Garrett White: The Truth About Wealth, Identity, and Relationships 📜 E164

we cover three core topics, had to make money and invest money at a given way to charity.

We rarely ever bring a guest back, but you're going to see this guest multiple times out the year. If I have to travel to him, fly to him, drive to him, walk to him, send him a carry pigeon. I'm going to get this guy on the episode because he covers all three core topics so well.

There's a lot of lives. He's trained over 14,000 men, 70,000 coming through the program in total. The numbers are mind blowing of what he's done to help change lives, for marriages, households, communities and offices by helping those men, what happens is the butterfly effect. We're going to dive right into that.

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So without further ado, Mr. Garrett J. White, given the quick two minute bio, so we get straight to the money. Beautiful. I'm a founder wake up warrior and 15 years ago, I started down a path to guide men to find predictable power.

I was an entrepreneur before that 25 years and had fallen apart. My empire lost my empire, found myself in an affair, drugs addiction, sedation, and chaos. And I didn't have a map. I didn't know how to rebuild my life. So I created a game, I created a system called The Wordsway.

And for the past 15 years, we've actually crossed down 90,000 clients in wake up warrior. Not in active programs, but guys have apps, subscriptions, guys using a content, et cetera. But that became the birth and place of a system. And that system has worked. It started trying to help me, how do I be a great husband, a great father, connective

God, physically fit and be rich at the same time that seemed impossible and we've proven that it is possible. And so we're getting here to Manorina Tour, all of this was like part of what we put together a U and I to help more men come to understand this possibility. Okay.

There's a lot of fun packed there, but one of the first questions I actually have for you

“is, why do you think it's hard for men to talk about money in their households?”

Well, so you're going to have two different levels of hard, right? So you've got hard when you don't have any. And then you've got hard, I should say three, when you don't have any, it's hard. Because scarcity is like the dominating energy and when scarcity is there, the woman feels unstable, unsafe, insecure, which means sexual connection goes down, communication becomes

tough and hard to have. And you know, second phase, which when you're building something and it's working and you're obsessing, your business becomes your mistress and your sidepiece and that's like the game and you're obsessed with building and then you face chaos and destruction, and even it goes back into that.

Exactly. So now the money's going into the company and then third level is hard. I think it's part of the hardest, which is when you actually have money. Because you start to ask interesting questions and the question a lot of guys I've been asking and I've been in the last couple of years is, okay, so I built this thing.

Does this woman actually want me or does she just like the money in the world that I

“have created, and if I went back to zero, which is the, would she stay?”

Well, this is a, this is a hard question. I've asked that question myself, though, married to my wife for 23 years. We went together for 25, five kids and I, I've asked up the question myself. And there's a pattern that it's like, I like to believe she would, but I don't know how long she could endure like the collapse.

So I think the money conversations are very difficult conversation for people to have, but I think it gets even more complicated when dealing with the dynamics of your woman. I think that Danielle White stays. I would, I, my soul believes she would stay. I think she rose up her sleeves and the fucking goes to work with you.

I would like to believe this, in my soul believes this, my mind. She might race you to become the next millionaire again, so you're going to back back to me. I'm like a competitor. And that's all, okay, I mean, you guys 23 years, I mean, you've been through every real poster.

That's the definition as well. I call writer die. Yeah. Okay, on the how to make money side, a lot of times guys get to 60 grand a year, 80 grand a year, 100 grand a year, and they're just becoming complacent with life and they're

just kind of groundhog day, repeating everything. What do you think holds them back from taking the next step to go to 120, 150, 180 and really go to maximize their potential?

“I, regardless of the level of the money, I think, I think it's happens, if this happens”

with guys that we run with too, they're making 10 million, 20 million a year.

There's a piece of you that becomes identified, so you set this target. You become this thing and your identity becomes this thing and that money provides a lifestyle

And as you said, one of that, your mind becomes connected to this is who I am. This is what I do. When you listen to a show or we somebody follows you on social media or connects with you or connects with anyone that you run with and you're like, Holy shit, there's something bigger.

Right?

