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now. Yeah, guys. Someone's a little late to work. I don't know what he's doing around. He doesn't want

“to get up here because it's fucking 85 degrees. He's over here fucking dying. I think our AC is out or”

some shit. I get hot. It's always something, man, with these houses. You don't move. It's not bad.

Yeah. You don't need to stay so politely. Don't move and you don't feel how fucking hot and thick the air is. How's everybody doing? I feel like I haven't seen you guys in forever and it's been 24 hours. It's been 24 hours. Yeah. It seemed like a week. Yeah. Feels good to be home. I saw you yesterday. Yeah. Yeah. It's been a different part of it. I saw you yesterday. But I've been, I haven't even haily alone. It's letting her enjoy her silence because she needed to recharge. But yeah.

We're back in Nashville, baby. It could be happier. It's so different. It doesn't matter. I work here. I'm like the difference between here and LA's. I've definitely done like my socialization here for sure. I've shopped as much as I possibly could. I went to Ross. Ross is good. They got a fucking great Ross and LA right by the house. Yeah. There's a big house Ross and LA right by the house. It's not the same. I don't know what it is. I don't know. I feel like

everything's right. Maybe it's because there's no parking lots there. Yeah. But like see, I'm the opposite

of you guys. Like I love Nashville. Like it's always going to be home. But I really prefer LA.

Everything is right there. No. I feel like there's a part way of mission. If the parking situations were better and if I knew how to read the parking signs there, yeah, I'd be good. Well, you don't drive down there at all. Yeah. No, I won't. I refuse to drive there. I won't time this past month. No. Nope. You took Uber down the block. I saw her get in a Uber and go half a block and get out. I saw her. I did. I did. That's crazy. Also, I'm not driving, you know, tanks. Those cars.

Those cars are too big for me. I bet that perception. Yeah. I don't think you guys want me to drive.

“No. I think we should be thinking here, then. Yeah. At least I'm aware, you know.”

They just want more. Oh, God. I think I did. I think I did so bad. I mean, that's a big ask. Fucking. I imagine me driving it. Yeah. I may have bumped it a little somewhere at one point. It was just a lot. I feel like making new turns. We're chasing people down highways and streets. Yeah. You guys want to share with the class? No, hot guy. Wait, no, I am sharing with the class. Okay. So we were literally sitting at dinner. And I was like, I wish just like a

hot-ed-tatted guy would walk in. Hot-ed. What is that? What is that? I don't know. It's going to be that up. I was like, I just wish a freaking-tatted guy would walk in. Like, there was like, I was just trying to find my type somewhere. And then we're on the way home. And I see one walking on the street. And I said, maybe stop. Flip a bitch. Flip it around. Goes past him. And he

when you're driving the past fast. All I saw was I get it. No, I get it. Like, we were driving quickly past him. And then we ran the block. And then she goes around. Because she didn't look the same. I said, I didn't know which one was in. She was pulling up and I'm about to like, talk to him. And she keeps going. I said, I mean, he was right there. She's like, I didn't see him. So we had to live around again. You know, I was like, she's got his own red eyes. I was like,

they're just saying now. And she's like, do you still want me to go? He said, yeah. And I had my phone like out like to get his number. She pulls up the window rolls down. And I like had my phone here. And I look at him. And I was like, oh, shit. And I like slowly lower my phone. I was like,

“yeah, what's up? It's the most awkward conversation ever. And I was like, that's what you get for”

fucking. That's what you guys were even cooperating. I was going to get a problem. I'm so sorry for

fucking trying to pick dude. I dude up off the street. I'm sorry. You never, you don't even know

where he was coming street. Yeah. No street. It was a good street street meet. It was a nice street. So let's be gone soon. Well, I think that's a red flag and speaking of red flags. Speaking of red flags. We asked you guys today. What's the biggest red flag? You ignored because they were hot. And oh, my God. My DMs are fucking on. I don't even need my name. You are. I have my own testimonies. Oh, all right. We're going to like, we're going to use something that you can't

just because the guy was hot. There's so many like at all of them. Um, we said all of them. Almost all of them. The biggest one that you guys know would be. I know this one. Mm-hmm. That I'm still obsessed with him. I think he put a spell on me. I really think he did something to my brain. Um, but he, we met at a bar after like not talking for a week and he, I was with a friend who he knew and he invited us to a hotel that night and ended up going upstairs with her and told

“me that I couldn't come up and then it up banging. It's not my fucking friend anymore, but I somehow,”

I, I didn't talk to him for like over a year and then I and we became friends again and talked

again and then, um, yeah, that was a girlfriend. So I'm not talking to him, but um, I'm still fucking stinky feet. Oh, fucking stinky tanks. That dude had the fucking smelly as feet. I don't even care. I want to out him right now. I would. No, no, God. No, I will. I will be sure. Please, look at it. But I listen, let's tell the real fucking story about how he came on the tour bus and he couldn't fit inside the bunk because the bunk was so big and weren't you like giving

him head or something? And this whole partner kicked his shoes off and his feet were hanging out of the bunk. Okay, literally all you could see was these fucking paws just hanging out in the fucking, in the alleyway right there. And I'm in my bunk, which is in the back, and I could smell this motherfuckers feet. Dude, and it didn't smell like Freedos. It smelled like sour pus. Yeah, and like all in the bunk, with her, by the way. Yeah, it was like three on each side. We are all

in the bunk. Yeah. Living in the stink. Yeah. And this bit. No, no, no, this bitch tried to be like,

- No guys, it was my shoes.

