mean, these are what George and I have laid out for you. I mean, this is kind of the basics of trying to get yourself on your feet, but you have to be persistent. So we're going to give you, find the work you're wired to do. It's going to have kind of help you get the wheels turning on some of the work that,

hey, these are rules that I could apply for. And it's going to help you know, what could you be good at? What are you passionate about? And so we'll give you that for free. We'll also give you every dollar so that you can make sure that the money that you do begin to make.

You can start to budget it. And every dollar is going to speak to you with our plan in mind. It's going to teach you how to manage money the way we teach, which is no debt.

“So all of those things are really, really going to help you.”

But I can't. I cannot stress it any more than this crystal. This is a season for you. It's not going to be like this forever. You've got little right now in George made an excellent point.

When they get school aged, it's going to be like the parting of the red sea.

And you're finally going to be able to have a little bit of help that you don't have to pay for.

And the form of them going to public school. And so if you can just hold on a little while longer and just keep pushing. This is probably the hardest season. But it's not going to be like this. So don't give up.

Try your best. I mean, make these calls tonight. That's your homework. I mean, tonight in this weekend, you're calling up friends. You're bringing them over to the house and you're saying, here's where I'm at.

And if you've ever wanted to know how you can help me. This is how you can help me. I need child care. I need us to figure this out together and get some friends around you who love you and who really rally with you.

Oh, boy, oh boy. If you're out there and you're in a situation like crystal, we feel for you. Yes. There are going to be seasons where you're like, how am I even going to put food on the table. So it's a good way to just think through this.

I got to just cover the four walls. I don't have to do everything right now. I'm making sure that the rent is covered. I'm current on my bills. I can put some food on the table.

Basically clothing, put gas in the car, keep it running.

Cover the utilities. So they don't shut off water and electric. Yeah, that's so good, George. And I'll even put this out there. This is for me, too.

If you're involved in your church, our eyeballs need to be open. And we need to be looking around for the folks in our community that look like crystal that we can reach out and help that we can see what they're going through.

So that's something that we can all do because we all have crystals in our community. There's probably a crystal that's going to be at church at Sunday.

So let's get to them first.

So they don't have to ask us. Let's keep our eyes and our spirit open for folks like this that we can really help out and be generous with. Our big investing essentials event is next Tuesday and Wednesday. Don't miss your chance to be there. Investing isn't difficult, but it's not something you can learn in a 60 second TikTok video.

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Take it start at $199. Get yours now at RamseySolutions.com/events or by clicking the link in the show notes. If you haven't heard AskGramsey is our free AI tool and it's built and trained on proven Ramsey Principles and today we'll break down one of the questions that we received this week, which is a popular one. The question is this George, do I need an emergency fund when I retire?

The short answer is yes and honestly it matters even more in retirement guys. So when you're working a job, when you're working a job loss or an income dip is temporary. In retirement, your income sources are fixed, right? If your social security withdrawals or pension also an unexpected expense can force you to pull

from investments at the worst possible time and you don't want to do that.

“If the market is downturn and suddenly, I don't know, you need to fix a major thing in your roof.”

You don't want to have to pull more out of investments. You don't want to have a nice chunk of cash sitting there that can help you there. So again, even in retirement, the goal is the same as baby step three. You need three to six months of liquid cash for, you know, those expenses, again, in cash, not in the market. So if you're unsure about how much to keep in your emergency fund, go ahead and go to AskGramsey.

There are here to help. You can do AskGramsey and ask your question today for your situation at RamseySolutions.com. I have to do is just click that link in the description if you're listening on podcast or YouTube. Alrighty then. Katie's in Houston, Tejas.

What's up, Katie? Hi there. I have a question about protecting equity in my house in the event that my boyfriend were to move in with me. Oh boy, nothing sounds romantic like in the event.

“And why would you have to protect your equity?”

Are you expecting him to contribute to your home? No, no, no. So let me give you a little bit of background. So it's not quite as unique as it sounded by that sort of question. So we've been talking a lot about what our future might be like together.

We've been talking about, you know, building a life together, getting a house together. And like in our heart of ours, I think we would get married and I'm sold a house and I'm with my house together. But interest rates are at 7% and I bought this house at a low interest rate. It has a lot of things that we really like and a lot of things that are good for both of us. And you've expressed interest for his own goals in catching up on retirement savings.