“So the transition is so hard as a fact that you have to break who you are to go to that”

next place. So if I'm making 80 and I'm trying to go to 250, the guy at 250 does not see the world the same as the guy at 80 drives different, police are different, stories are different, there's commitments different, no different from 250 to 500 to 500 to 2 million, 2 million to 10 million. It's like the place in there right now, like there's just, you have to break and it's painful.

Like it hurts, like it physically it hurts. Your nervous system freaks the fuck out and thinks, what am I doing? Because you have to let go of patterns that got you there. Right. You see those well employees who I've been employees for 15, 20 years working for other

people and then they find to make the launch to do their own thing. And they realize real quick, holy shit, I might not be as qualified and I might have talked too much shit about the people I worked for. Then I imagine because all of a sudden the weight of it is there. So it's heavy, I think the identity shift is the most painful piece.

So guy starts to make more money, yeah, starts to get some changes, starts to get a little fit in his life, goes from 60 to 80, 120, his house actually has a good exit, bring some

“new valuation, fan makes $400,000 selling one of the houses, now he's got it, right?”

It's got, maybe next year I have to million this year. What changes in the house? So what do you think do they change with their wife or their children or their lifestyle because now they got some money? Well, I am in the world of man and I will tell you exactly what happens.

When a man begins to make more money, he stops tolerating things around him. Now what I mean by that is things that you tolerated when you're making 100,000 year, you won't tolerate at a million, you don't tolerate it. Why? Because the man that you were at 100 is different than the guy at 200 and different

the guy at a million. Well, that doesn't just apply to business strategy and partnerships, things you would tolerate

in the past, things I would tolerate five years ago in a business partnership, I would never

fucking tolerate today. Things I would tolerate in my marriage 10 years ago, I wouldn't tolerate today. So the challenge becomes if the marriage is not super stable and there's not great communication and a guy makes a bunch more money. He does this silly thing.

He looks at his wife down there. Now the fun of ours, she might have pulled him along for 10 years while he was fucking off and trying to figure himself out and within six months or a year all of a sudden he makes money and he forgets all of the history that this woman had to go through to be with that man.

Right, and the dude leaves, there was an example of this with, I went out with one of my guys and his girlfriend and I was like, so much a story and she's like, my husband and I were married, I was like, I was like, sure to watch that. We're married for 13 years, said, I pregnant twice, I put him through medical school. I was working two jobs had two babies, she'd be a woman, gypsum girl and my guy's like

amazing, never been married 52 and they're together, probably the price, they're together.

And I go, so what happened? She's like, this mother fucker, finally gets down with medical school, goes through all of his time. He's doing this for a decade that makes 400,000 as a doctor his first year and starts fucking one of the nurses and then tells me, I want to divorce.

She's like, I built you, I built you, I funded you, I agree, I drugged your ass to the finish line within 12 months, like nine months, well, I didn't shoot it like the pain at.

“And do what I've seen this happen with guys over and over, that's why guys have”

come in our program to warrior and they're not married, I'm like, don't, don't plan on that one last then because the level you're going to rise with us, if she don't rise with you, you're going to be done. Marriage is different. It's got marriage, there's contracts and commitments, but dude, you and I have seen this happen.

We've seen this happen not once, we've seen this happen, you and I both, we know this is happening right now to dudes that I know all over the country. There's another guy here in town like in Miami, he called me like, about a year ago. And I've met him, we're going to got thing and he was just struggling and he was like, trying to put some stuff together and trying to figure some things out.

And then he got, and I told him, listen man, here's what's going to happen, predictably

okay, you're out some momentum, the things you're going to pop, you're going to get some money this year. Like it's very clear that you have the pieces dialed in after five or six years of this. I was like, you're also going on the fitness path and let me tell you what's going to happen.

careful, this marriage you're in right now, if you don't keep her part of the pot, it's going to change. So this guy ends up doing exactly why, so I got a call from him like a couple of months

“ago, he's not crying. He's just a dude here in Miami. He's like, how do we have my wife back?”