“And we said, "Yes, she tried to take the blame for his shoes."”

- That's right. - I didn't take the blame for him. - He could have been mine. - I didn't do it. - It was three months. - It didn't work. - Hangin' out. - Dude, it smelled like-- - I didn't know. - I didn't know.

- I didn't know. - I didn't know. - He guys, no, I don't know. - You guys. - No, his feet were hanging out. - No, it was so-- - We were in Dallas too. And looking, Amber starts playing Dick and Dallas.

- That's true. - No, I was sitting on the bus. And you walked in and sat down your phone. - That was playing-- - Is this love? And left or just sitting there for your phone? - I was trying to-- - That's a move.

- I was trying to watch you underneath the door before we all went to bed. - Yeah. - I mean, we were holding our breath. - Watching. - Or I was rooting you on just-- - Yeah. - Yeah, listen, we're homies.

We were right and with you dude. We were like, you know what? If this motherfucker is gonna smell like shit and she loves them or like some word they're all the way there. But yeah, that bitch that did that to you,

I still don't like her because of that. - Yeah. - Yeah, she's a skank of Ellie. - We don't like her. - Yeah, but that's already dark.

- I can't remember. - Still like 'em.

- I literally think he did some kind of voodoo on me.

- I don't think he crashed down enough. I would've put my hand on that door. I would've been like, where are we going guys? - No, they would not let me up.

“It was one of those elevators you have to have a key”

or just let you up. - But the door was open at some point, right? - No, no, she went with him and when she showed up because she wasn't with the girl. - She didn't go, oh, I thought you--

- They went up before me. - I was like waiting in the hotel lobby. They went up before me and then said-- - And then another girl that I met, that night she came down and she was like, hey, let me get them to let you up

and then she goes, they said, only I could come up and I was like, got it. - I know, I was-- - So you left for you? - I would've stayed with her, but we're both going.

- I was so fucking pissed for you and she did that to you. - I was like, that's not a fucking friend. - All right, well I'll kick this off.

- You guys were all up in the DMs, being crazy.

- There's got mad all over again. - Yeah, I've just saw you, I saw you look all over. - That was a fucked up situation. Okay, this one I thought was gross. He was a bouncer at a club and only ever showered

in the morning, regardless of working all night and had no pillowcases and flared toothbrush bristles. - Not the flared-- - I didn't do this for you. - I did.

- Two front shots. - Why do they brush so hard? - It's not that they brush so hard that I've had that toothbrush for ages. They've literally probably not changed that toothbrush

out for like two years. - I can guarantee most men don't know when the average time to throw away toothbrush. - Excuse me? - Yep.

- I do like a month. - Unless I'm like sick, I'll throw that out, like right after that.

“- You need to be signed them on a casual Tuesday all the time.”

- Yeah. - I got a whole stock in a drawer just 'cause I'm like, I need a new one. I want to do my first.

- I want to do my first four.

- Yeah. - I haven't been my purse like literally. - I'd just be buying them to buy 'em. - I accidentally brushed my teeth with Dylan's toothbrush last night.

And I haven't told 'em. This is my confession right now. - It was an accident. - 'Cause they both fucking look away. - I said, "Clip that I'm ascended to him directly."

- Dude, it was a fucking accident. And I was like, oh my god, I know why I tell him. But then I thought about it and I was like, I mean, when you find out, when you find out. - Was it like in the beginning or at the end?

- It was mid-stroke. - Oh, you were like, I was like, I was like, you know like when you look in the mirror and you're like, fuck. And so I like pulled it out and wiped it off and washed it as good as I could and I put it back.

- Nicely set it back and I was like, "Fuck, I hope he doesn't come in and try to brush his teeth." And he was like, "Why is my toothbrush wet right now?" - Yeah, I feel like there's been a lot. - He uses a hair dryer on it.

- Yeah.

“- It's some shit I would really scrape it on it.”

- It's scraping on a towel. (laughing) - Let's keep it extra like this. - Damn. - Dude needs a new toothbrush.

Maybe you could have bought in him like pillowcases and toothbrushes and talked about his hygiene. - Yeah, I mean, but she stayed with him 'cause he was hot. So I got a bitch, you were fucking,

you were kissing on that bristly toothbrush mouth. - I'm not mad if you found it. - I'm not mad if you found it in a guy's bathroom. - Ooh, baby, I don't know about y'all, but I'm over paying random fees

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On Reddit, true crime doesn't come from journalists. It comes from the victims, the witnesses, and sometimes the suspects themselves. Every Tuesday on crimes of Reddit, we read these posts out loud.