So both of us will be in here would pose a lot of advantages to us. But I'm of course concerned. I bought this house. I invested in it. And, you know, well, I don't think this would happen with him. I would certainly want to protect myself because this was my investment and something I invested in. So I hope that makes a little more.

It's super simple if you go, hey, if you move in, which I don't recommend personally, but if he does it, he's a roommate.

“So he's not building equity because what happens when he breaks up, you're going to give him his share of half of his rentback?”

It's your house. You don't have to share the ownership and equity of your house with a roommate. Right, so what if we, what if we did decide to get married though, and then this was a practical thing? Well, then it's his house too. Then it's your house. So if he gets married, if he decides to marry you, we'll now the problem solved because the house is ours.

Even if that was something that I pre-existent.

Yes, I had a house before I married my wife. I didn't say, well, that house isn't yours. That's my money. My equity. I just got cool. It's ours now. That's the simplest way to do it. Now, you can set up a pre-nup and all the complicated things saying, hey, all the equity that I built.

I get to keep that if something were to happen. You can do whatever you want to do. But the simplest way to go about this is you guys get married. Then he moves in. Then the house is y'all's house.

“That's what you ask into the deed and keep paying the mortgage, knock that out,”

and the house is yours together. But it sounds like that's not in the picture currently.

Well, it seems like your guys are getting, I think you're mixing your worlds in the pursuit of wealth,

which is, hey, what if it was just Katie and what's his name? We can make up a name. Greg, let's say, Katie and Greg, they're together because they enjoy each other. So they're boyfriend and girlfriend. Love that. And this is not the way I live my life, but it's like Katie and Greg want to move in together. So they can spend more time to, okay, fine.

But somewhere along the lines, it also became a way for Katie and Greg to get equity and make money and invest more. And it got woven in with financial goals. But you don't get to do those things and you shouldn't, you shouldn't do those things until you're married. Because then you have the legal protections, you have the commitment that undergirds that sort of trust. And so that's why George suggested what he did because it's just cleaner.

It's not because of an old school traditional boomer.

It's to protect you and because you have a better chance at a successful marriage and higher chance of building wealth,

if you guys do it in the right order. And can I be honest, the people who move in together, they call back six years later and they're still not married. And one of you is resentful and it's usually the woman. And I got, why don't you guys married? Oh, you're living, okay, you've been living together six years and so he has really no reason.

Because he's all the benefits of marriage without the commitment. And that Katie that's so true. I mean, I got to believe, yeah, that's so true.

“You will take away and not to, not say that you have to leverage these men into marrying.”

I'm just saying, there are certain, if everything special and nothing special, right? So you're taking away what makes marriage such a special thing that's in a category of its own. Because it's like, well, number one, now we live in the same place. Number two, now we have, you know, probably intimate behaviors that we would have maybe only had a marriage, right? There's nothing there and now he's getting the benefit of, I don't even have to buy my own house.

I get, and do you see what I'm saying? You're going to make this tough for yourself. I think we lost. We lost. You know, you haven't lost me.

I think my concern is yes, I listen to your show a lot. And I see so many women who call in at 50 and 60. And they've been, and again, I don't think this would happen to me. But they are found themselves in a really bad situation because they've taken this step. And they haven't secured something for themselves.

“And that's what we want you to do there.”

No, we're on your side. We're trying to show you that protections would be in place if you guys got married to where you're not going to lose it all. If it sounds like, unless I understood you correctly, unless I misunderstood you, you're thinking, okay, Greg moves in. And if he starts paying rent, you're thinking now he has equity in my house, but he doesn't. If he moves in as your boyfriend, and he starts paying rent, he's just a renter.

And if you have a break up. Yeah, if you guys break up, you own the house, you owe him nothing, truly. Legally, he honestly he's the one that would be in the precarious situation. You would be in the in the position of strength. But if you guys get married and he moved in, your house, it would go from being eye to a weed situation.

Now, if that makes you nervous, that's another conversation. And that's something else that we can talk about. Truly, you are in the position of Katie of power, Katie, we're just trying to make it to where it's just clean. We just see too much messy on the show. And you said, you listen a lot.

So you've heard all the messiness. And so we're trying to see your way from that, because I don't want you going back into years from now frustrated. Going, I didn't think this could happen. I didn't think it would happen. So I would try to with caution with the plan of we want to combine lives except for the part where we get married.