Oh, interesting. I was like, well, give me the narrative. Well, dude, he ran the Miami circuit. Oh, you know, exactly what I'm talking about. You run the Miami circuit. So I found out and I'm like, you got fit and you got rich and you forgot who you were. Like this in Miami has become like, is a thing. If I mean, because of what I do, I just get lots of calls and three way texts from people, hey, can you talk to this guy? Sure, happy to talk

to him. And over and over, same pattern. If I get, I don't know what to, it's weird. I've gone

to it. I've gone to it myself like about four or five years ago. We moved in 20 million

our house and get all the cars and we had all the stuff. And I remember even having the feeling about my wife. She'd better love the fuck up. And you better, you better get your shit together. I'm ever having these thoughts. It was even fights and arguments we'd had. So I was forgetting. So I can see what guys do it and why it's so hard to talk about it. All right, put on the business hat this time. Pop quiz, personal trainer in Miami. They only

have four or five clients. They want to get a bunch more clients. They want to raise their

“rates and really build their personal training business. What would you say to that guy?”

Well, I've listened. Social media is my bar to with every fit jack dude on the planet. So you got competition out like crazy on social media. Not saying don't post on my saying don't share your world. Not do your thing. But there's this unspoken power that comes with delivering case studies and getting referrals from those case studies like and tapping it in networks. My trainer, Carter Montgomery, part of the training for two and a half years. His company went

from like 200,000 years. It's like a million a year. And it wasn't because of his social media

campaigns. It's because he was plugged in and he trained a guy like me. And when he trained a guy like me, I send him 150 dudes. Because dudes watch the results in me. And they're like, who's your guy? So I think right now the advantage for particularly personal trainers. Anyone who's doing hands on, I do that go to the gym and I see the trainers that the trainers are all over the clients. They're like my wife's trainers all over her. Like they're doing you're so intimate with this

person every day. Getting results for them is number one. And number two, asking for referrals. Ask them to tell people about you this. And in reality, don't pay them because if you pay them referral fees, you're going to mess it all up. You will fucking all up because people get weird about this. I kind of want to refer to them, but getting paid. No, I don't have a problem with it. But most people do. The book drive talks about that when you start compensating people for referrals.

Most people will stop referring. If I got paid every time I showed it told you to go see a cool

“movie, it changes it. It's not that you shouldn't get paid. So I think the referral game and actually”

getting results like case studies. Not test the morning's your awesome trainer. I love you. No, you do this here. Now look at them. Your woman was here. Now look at her. These are the case studies. And then you glorify. We're doing our salons too. Or when we come and get them be our hair. And they go from normal hair to light. Victoria's secret model hair. And then we we check the photos in a way for them that lets them feel pride and excitement about being

the girl on the photo. But then we have them post and tag and share and that brings more clients into the salon too. Case study before after ask for referrals. Same trainer. He does it. He listens to Garrett White. Goes from, you know, I have four five clients to 30 clients crushing it. What does his girlfriend do? Is this guy levels up? He's way busier. He doesn't respond to texts anymore. How do they keep the dynamics

so they can keep the relationship going? Well, number one. Being a trainer and training women is

always going to be a situation. So I've seen two conscious trainers. Guys that are very flirtatious

with all their clients. And sleep is on them. And there's guys that are very committed to their girl and they're not that way and they're just trained. Like no matter how busy you get, there has to be a deliberate energy number one. I'm focused on this woman. If my energy is fractured and shattered and going all to every woman I see in train or every woman at the gym, trouble. Second V says, "Once I've collapsed, I energy and I've focused it. I'm saying, okay,

I have to be as deliberate with my woman as I am with my clients." If I want case study results from my client, I have to portray a new tertiary plan. I have to be there for the practice, the training protocol, I have to be there for training them. On top of this, what else do I have to be as deliberate with my partner? But most of us don't think that. I never thought that. I didn't think that for 15, 18 years. I would operate only in business and then I'd look at my relationship and go,

nothing, I got nothing. Like there was no plan. There was no plan date nights, there was no plan trips, there was no plan. But I had all the plan going in business but then when it came to the relationship,

the samely executed the date and I'm playing with your girl. You'd be amazed at what happens. All right, let's go to the investing started things. So that guy starts to make money. He actually goes up to $300k to a million dollars. Just starts crushing it, raises his rates, gets other trainers underneath him. He's making commission off of them, overrides, million dollars investing. There's so many options. Real estate, stock market, big coin, cash

“line businesses, how the heck can someone figure out what they want to invest into?”