I'm Sabrina diana roga and I'm Alexis Linkletter. One of us brings the story, the other goes in blind, reacting in real time, just like you. New episodes dropped every Tuesday. Listen to and follow crimes of Reddit,

available now wherever you get your podcasts. - pregnancy test, kidding, I just wanted it up. - Girl shit? - Yeah. - Wait, like a girl shit in the toilet?

- She just said girl shit with--

“Actually, I think I have found shit in the toilet one time.”

And I was like, yeah, I'm gone. - Wait, was it, 'cause you forgot to flush? - Yeah, I forgot to flush. - I cannot stand another fucker who doesn't know how to flush a toilet.

I know somebody who was like that. I lived with somebody who was like that, and it is the most disgusting, fucking thing to live with, just fucking big olshadubies, just melting away. - Just melting away.

- I used the toilet. - There are more flushes. - Shit with the lid open. - Mm. - It's fucking nasty. I will say, I had an X one time,

and it was when I first met him, and I went in his bathroom,

and he had cigarette butts in the shower. (laughing) - Look at the sun on. - Look at the shower. - That is not fucking hot.

- Oh, that's so gross. - Oh, that's gross. - You can imagine what it was smelling. - You're like in there, what's the point of the fucking shower? - Yeah, it was like a whole little thing of cigarette butts.

- I had an X2 drink beer in the shower. - I had an X roommate who used to put her backwards guts in the sink. (gasping)

“Like it'd be like full with like wrappers”

and backwards guts, and-- - Well, she wouldn't wash her hands. - No, I know, or she's mine. - I think that's not like that. - The amount of DMs though, I got from men,

who said mentally ill, about girls, ill. - Okay, all right. - I didn't get any news, I like how you got dudes. - Yeah, I got dudes and all, I was like, they were mentally ill, they were crazy.

I stayed with you guys. - You guys made 'em that way. - Yeah, I don't believe she was. - Yeah, great movie, by the way, house made. - Did you watch house made?

- I was in this one, yeah, that was good. - You only watched it for tips. - No, I didn't, it was my idea, just the same. - Yeah, but it was a good movie. I liked the script really good.

- They liked the plot, huh? - Yeah, the plot was great, the great story. - Yeah, the great story, great story. - That's a main guy's name. - Huh, the guy, there's a guy in there.

(laughing) - I can't, I thought it was a solo. - All right, this one said my ex from teenagers years

always had condoms, but they would be gone a lot faster

than they should have been for us. I had questioned him, he got his dad to tell me that as men, we take care of our business at times alone and we use condoms to come in because it feels better than a sock.

That's four to a few weeks, caught him jerking it, no condom and asked. I thought you used a condom for this. He replied, "Why the fuck would I use a condom to jack off and waste a condom?"

At the end of that sentence, he realized the bullshit story. They had told me, had tied back and was now tracking. I dumped my soda all over him. He was still hard and ruined that nut. He took off and never went back.

- Oh, that's a lot of unpack there. - Yeah, how do we even start? - So he was drinking off in the condom or he wasn't drinking. He was not, he caught him not jerking off in the condom. So we're the fuck where the condom's going.

- Another one being? - Yeah. - Another one being. (laughing) - I mean, that's crazy.

- It took me so long. - Wow.

- But like, what a fucking lie to come up with, man.

- It's actually, I mean, me makes it. - But did you stay with him? Because that's the point of a red flag. Like you ignore that, but you still stay. - I'm sure a lot of these people stayed.

- Okay. - You know, we have all done some, we listen and we don't judge. Because we have all fucking stomach worrisome. - Oh, I literally run into red flags.

- Red flags, yeah. - Listen, I love a good flag in there. - I mean, green flags are boring. - Listen, I love an amusement park, okay? And I will ride every ride.

- All right. You guys know, you guys, anytime I'm like, this guy's being so nice to me and he wants to take you. - Oh, man. - Ladies, I'll be happy to remind you

in my bed the other day. - She, she sprawled out in my bed. She's like, "Uh, he wants to go get coffee." I said, "Haley, that's like a great sign. Like go get coffee."

She's like, "But it's raining." And like, he just wants to have coffee. And I said, "That's a okay thing to do." And she's like, "Nah." - I said, "What do you want to make?"

- I understand that because Dylan and I, one time, we had like a, we needed, we needed to talk about something. And he was like, "Okay, well, let's just go get coffee in the morning."

And I go, "Absolutely the fuck not." - I'm not going to be a coffee with you. - I'm like, I was like, "Just what am I going to sit there and ship my brains out while we have a fucking serious conversation?"

- In the day? - And having anxiety, like, - In broad daylight? - How do people just sit there and they're like, "Hey, you know, like fucking having coffee."

There's no way, like lunch, cool, dinner, absolutely.

“- Cause he was, that's why I was thinking”

but he was like, "Oh, I already ate." And I'm like, "Okay." - Yeah. - So coffee was like the next, I mean, you were not going for the coffee,

you're going to be like, "Yeah." - Like this coffee shops are bright, that's like, maybe he's right outside. - Yeah, I agree with you on that one. - I look better at the dark.

- Yeah, me too. Give me a moody atmosphere. - Give me a bar. - That's why I cut that out. - Yeah.

