You Are On The Right Timeline | Don't Let Your Attention Slide

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You are on the right timeline.

“It might not seem that way, and fact it might seem like everything is falling apart.”

You didn't get the promotion you wanted, the election turned out differently than you hoped. You just got some disappointing news, you just got hurt, you just got screwed over. Meanwhile, that person you can't stand is getting ahead, getting lucky break after lucky break. This isn't the timeline I'm supposed to be on, you think.

This isn't how it was supposed to go. What if it is? That every event is the right one, Mark Screelys writes in "Meditations." Look closely, and you'll see, not just the right one overall, but right, as if someone had waited out with scales.

This wasn't just mental jujitsu for him, though. He believed we had to make this the right timeline, and how we acted. We had to look for the good, he said, but most importantly, we had to embody it with our actions, with goodness, what defines a good person. We had to keep to it, everything we do.

It might not feel right, might not seem fair, but it is still hours to shape. It is our job to make it right.

“And in a way, that's what "Meditations" is as a book.”

It's Mark Screelys trying to remind himself that for all that's going wrong in his life, all that's going sideways, all that he's dealing with, he is on the right timeline. And in fact, as he says in "Meditations," this isn't unfortunate that it happened to me. It's fortunate that it happened to me, and how can he turn it into a count, how can he use it for fuel?

"Meditations" is both the reminder of that, and the means by which he is doing it. And we're doing a deep dive into "Meditations" this month, we're calling it "Meditations" month here at Daily Stoic, and if you want to do a deep dive into the book with me, we're doing a live session here, towards the end of the month, got our digital guide to "Meditations," got our addition of "Meditations," it's on sale, we got a bunch of stuff going on.

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“When you let your attention slide for a bit, don't think you will get a grip on it whenever”

you wish. Instead, bear in mind that because of today's mistake, everything follows will be necessarily worse. Is it possible to be free from air or not by any means, but it is possible for a person

to be always stretching to avoid air?

For we must be content to at least escape a few mistakes by never letting our attention slide. That's Epictetus' discourses. And for Gallagher and her book RAPT quotes David Meyer, a cognitive scientist at the University of Michigan.

Einstein didn't invent the theory of relativity while he was multitasking at the Swiss patent office, because in truth it came after when he really had time to focus and study. Attention matters. In an era where our attention is being fought for by every new app, every website, every article, every book, every tweet, and every post, the value of attention is only gone up.

Another of what Epictetus is saying here is that attention is a habit, and that letting your attention slip and wander builds bad habits and enables mistakes.

You'll never complete all your tasks.

If you allow yourself to be distracted by every tiny interruption, your attention is one of your most critical resources, don't squander it. Does anything get better by only half focusing? Does that ever produce good work? When the answer is no, it doesn't. Attention is everything. Attention is the prime

resource. You know how you know attention is where something, because of all of the people who are not just competing for it, but building multi-billion dollars in the case of Facebook, trillion dollar businesses. On top of it, attention is the most scarce resource in the world.

“This is based on our time, first and foremost, right?”

It's based on this non-renewable resource, which is our life, which is Santa Fe says

as always, tick, tick, ticking away.

You've got to think about your attention as something to protect, something to spend wisely. And as my friend, Cal Newport, who I've had on the podcast a bunch of times, and he wrote two great books, which I highly recommend to digital minimalism and Deep Work, you can check out Deep Work in the pain and Portuguese books to love it, all linked to it in today's episode. But to me, Deep Work is the ability to focus to control your attention, to lock it in on

something and not be thrown off it, not be pushed off of it. Basically, Cal says, if you think you're a good multi-tasker, you're bullshit in yourself, because you're not. Nobody is a good multi-tasker. You think you're switching between tasks, like, for instance, as I was recording this,

because I forgot to put my phone on and do not disturb, I got a spam call. And you might have noticed that little glitch where I was talking and even though it only took me a half second to turn it off, it's going to take a second longer than I would like to admit for me to come back to being fully engaged in this conversation that we're having.

Now, thankfully, this isn't a super taxing thing to do, but imagine that I did that a lot of times over the course of writing the book. Imagine if I did that a lot of times over the course of my relationship with my kids, which we all do, it takes a toll, it adds up. The more you can focus, the less you can let your attention slide, the better.

Is it possible to never do that? No. It is impossible to be free of air to always be locked into never be distracted, but we must be content to limit it as much as possible. Everything that follows from that place of distraction, from letting your attention slide,

from focusing on the wrong thing, from letting yourself get riled up, letting yourself get sucked down the rabbit, or letting yourself go into doom, scrolling mode, what comes out of the other side of that is not as good as the alternative. The conversation you have is not as good, the work that comes out of is not as good, the connection between you and your kid or your wife, or whoever is not as good.

When you let your attention slide, there is a cost that's switching it, creates a residue,

“it creates a lag, creates a glitch, it adds up, you have to understand that it adds up.”

So lock in, create boundaries, like that's what they do not disturb mode on the phone as for, it's why I usually put it face down in the other part of the room. It's why I don't have alerts on my phone, it's why even the fact that it was only vibrating on the table, it was less disruptive than that super loud ringtone that can sort of pierce the silence of a room, you gotta create, focus, you gotta create space, you can't let

your attention slide, your attention is the most important thing. You only get this moment once, don't waste it being distracted, don't waste it by being only half present, you have to focus. Hey, it's Ryan, thank you for listening to The Daily's Dog Podcast. I just wanted to say, we so appreciate it, we love serving you, it's amazing to us that

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