So I come from a little inch in place with this. So I believe the first place demand should invest is himself. Once he's invests himself, invests in his company. So if I have $100,000, where do I have a better shot of getting a high pause of our why on that? I could put it into someone else's company. I could buy stocks. I could put it into a real estate property, get cash flow. I could invest in a software or start up. I could do a lot of things.

But the one thing that will always give you the highest rate of turn is you and your own company.

So I watched and I did this. I would build my cash in the beginning. My first round of companies from 2002 to 2008. I want to feel like an investor. So I remember writing checks for $600,000, having no fucking clue what I was doing. And thinking, "I'm an investor." I had the member of the checks. The big fucking open up in the book, long check, the long one. And I would write that check. I remember exactly $600,000 check. I had no idea where that money was really

going to go. But I wanted to feel like an investor. Now, on my floor at a hundred plus guys in my sales floor, I had this company that's crushing. I didn't ever look at that as an investment. I was looked at, I had to get somebody else's company money versus my money to my company. Third place is cash vaults, which is storing cash. And then once I've done those things, then the only time I invest is in something that I have an impact on. Can my human life value

impact it? Example, they started building surf parks. I was deeply into surfing for five years. They wanted me to invest in one of the surf parks. I said, "That makes sense. I love surfing. I love surf parks. I have a passion for this." Yeah. And then I said, "What involvement can I have?" I'm like silent investor. I was like, "Eh, not gonna play." Yeah. But I, why? I said, "If my human life value can affect the marketing, affect the sales, affect the park, affect the game,

if you want me part of the team, yeah, all of us, my time, the energy and the money." But if I can't be involved, I'm not saying that's not how professional guys would do that. They know how to invest in other companies. Yes. Guys, it no real estate grant cartons are meant or I'm gonna like, "You

“should do this. You should do this." And I'm like, "Ah." It's not my thing. It might be my thing.”

I'm turning a fit to this year. I'm sure real estate will become my thing. It just hasn't been

my thing. So I think what, particularly guys doing a million, better systems, better teams,

better process, build the company. Like the investment there. Could you put us somewhere else you could? You definitely could. So I'm investing into yourself side of things. Let's talk about live events like Man in the Reno tour, warrior program, masterminds, and as high as up to one on one coaching. Let's walk through the four. So Man in the Reno tour, you've heard me say this before, cheap, affordable, holy shit, very cheap. We actually made it super cheap to go to Man in the Reno

to 100 bucks, 500 bucks, 300 bucks to go to it. For people that thousands of men to come into the room, affordable is going to, you know, mastermind groups where it's 5k, 10k, 25k in that range. And the holy shit is when you get to 50k to 100k for one in one coaching with guys like us or people that they look up to that can really move the needle for them. Walk us through those multiple

“layers. I think, well, number one, you should be involved at all in all three. All three levels are”

amazing. Like we're going to Dr. Joe dispenser. There's like thousands of people at this event. It's a couple thousand dollars to take on my wife wants to go. That's inexperienced, right?

Truly, I'd like my wife to work directly with Joe dispenser. So I always try to circumvent

the thing and go to the top thing. I guess what I did with 10X. I'm like, I want to work with Grant and Brandon Dawson. How do I do that? $2 million. Am I okay? That makes sense. And then I get all the rest. Yes, for sure. But for a lot of us to now, large virtual or large in person is a great place to start because you get a taste for what something is about. You also get to be around a ton of people. The step up from that, though, is implementation. So you're not going to get my

implementation, get information experiencing these. Then it comes to, and I got, I like the information. Can I implement the information? Okay, well, you're not going to pull that off in a big arena then. You're going to have to go to a smaller environment where it's more customized, more intimate, and you can actually get to know the people that's where mastermind's come to play. Then you get top producing people who move fast, who are at the large event experience, and they

think just like you and I. What is the fastest path for me to get this done? I could do it by myself. I'm going to fuck a bunch of things up. For sure, I could do this in a large group, but I won't get personal attention that I want. I could do this in the mastermind, which works, but it's still kind of diluted and powerful, but I want the guy. I like the group. I want the guy. And so now there's a commitment saying, if I went to the guy, maybe it is 100,000, maybe it's 500,000, whatever it is,