- Like, maybe I should light it in the night. - Huh? - Maybe we should go there tonight. - Okay, you just perked her up. - Yeah, I was already going.

- Oh, you are? - Yeah. - I don't want to intrude on your date. - Oh, I'm gonna be all over him so. You guys walk in, I'm making out the corner.

- You're fine. - Gotcha. - We'll figure it out. - All right, your next memes. Just wait.

(both laughing) Sorry. Okay, I have one. I'm gonna tell you guys a name, but we have to cut it.

Oh, yeah, she brought me one too. Go ahead. - Yeah. - I know who it is, too. 'Cause I was like, can I use your name?

She's like, okay, wearing my laundry and wanting to get strapped every time we fold around. Also using my diltos when I was at work. - Yes, and that dude is now a woman and their best friends. And he, yeah, and he works for her.

Yeah, crazy, right? - Yeah, I'm a little confused if who this is. - Yeah. - Is that it? - Yeah, who's that?

- Gotcha, okay.

- She only knows what I always call her.

She also likes pretty boys that are like, you know, just like me. We like, we like the gay guys, we love the gay is. I really think I was a gay dude in a past life because I am so attracted to gay men. Like I, and like make up boys.

- Yes, I love more like dramatic kind of almost like, where more make up for me. - I will smear it. Like I love it, yeah.

“That's why I was, that's why I loved Chris motionless”

for so long 'cause he was so hot. We like the police don't, I don't need the headlines to pick that up, but he was nervous. For example, or like Marilyn Manson, you know, like he was hot. - What about kiss?

- No, G7's no, that's too old. - The only band I can name, not make up. - Oh yeah, that's face, but I actually did a lap dance for G7's one time at Olympic Gardens and he licked my back.

- No. - No. - That's kind of did not make up on. He didn't have fucking make up on. He did, he did not make up on it.

I didn't believe it was him and he goes, and put his tongue out and I was like, "It is you." - So, no funny. - Yeah, we went to VIP and Tasha and I gave him lap dances and he fucking licked our backs.

It was long as. I've got a lot of lore.

I've never talked about, but yeah.

- Are we gonna talk about the lore one day? Which lore are we talking about here? - Yeah, right there. - Which one? - That's kind of lore.

- Yeah, I want more stories about that.

“I feel like maybe when you should write a book about those.”

- Oh, yeah, speaking of book number two is in the works, baby. We had a meeting yesterday, I'm so excited. It's gonna be. - All right, anyways, you're next.

I mean, you got a red flag? - You ever stayed with a bitch with a girl? - I mean, I can't like her green flag. - I mean, it's a girl. - But I'm Latino side definitely got my red flags.

But I'm definitely, yeah, oh, I argue like a woman. That's probably a red flag. - Not your red flag. - I got a red flag. - I got a girl that you were with.

- But you're still stayed because she was hot, but you stayed. - Oh, plenty. - The fact you said plenty is crazy. - Yeah, 'cause you kind of looked back past the crazy,

a little bit, you know. Dude, red flag, red flag. - Did someone ever throw anything at you? - Yeah. - I know, I just thought the memory of you.

- He said that was kind of hot. She threw something on the head. - Oh, no, no, it's hard to think of him on a spot. - I feel like I'm as a green flag, so he only attracts green flags.

- No, I've definitely attracted my crazys.

“- What's the craziest thing that's ever happened to you?”

- With a woman? That's such a broad question. - And you remember to throw something at you? - Um, sure. - Sure.

- I think it was like a tennis racket. - I think it was like-- - Oh, okay. - Yeah, he was like, wait, was this a turn on or a red flag? Is this a red flag? I thought that was--

- Yeah, thought that was-- (laughing) - I was like, I was pretty excited. - No, I can't even-- It'll hit me.

Once it hits me, I will-- - All right, where you're going with me? - Oh, yeah, she got Snapchat, definitely a red flag for me. - I swear, that's actually a topic I wanted to talk about. There was a girl who wrote me in and said that this guy

would never answer text messages,

but would always reply on Snapchat. And I think it is such a red flag when I do. - That's the guy's too, yeah. - Guy and girlfriend make him. I feel like I only have one just to make money on it.

And I don't even have friends. - You talked to me through-- - Hey, we talked to me through Snapchat. - Yeah. - Yeah, but we're adults.

- Ah, yeah, we don't count-- - Yeah, we're the minority. - Yeah, literally sends me two minute-long videos on Snapchat of her grandpa. - Yeah.

- Like, yeah. - I wore me in the most dumb filter, I can find it. - 100%.

- Yeah, I just feel like, men, because there was,

“okay, when I first started, when I first was single,”

there was a dude who's super cute, he's in a band. And I was like, okay, this will be fun. You know, whatever, he's out here in Nashville. And he immediately wanted to go to Snapchat and sexed. And I was just like, immediately--

- Immediately. - It was like, "Size your job." - That's for number, not app. - Yeah, well, he had my number, and we were texting. - And then he was like, "Let's go to Snapchat."

- Let's go to Snapchat. And I was like, you know, in that right there, I was just like, "Moop, I stopped even communicating "when I'm after that," because I was just like, "Oh, you're in that thing, could you?"