Yeah, how long have you guys been together? I've been just about three years. Okay. I'm telling you, Katie, George pointed out a big fact, which is, I mean, I would put money on the table if this were a bedding game. If you let this cat move in, don't expect to ring anytime.

And that is going to be another three to five years, if ever.

And you'll be calling us back going, well, we've been together for 10 years. And he's, but we broke up and he's saying that I owe him money because he helped redo the bathrooms and he helped remodel the kitchen. And all, I mean, these are the calls that we get. So you are, give him something, leave something on the table that he has to take that next step in order to get your worth that.

“And if you're worried because he's bad with money, that's a legitimate red flag that you need to address.”

I hope we gave you enough homework to do. I think we did. It's a lot to think about. It is. Just having an existential crisis now.

It is a lot to think about because sometimes I think people can think that what we're teaching is simply because of, you know, just a belief system. But it really is. It is a clean way to do life. It's a clean way to value yourself. It's a clean way to value your money.

It's a clean way to protect yourself. There's more to it than just a personal value system. So hopefully you realize that, Katie, we love you. We're falling for you. Dave Ramsey here.

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I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my god than dwell in the tense of the wicked. I know that's right.

Alexander Graham Bell said this.

When one door closes, another opens. But we often look so regretfully upon the closed door that we don't see the one that is opened up for us. Man, that's a real talk right there, Graham. Alex. Alexander Bell Graham.

Alexander Bell Graham. Alexander Bell. Yeah, you know me. Yeah. Wow.

All right. We went there. Now we're going to go to Oklahoma City. Where Sarah is on the line. What's up, Sarah?

How are you doing? Hey, good. Good to talk to you, guys. Thank you. You too.

How can we help? I'll make it quick. My husband and I. I'm 44. He's 49.

We've started kind of late on our wealth building journey. We were overseas after we got married for five years. So we've been hustling for about 13 years. I'm graduating from grad school next year. So I'll start working then.

We have four kids. But we need to know how we are doing. So one of us, who I won't mention the name. But can relax and learn to have a little fun. But also how we can move forward.

Since our income will change pretty significantly next year. Well, I think you're in good hands. I feel like George, this is. This is your bag right here. That's right.

I'm delivering tight wads. I'm going to let you go. I'm going to let you fly. Okay, so there's some competing goals here. You're trying to finish school.

We're trying to get set up for retirement. We also want to live along the way. Is that what you're wondering? How do we balance this all? Yeah.

We don't want to retire broke. We also want to go on a vacation in the next decade. Exactly. Okay. I love it.

How much debt do you guys currently have? How much debt? Yeah. We only have our house. And then my student debt.

Our house. We owe about 90,000. And my student debt is about 30,000 right now. That'll go up a little bit next semester. But then that's it.

Okay. What's the household income? It's about 80. Well, his growth last year was 112. His net was 84.

It's around 7,000 a month when you have. Take home. Yeah. 84. Great.

“What will yours be when you're done with grad school?”

I'm not sure yet. I'm getting a counseling degree.

So it will depend on where I work and how that's.

I work. What's an average? What's your goal? What's your goal? I'm not going to make below 65 and it could be upwards of 80.

Yeah. Probably around there. I hope. Yeah. Okay.

So you said you're going to have to go into a little more debt.

“Is there a way to cash flow that instead of going further into debt?”

Um potentially. Um, but I think he doesn't want to pull it out of savings. There's the answer. What do you have in savings? Well, we have 35,000.

Of what cash? Yes. Okay. So 35,000.

And what is it cost per semester for grad school?

Um, next semester. So if you cash flow it, you're down to 29,000 in savings. Yes. Which you still have 30 grand in debt. Is he doing any investing right now or either of me?

Um, he has his 401k. I guess invested. I don't believe he has any extra aside from that. Okay. So it sounds like you guys are just misaligned on the goals and what you guys want to do financially.

What does he want to do?

“Is he like I want to keep saving and put more in retirement?”

Yes. Basically, yes. I think his main frustration is like, we don't, we don't just save enough. And I'm like, oh, we have four people. We're living very frugally.

Like, what do you, do you know what you have thus far? Like, do you have any money in retirement at all? Um, he has 124,000. And his 401k. Okay.

So I want to crunch some numbers on just what it looks like. To continue to invest. Let's pretend. For a moment that there's not the $30,000 of student loan debt just because I want to see what these numbers are. But I'm seeing a world where.