So, it depends. You'll see people go all the way up through them. Start here, go to the mastermind,

“come to 101, and then you got some people who will just experience first one and go,”

yeah, I'm just going to go there, right to the top. And that's kind of because I'm mind mode a lot

in the last like five, eight years. Like if I want to, if I want to be like you, I go to 100 million

on mastermind, but if I really want to hate, I'm going to straight with you. I'm going to be on your phone dealing with you directly because the council you can give me in a 30 minute conversation, I might not be able to glean in two or three masterminds. I might get it, but I for sure get it if I'm with you. That was when he was Brandon, he'd go to 10x event, or I could sit in a 101 conversation with Brandon for an hour or grant, and they'd just shatter my frames in like 20 minutes

in there at K or we'd down to like, yeah, I'm fucking done. Thank you, Nucle, I'm out with it. Wish I might have taken me six months to get that breakthrough. Lorsh is one conversation. So there's three mistakes that are made at the low level ticker price, mastermind price, and 101 coaching. The low level ticker price when you're going to mainly read a tour, aspire tour, large format events, a lot of our 10x, et cetera. What happens is you're on

your phone during those eight hours, and you're missing so much because you're texting, Instagram, and doing the things during eight hours while Gary Vee's on stage. Grant Cardone's on stage and Garrett White's on stage, and like you're missing out on the Shark Tank and all the people that you paid to go there, you would travel to go there and you're messing around on your phone. Please, when you're at these large format events, focus on the stage, focus on what's happening

there, and network during the breaks with everyone that's there. The medium side, the mastermind

“size, we're paying 5k, 10k, 25k, et cetera. You are not networking enough. You should know”

everyone inside of that room, not just for themselves. They might have other people in their ecosystem. You're like, oh, that's a real estate person. I don't care. That lady owns seven gym to cares. She might know some interesting people that are useful for you, so network with everyone inside the mastermind. And the one on one coaching side, a closed mouth doesn't get fed. If you do not ask questions and preferably, had your questions done in advance, so that you come to the phone

call and you're not just like, so I'm doing this and I'm doing this. I'm doing this. Come there with five or 10 questions for your 30 minutes or your hour, one on one coaching session, and have that thing prepared. Think about it for days and advance, and I promise you, you're one on one coaching will become that much more efficient. What's wild to me is to watch, I've had men wire me $500,000 in one on one programs and get into problems and hide.

Oh my gosh. Yep. It's the weirdest shit ever. Dudes will do dual and dust. Hundreds of thousands of dollars for help. When and if things start getting shaky, then they get shaky and dudes retreat. I won a client a couple years ago and he wouldn't respond. He wouldn't. My team to call him. I'm calling him. I'm sending videos in my bro. What the

fuck is going on? I finally get a hold of him through his girlfriend. I'm like, what, where the hell is he?

Right. She's like, dude, he's collapsing. I was like, no shitty collapse. And I've no he's collapsing because he went ghostark protocol zero on me for two months. Where's he at? Find a calls me up. I'll be finally going to phone and he's like, Rex. And I'm like, what the fuck? Right. Like, the reason I came into your world was so what the fuck does it happen? And you avoided me. Why? He's like, I just felt fucking horrible. And all the stories. And I said, dude, you're coming to me now.

I was your fire insurance. The house is burning. I don't know exactly. There's smoke and ashes, though. He's like, what do I do? I was like, we rebuilt. Like, I'm going to speed you directly. You're fucked. It doesn't mean you're fucked forever. But you're fucked right now. And you didn't have to

“be fucked. That's why I came in your world six months ago. We knew you were going into a season,”

but you chose the crazy part in mass amounts. I used to do this when I first was the map. My first mass amounts were burned in the chart. I felt so insecure that when I went to the mass amount, I didn't even know how to get help. Right. I was so scared. So during breaks and said, it's all happening, buddy, right in the corner. How do my room? Right. And then we'll come down for a session, not realizing the power of the mastermind is exactly what you're talking about. It's yeah, it's