- Huh? - Is it who I think it is? - Say it. - We can believe it. - It's exactly what I thought.

- Yeah. - They can't believe it. - Yeah, yeah. - Okay. - Yeah.

- All right, this one said, which I don't even know if this is a red flag, because I mean, I was turned on when I read it. - Okay. (laughing)

- Who the worst people did, Joe? - Yeah, oh my God. - Oh my God, oh my God.

“- He threw me up against a wall and choked me”

when I walked through the door after a girl's night out. And his reason was, I just miss you when you're not spending time with me. I was 18, he was almost 30 and really hot. - We could have gone without the age thing, but.

- I mean, listen, if my man throws me up against a wall after I've been out with my girls and bangs me and choked me, I'm completely fine with that. - Yeah, yeah. - As long as it was consensual.

- Yeah. - As long as she wasn't scared and it wasn't like, - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - She didn't make it sound like it was D.V. She said he was really hot.

- Yeah. - It's like the one time you got smacked and you didn't want it and you cried. (laughing) - Yeah, Hayley got fucking slapped and almost done. - Who's got a red flag?

- In fact, you stayed, yeah. No, I called my Uber after he slapped you? - Yeah. - Would you do after he slapped you? - Cryed and called my Uber?

- You cried while his dick was in you. - We didn't have sex. - Oh. - No, they were just making out, and he just-- - Oh, wait, slapping somebody.

- No, it wasn't like that. It was a rare back in-- - Oh, okay, that's that. - Absolutely, sure, but he was so drunk. - It was just like, it was--

- He said, "Oh, wait." - It's like an intrusive thoughts one, yeah. - It's like one thing he's got her like by the face and you slapper. - Yeah, I guess that's it.

- Yeah, but no, this was like WWE. - I feel like if it's consensual and somebody is aggressive with you, then that's hot. - Absolutely. - Also, I was having this conversation the other day

is a lot of people's trauma becomes fetish- fetish-sized through their life. So like shit, what? - It just happened at the fuck. You guys act, and I were walking through the haunted house.

And I said, when I was a teenager, I was a scare like these people, right? And I was like, until a grown man got his hands on me, and he was like, that explains a lot. - Yeah, does it?

- Yeah. - Yeah, but like a lot of people that have been through trauma in their lives, they normally turn that trauma into like their sexual fantasies.

- Yeah, yeah. - So for sure, I think mine is aggression. 'Cause I'm not gripping a very violent home, and then I was, you know, if you read the book, I was raped, there's like a ton of things in there,

so I think in some people's healing journeys, that's the way that they take their power back. - I get that. - Yeah, it's crazy. - Yeah.

I like psychopathic clowns, you know, like I'm just, woot, woot. - All right, guys, let's go, let's go, let's go. - Wait, also, I don't wanna talk about something. I haven't seen videos that people have been making,

talking about how you guys agree with everything I say. Have you guys seen this? - I just drew the fuck, do not.

“- Okay, that's what I, we have to clear the air”

because I will always stand up for you guys.

- The ship pisses me off. - You guys will see it online. Of course they're gonna laugh and key key 'cause we are best fucking friends. - Yeah, best friends do.

- Do they want to see us just argue and disagree with each other the whole time? - I think that's what we're like. - So weird. - These shows and stuff have portrayed for so long.

It's like friend groups who argue, and that's like reality shows. They create that drama. Real friendships don't have that. - Sorry, I agree with that.

- I agree with my best friend. - I agree with my best friend. - I agree with my best friend. - But I also wanna clear the air because they're always like,

oh, well, those are her friends that she pays. First of all, I need you guys to understand something. When I first started this journey, Mimi worked for me for a year, for free. For fucking free.

- No one notes that. - And Bailey, literally I had to pay her per face

when we first started out.

- Yeah, so I just wanna clear the air. Like, you guys have no fucking idea that journey. We have been on together. And like, these are my mother fucking sisters. And if you guys have a fucking problem

that fuck off. - And what, I don't get what's wrong with, that's like, I don't know,

with your boss, like at other people's jobs. - Yeah, it's going out after work. - Yeah.

“- The crazy thing is we don't look at each other like boss”

and influence. - We look at each other like fucking sisters. - A hundred percent. - You know, we're so sorry for friends, guys. - Yeah.

- Sorry that we actually get along and love each other.

- Sorry, you guys have never had real woman friendships.

- Can you brought us up with you, too? Like, that was the other thing you were talking about like, how we have built our followings and stuff and it was like because we all did it together. Like you didn't just like put us behind you

and be like, oh my god, and there is a lot of artists who do that. I'm not talking shit, but it's like, they won't shout out their makeup artists ever. Like you'll go look at their tags

and it'll tag like management and they'll tag like their label and things like that in the media. - Like you're like the designer and their wife. - The designer but then they won't say the face.

- Yeah. - There was literally a conversation that we all three had. And I was like, look dude, all votes float. I was like, you guys need to start posting more

and you guys need to start showing your personalities more aside from me. And you guys both did that. You guys both built your platform. - Oh, I'm really sweet.