With the $35,000 of savings, you have a couple of choices. You can either turn around and pay these student loans off that are existing and drop that down. And then you could probably cash flow the 6,000 per semester on his income. Uh, $7,000 a month. I got to believe believing that your mortgage is in the right place.

And then from there, if once you have that done, if you continue to invest, just off of his income, I got to believe you're there at retirement with no problem. Do you see how I did that? So think about this future. You guys use your savings to cash flow school.

Then pay off your 30 grand and student loan debt. And then whatever's left becomes your emergency fund, keep saving that up to you of three to six months of expenses. Now for the rest of your working careers, you can invest 15% of that $175 to $200,000 income. Right. You're going to be okay in retirement at that point.

And you're still going to be able to go on vacation. So we just need to do a few things in order. The next year, you're still going to be sacrifice. But then beyond that, you can really budget for all the things you want to do. Right. So you would pay off the student loan instead of okay.

Because I think my thought was if I take my income from my first year, we'll pay it off.

And then we still have the 35 just in case we need it for something. No, the reason I wouldn't do that is because these student loans number one, they're going to draw interest at some point. And we don't even want to get there. And yeah, so they're unsubsidized. And then the other problem here is the longer you keep this around,

it's like a pet. You just get comfortable with it. And the time is going to need to come for you to go, you know what? Enough of this. This is ridiculous.

We need to change our life here.

“And so that's why I would go ahead and do that.”

So you pay it off. You have 5,000 left in savings. Now, you know, you could keep that there if you wanted to continue to build up that three to six months. But I believe on his income, you guys can cash flow $6,000 a semester on $7,000 a month. You 100% can cash flow college.

I believe that that's possible. And then from then on, once you get out of school, well, now you guys are making $182,000 a year. And now we can crank back into a full fledge. I'm going to say a full fledged 15% of investing. That's the kind of vegetables right there.

So now we ate the vegetables. We can have a little dessert. We can set money aside for the vacation or the car upgrade, whatever it may be in a budget. But it sounds like you guys have not made a budget together. Since being married, where you guys both are looking at this thing, we agree.

This is the game plan. We have. It just has been very variable over the years. And so sometimes it's like, okay, well, we need to survive. So let's do this right now.

And it's been like based on emotional. It's based on how we feel that month, right? Not always. But sometimes it's what we need to do to pay the rent or to buy the house. Or just something on the car needs specs.

Because both our cars are very old.

We know we have that car repair.

Let's set the money aside and the car maintenance repair fund. Let's make sure we're investing 15%. Let's make sure we have $200 a month going to the vacation fund. If you guys can agree on all of that, then he's going to be good with the fund parts. If it's laid out clearly in the budget.

And it's not a surprise if you go and hey, I tell you don't go on vacation. We really need to go on vacation. All he's seeing is dollar bills fly away. So that budget is going to be your source of truth.

“And I think it'll help you guys compromise and come up with a game plan that works.”

To where you know you're going to build wealth for the future. And you know you're going to enjoy your life now. But the next year, we got some homework. We got to clean up the debt. Avoid going into more debt.

Get the emergency fund. Which means he needs to pause investing. I don't think I can convince him to do that on this call. But that would be the game plan to follow the baby steps that millions have followed. And if he does that, it'll still work out.

“I mean, if you plug it into the calculator, I love this thing.”

If you've planted it, plug it into our investing calculator. You've got 124,000 there now. Once you're out of grad school and this, you know, the smoke clears on all of this. And you have your full income to invest. If you're investing 2,275 a month, which is 15% of your gross income.

Once you start working, you've got another 15 years for that to grow till age 65.

Gosh, I mean, that's almost $1.7 million.

So you're 60 and he's 65. Yeah. That's not bad. That's not bad at all. And in that time, you went back to school.

You got your degree in that time. You paid off all of your debt. You've got three to six months of expenses. You're going on vacation. That's right.

You're income doesn't go up at all for 15 years straight. Exactly. Which we know is not going to be the case. Exactly. That's without the employer match, which I'm sure he gets.

Yeah. You know, the theme for the call today, George. I feel like there's a lot of people wanting to do a lot of things at the exact same time. And it just doesn't work out like that.

“You have to prioritize and put things in the order that they are best suited to be done.”

So you can actually accomplish things. One thing at a time focused intensity over time will do the trick.

Now remember, guys, there's ultimately only one way to find the actual piece.

And that's to walk daily with the Prince of Peace. Christ Jesus. [BLANK_AUDIO]