Dan sharing and given with them. That's awesome. But the real power of the mastermind is a guy who said, you don't, you're not just looking at individuals. Each one of these individuals in that group have networks. But you are one conversation away from an explosion in your business because you connect with somebody. And the mind says, you have to say, well, what kind of get from you? That was my say, version was high. Then it was what kind of get from people? What are my angles? Then it became,

hey, what's up? How are you? And I want to know about you. But with no agenda, no like, I need some shit from you, which you're, you're a leader. It's you're like the highest level

version of my life of this. Then it's like, okay, well, if I come to hundred million dollar

mass amounts, or I come to a mass amount of manryna, what you can see are the people,

I'm networked to shit. So are you? Are networks coming together and colliding with all the networks around? Dude, there's not a problem. You cannot solve in the ripple. Somebody has a connection to someone that you don't know about with a strategy. You can't consider with a possibility.

You've never conceived. But you're over here hiding here. Let me give you 25,000

unto the mass amount of $100,000. And then, or worse, you started thinking the whole time. I wish I could just talk to Dan or Garrett. You're like, I get that. But the money is right in front of you. And if you're not an asshole, and you just show them, be authentically you. Some people like you, some people won't. But the ones that do, I mean, I still have people when we did a hundred million dollar mass amount of my back here. Just like there are people I still connect

with. Like Josh Kirk, all these guys are so connected with it. We're just connected to it. Oh, I wouldn't have met them. If you hadn't brought them to my backyard, they weren't going to come to my backyard without you. Hey, guys, come to my backyard. So even an out like my team, you want to have some people ask me, why are you, where are you, where are you putting this on?

“I was like, cousin, I'm going to business with a Dan. You need to help. It's it. I got house to pull”

back yard. It's fucking throw some shit over the pool. It's build a thing for him. And go, well, the value to me was just getting to meet all these cool people. And value to you was the place to do it. Yep. And I also was helping us into the East Asia is what we were building with, man, the Reno. Yeah. Third and final chapter. Charity. Why is important for the wives and children of the man, hopefully running that household, for them to see him involved in

some charity. And potentially, hopefully involving the kids and wife in that charity. Yes. Your

children are watching. Always. I watch your habits, I watch your patterns. My kids know my

one routine. They know dad's praying, dad's in the Bible, dad's stacking. I do my, they know I work out. They know my wife and I co-plunch. They see everything. But what most guys don't realize is your kids are watching your patterns with money. They're watching what you do.

“So my kids, I like, I believe in a tie, but I don't believe in a tie to a church.”

So I tied differently, which is, that's one way of charity for me, which is there's a percent of my money that I fully plan on just giving people. And so I make sure my kids see it. So when we're supporting somebody's child to go through rehab, and I'm funding it for 90 days to six months, I want them in the conversation of it. We did this with one of their swimming structures. He was coming to the house to give it to some of the lessons he had in his son

was in a horrible place. And suicidal, and he didn't have the cash to take care of it. And so we sat with him with my kids and had him share the situation with us. And I said, I got you. And they got to watch this grown man break down in tears. They got to see the process and experience of it. The thing I still struggle with is my kids have been raised in so much abundance that they're quick to tip everybody, but they don't have, I'm working now on trying to

help them understand. Because the whole world they're in is kind of this abundant bubble. They're used to pushing buttons and shit just happens. They push a button and shit shows up. Food delivery is door to us, ubers, everything. Everything. Like my kids, for the first time,

like you're in a half ago, we took them to a regal theater to see a movie, but they've always

gone to theaters with the buttons and the servers and the lay you down and the blankets and the people, coddle and the read. And my little ones were like totally confused. But I dad, dad. How do we get food here? Dad wears the button. Right. There's no button. Dad, my chair doesn't

“go past my chair doesn't think about it. Why is it similarly? Maybe that's how the that's what it is.”

What, what do you mean? So I'm in a season now. We've 50 this year where I become with very aware of the fact that abundance can be a curse if there's attachment to the giving. So now we moved into a chapter this year with very deliberate about creating experiences from my kids to see how life is outside of the bubble, but also to have them be in a place of giving. So any time we're typing anyone or I'll tell you that they are to, I'll have the kids go do it.