'Cause I mean, I had a following but it was just makeup. - Yeah. I even know what you look like 'cause you know, post yourself. - I literally didn't post myself like that. - She wouldn't even let us take pictures of her hands.

“- I literally didn't post myself like that.”

- I just have to be known for my work and not me. And now that I feel like I became successful from my work, I was able to like show myself now. - Yeah, exactly. - But you guys really helped me

and they come out of my show with that. - Yeah. - Can we do it together? - I feel like we have all these things to be. - I feel like we've all glowed up together.

- They're good. - And we are on this journey together. Like we were fucking scraping by. I was showing my butthole. I was selling my butthole pictures.

- Good times. - You know, a great time. - Great time. - Everybody keeps asking if the OF is coming back. Absolutely not guys.

Anyways, I just had to clear the air with that

because I'm never gonna let people pick on you.

And the women who fucking make these videos, you guys are fucking clowns dude. - Yeah, why? - I would never try to tear down two beautiful fucking souls who literally have helped me build my fucking brand

from the ground up dude. Like I just think that's so crazy. - Maybe they don't have people in their lives like us. So they can't actually understand what it's like. - I don't know what it's like.

- They can't relate to actually loving another woman. - Exactly. - Who they are and through their journey. - Yeah, it's like people who get mad at people and like the food industry and you're like,

“clearly you never worked in the food industry.”

Over something like, oh, they forgot my ranch. And they're gonna yell at a waitress. Like have you ever been in waitress? She also got asked five other things between that fucking ranch in the soda, you know?

- Yeah. - And it's like, I feel like it's the same thing. Maybe that lady is literally angry because she's never been loved. - Clip that bitch.

I don't care. I'm tired of people. I really don't care. I'm so tired of people being fucking disrespectful and just saying shit.

It's like dude. They just know they're gonna get views off your knees. - Yeah. - So they said it's only great. - Listen, I'm fine.

Make all the videos you want. I fucking do not care what you say. - You said I'm just happy living life over here. - Yeah, I don't care what people say about me anymore, but when they start coming after you guys,

that's when I'm like, okay, you know, like, come on, I literally just doing our job. - You said I'm fun. - And you guys had the best idea. - You guys have no idea behind the scenes.

If I actually fuck up and do something wrong, we all check each other. But like also like, I have so much respect for you guys, I wouldn't do that in front of millions of people and embarrass you.

- Yeah. - We need all to you on the podcast. Like I don't know why people want to see that. - Yeah. - So we're so weird to me.

- And we do it so respectfully when we do check each other. - Yeah. - Okay, there's something, we don't get into drag out fights, like you can see on reality shows and stuff.

That's just not us 'cause we know how to communicate. - Yeah. We had one argument one time and that was public. And that was actually a real fucking argument. 'Cause people are like, we think they just did it

for the show or whatever. - No. - That was a real argument. - We had it. - Since then, that completely changed our communication.

- Yeah, absolutely. And then, Mimi and I have a fucking come to Jesus once a year. - Once a year. - I feel like we're on like every couple month basis.

- Yeah. - We're like, let's just check each other. - All right, now that's a grand day. - Yeah, as the brand, the thing is is when you go to a friend and you're like, hey man, you're not doing your job,

you're fucking up or hey, you're not doing this or you're doing this and you shouldn't do that. You don't meet it with like, you're wrong. - No.

- You always take constructive criticism

and you're just like, okay, cool, I'll do better. And that's literally how we operate. We're just like, well, with those talk like that. - Yeah, but like, why would we say that? Right here on the pot?

Like, yeah, that's not the point of the pot. - No. - It's fucking so weird. - No, it's so crazy. - Yeah, it's so fucking weird.

- It did read a comment that said, "I'm in love with you." - I'll let you. - I would like to-- - But I think it's Haley. - I wish.

- I am in love with you. - I wish. - I love you so much. - I love you. - I love you.

- I love you. - I love you. - Oh, I love you. - I mean, we do that. - I mean, let's not try to make up.

- Anytime, I get a little tequila in my system. - The other night. - It wasn't a kiss, it was great, she said, kiss me. (laughing) - No.

- No. - I love her. - I said no, you don't love her, I'm just like, I wanna just love everybody. - Yeah.

- Literally, when I drink, I'm just like, "Oh, come to me." (laughing) - She makes other people love each other.

- You love each other. - You love each other. - You love each other. - Yeah, in a bar? - You got your kiss.

- In a number, when I was out,

“and I somehow was walking from Warsaw to an Uber,”

and there was a couple on the corner, and I told them, I was like, "You guys are so hot, you guys should make up." - Yeah. - And I felt, yeah.

(laughing) - And I felt that he didn't do my Uber. - Yeah. - And we did the quietly as a night show. - Forrest, for drinking and falling.

- I don't think she even drinks something when she was sober the other day, and she busted her knees so bad. - That was me yesterday, I kept like, fucking hurting myself.

- That when time we were walking in Cleveland. - Yeah. (laughing) - Yeah. - I tried to forget about that.

- And it's great off my tattoo. - And it's tattooed with it. It was a fresh tattoo, and she hit that surgery. - She's like bounced.

- And one thing about Haley, she's gonna let you.

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“- Everyone, my nanny wrote it. - Okay, yeah.”

- Yeah, she said. - No, no, no, no. - God, I love her. - She said senior year, went out with this super hot guy,

off and on for a month or more. Found out two weeks before prompt, he was a, oh, he'd asked a freshman to go with him. Like it idiot, I still went out with him the next weekend. - Nanny, that's my girl.

- But then she said he, then later got that girl pregnant and then they like divorced her, whatever, and I was like, it's okay 'cause then you wouldn't have met pop off.

- And then you wouldn't be here. - No, well, no, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. - Oh, but they wouldn't have died. - No, you still wouldn't be here. - Yeah, you wouldn't be here 'cause I wouldn't have died.

- Yeah, that's fine, yeah. - Yeah. - Hmm. - Got you. - Thanks.

- All right, you guys ready? Oh wait, who's next? Who's next? Is it me or are you? - Me?

- Okay. - She's so stupid. - She's so dumb. - She said, I said, no, I'm gonna be here. - She goes, my mom's a doctor and I'm like,

you still wouldn't be here. They wouldn't have adopted your mom. That would have met your dad. That would have had you stupid anyway, Garyon. - All right, go ahead.

- Oh my God, I ignored the GPS, alcohol, ankle monitor. Met a super hot professional bull rider,

untender when it first came out, met up and he had the monitor.

I was like, okay, cool, no worries, just a one-off. Well, ended up in a relationship with this dude. Come to find out he has a revoked license for DUI, too. Violated probation, then started drinking again. Then the physical abuse came.

Couldn't get out of the relationship, gets DUI-3, doesn't, does the jail time, ankle monitor again, and the cycle repeats itself for another three years. The last time he got locked up, I left and moved to another state. He gets out, starts calling me from different phone numbers

than I go to look him up, which is an odis, which is the offender tracking system. God arrested for domestic violence on his new girlfriend with multiple counts of resisting arrest. Anyways, he was super hot and I let him alienate me for my family for the longest.

I felt like I had nowhere to go. I mean, like a solid nine, and at the time, I didn't think I could pull that. - Okay, I didn't think the ankle monitor was that bad in the beginning, and he just kept getting worse.

- Yeah. - So it's a domestic violence comes in. - Yeah. - That's right. But I get it, you know, as a DV survivor, you know, sometimes.

most domestic violence relationships are super passionate and you get addicted to the passion, let the majority of them, not all of them. This is me speaking from my personal experience and some of my girlfriends that I know have gone through it,

and the sex is always like fucking amazing.

So you get addicted to the push and the pull, and that passion, the passion, yeah, because it's something that, you know, I'm a very passionate person, like I want to be just loved on all the time.

So when somebody does that, it's like, and then this is like that for love. - Yes, and then physical abuse comes into the picture. It's like, it's so hard to leave because you just think about the good times

and like, oh, they're gonna change. They're never gonna do it again. So yeah, it's a addictive thought thinking that they're gonna change every time. 'Cause they always apologize and probably

fuck the shit out of you after they do it,

“'cause I know that's how it was in my relationship.”

And it just becomes a fucking vicious cycle that you cannot get out of. It's literally a spider web that you just cannot fucking get out of. It's a really good, you know?

- But it's not okay. And if you guys are in any situation like that, please talk to somebody, call somebody, do start planning your escape,

because that shit doesn't ever, it never ends well.

You know, you're probably gonna end up having to leave that relationship with your life. So don't ever let a fucking dude put his hands on you. - Hail, no. - You do pretty for that.

- Look at that, that was great. - His next. - All right, this one says I was never introduced to his real life, not friends, not family, not social media, nothing overlapped with his real world.

At first it was very casual, so it wasn't an issue, but as things got more serious, he would deflect when I'd ask him about it. I was basically completely hidden over a year. - Okay, first off, you let that go on for a year,

and you knew nothing about the dude's life? - I get it. - I'm nosy. - I wanna know everything. - I want to know everything.

- I want to know everything about you. - I want to know everything about you. - I want to know everything about you.

“I was basically completely hidden for over a year,”

as he continued to pull me in deeper emotionally. I knew it was a huge red flag, but he was so hot that I chose to ignore it over time. It outweighed the hotness, and I kissed him goodbye. He continued to chase me,

but I did never look back.

- I wanna look back. - 'Cause I would have looked back. - Like, within two weeks, how did you not find it? - No, I would have already known his entire daily life history before day number one.

- What are we talking about? You want a year, and that guy never even gave you a social media? - Yeah, that's crazy. - That's nowadays, I feel like,

maybe that was a long time ago, 'cause I feel like you can't do that nowadays. - What? - Not, like, give someone a social media. - I mean, she says social media?

Like, one of the things he wouldn't give her. - Mm-hmm. - Yeah, that's wild. - I mean, he's hiding something. - Oh, yeah, he's so lovely.

- That way. - More than. - Oh, yeah, you think. - More than likely he was like married, or fucking, you know, baby on the way.

- I was a year, okay. - Listen, that's a daily type. - She's good. - She likes a little mysterious. - I love this guy.

“- I feel like, like, nowadays, because I feel like”

the more you know, than I was like, I mean, a crush is just the lack of information. - Mm-hmm, I don't know about that. My crush is, I wanted to crawl into your ribcage and sleep.

Like, that's how I am. I'm like, so, like, let's merge souls. So there's no way that I could ever just not-- - Fuck, it's wrong with you. (laughing)

- I'm the opposite of the spectrum of a-- - I mean, you see that little video of, like, I don't know if it's a new movie or something, but they like go to hug and they're skin or it's melted together.

- Oh, yeah. - They're eyes go together. - That's what I need. - That's the kind of love I want. - No.

- Yeah. - Okay. - No, that's the exact kind of love I like. - In one. - You have to have that.

- I can't not have that. It has to be like so passionate, you know? - Yeah, but like, I don't know. - I get it for it. - Yeah.

- Listen, I know what it's like to not have passion and now I have passion again and I'm never not going to have fucking passion again. I'd rather be in the most passionate relationship that's healthy than ever go through a relationship

that has zero passion again. There's no fucking way. It's like leaking a wall. (laughing) - Never heard of that analogy, but that's literally

what it's like. Have you ever liked a wall? - No. - Okay, well, Matt, okay, close your eyes. - We'll wait.

- Have you? - Yes. - Well, close your eyes. I was a kid once, I liked walls. You guys didn't practice French kissing on walls?

- No. - I did. - Practice on dude. - Wait, wait, I take that back in the shower one time I did.

- Yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, so young though, and then my boyfriend at the time was like, I really want to kiss you and I was like, yeah, for sure.

(laughing) - Oh, so you guys don't know what I'm doing. - I did for sure, I did. - We've all liked a wall before, while I have.

- Literally, close your eyes and envision

“just going up to a wall and looking at it.”

- How does that feel? - Hard, boring. - Cold. - Empty, cold. - Rough.

- Yeah. - All right, we're kind of texture in my feeling. - It's like a popcorn ceiling. - What? - It's like the velvet on the wall.

- It gets a bathroom wall then it's soft. - No, we're not fucking safe. - Right, here we go. - Here we go. - Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.

- I would rather have passion than nothing, so. - All right, who's next? - Me? - That was fun. - Oh, this one was crazy, okay.

I met this guy off Tinder. He was very nice and hot. He was a firefighter, which I had a weak spot for.

On our first date, he brought a step sister.

He told me they were just friends, but then I saw her hand go to his thigh. Later on the night, she gave him a kiss when we were leaving. I asked him why he did that.

“He said it was just how they greeted and said goodbye”

to each other. I ignored it for a month. Then caught them having sex in our bed. Then I cut them off. - I don't think I like that.

So I had a guy, which if you read my book, I had a guy who told me that this girl that was around was his best friend. Come to find out they had been together for like 20 years and they were into like having relationships

with other girls and just sitting. - Tell ya, no. - That's crazy. - Yeah, so I mean, I get it. I understand that she was probably like, okay.

But I mean, the first night you're seeing them kiss in her hand on his thigh, like, come on. - I hand on the thigh, it's wild. - My step sister is wild. - I mean, that was clearly a can't for him.

- Yeah, I mean, that's a porn hub category. - Yeah, that's so weird to me. I can't watch those porn. If there's anything to do with like family, you can't do it now, that's where I do.

- Yeah, I've never gotten into that either.

- No, and I don't, you're a cany-one's young. - Well, I mean, personally, I just can't-- - He's in it illegal. - I just like for you. (laughing)

- I'm sure he's illegal. - I just like oiled up bodies and-- - They may not help him. - Passion at sexing. - Yeah, he's like-- - Yeah, he's got a lot of wains.

- Yeah, I get-- - My friend, that works down down. - Roton, and she said, uh, they would leave their closing gig from Broadway and go swim naked. Every Saturday in Percy Priest, I like 3 a.m.

I said, excuse me. She said, uh, good news, I never hooked up with him 'cause I was like, "Your dick definitely has flesh eating." - Yeah, probably. - Oh, I don't think that.

- So, we may make it in Percy Priest's-- - Okay, but I'm sorry, it was late. - Hold on.

“- What's the difference between naked and not naked, though?”

- Yeah, there's so many people-- - Water is still inside, yeah. - You're still wet on underneath the-- - Why are we naked? - That's the difference.

- What's the difference? Maybe he just doesn't carry his swimsuit around. - I'm very confused, so she would go skinny dipping, right? - Another guy would. - Oh, you go.

- I don't know if it's by himself. But why would she go skinny dipping with somebody and then be like, "Oh, no, look where she didn't want to fuck with him." But I'm sorry, it's even if he had board shorts

on, the water still on his dick. - I don't know, wet suit. - I agree 'cause when you jump in the water, you'll still get fucking vagina juice. - Yeah, that lady got a fucking frog in her purse.

- Frog purse. - Yep, they'll towed the whole toe in the hole. It's crazy. - You met a book? (laughing)

- No, frog in towed his book. (laughing) - All right, guys, we love you. We'll see you guys next week. Bye.

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