Oh, they might take the gash. Yep. Go get them a tip. Yep. And then they're learning on the receipts. What percentages are here in Miami? Everything's like 20% guaranteed, 18%, 20, whatever. Well, how much do we give them? I was like, well, let's figure it out. Well, why are we giving them so much? Who is that? It's a lady. No, that's a mom. Do you know she's married? Is she a single mom? This is how she pays for food. So it's how she lives. That goes to work. This is what's

going to work. So you're in a different level with it with foundations and all the stuff to a toy drive, which is like very inspiring. Like I watch your passion with it and your obsession with it, obsessed. Like it's an obsession. Like what drives you to do that for you? I still remember the one toy that I got. There was like a little whole cog in that you put

I was a kid. And so I remember if I had that emotion to that, what would happen if I gave

“kids five toys each? They don't have money. And the relief for the parents.”

And so when we did our first one 12 years ago, I just watched like the parents relief when they

would walk in and they've got three kids. And the kids are getting five toys each. That's 15 toys. That's like hundreds of dollars. Oh my god. Right. That's a big deal. And so then it just kept compounding from eight volunteers to 20 volunteers to now, stadiums and arenas. So but it started from like I just saw the the things that would happen to a child and things that had happened to the parents as well. We had during the during the Christmas season. We had a gentleman who's

connected to my kids who supports him, coaches him. And he he probably made the hardest call. A man could ever make. It's like two days before Christmas. And he calls me. We're close. I'm not real close. And breaking down in tears. He's like my daughter's coming down.

My wife said him as carriage. The salary I make. Like G. I'm like

then I'm hurting dude. Like I like I can barely like provide food right now. Like and it's Christmas and I'm not I'm not asking card just broke down. It like it's the card I buy toy. He's a stuck dude. He has no car. It's a situation. And I'm sitting and listening to him and I said, so Versailles said, bro, the fact that you had the courage to just ask about number one huge number two. The fact that you were willing to reach out to me speaks volumes to.

I said, I'm not giving you a loan. I said, what should I buy? I said, I'm gonna send you a gift. God delivered abundance on my life. Let me help you. And we sent it. And then I sat with my daughters who were connected to him. And I didn't specifically talk because I don't want it to be weird for the kids with him. But we talked about the principal. We drive past the sky on the road too and his own as well. Chair and I just still call God to him pull over and I like pull over and

let's start talking with this dude was like a has a huge beard. No legs sitting in his wheelchair. He's got a Bible on his lap. And he just crushed breathing the power God through his eyes to me. It was a wildest experience. I said, what can I do to help you? And he's like, nothing. I just

“want you to be a great man. I'm like, well, okay. As I ever see that, what else can I do to support you?”

He said, I need my wheels broken. I need a new wheelchair. So I call my team and I said, hey, I'm a connection, I said, give me a number. How does number connect at the team? And I said, hey, we're going to get this dude a new wheelchair. And my teams were so excited. The girls on my team were like freaking out pumped all day. So they spent the whole day coordinating, finding the, finding the hand, the wheelchair that he needed, taking it in one of the SUVs going downtown, find where he was,

got him the wheelchair. So there's just moments. I think that we're doing every day. There's

huge stuff like you're doing, which is amazing. I want to do stuff like this. It's a path I'm on for sure.

But guys, there's like the day-to-day stuff of just helping people around you, that you can do. And even if it's 20 bucks, it's like just being able to help time energy money to help other people. All right. Where can they find Gary J. Y to cross social media? Man, the media tour, the warrior was way all the things. Tell me everything. Wakeupboyard.com. Probably a good place to start. We run events every single month. We run Manorina tour every couple months. We've got a lot going on.

Social media, Gary J. Y. On Instagram, many of the platforms. And those are probably a good place to start. Like wakeupboyard, you just Google it, you'll find it. There's a lot of pasts. So you're going to also pick up a book called Warrior Book, which we have hundreds and hundreds of those. Go out every

“single month. You can get that a warrior book.com. What about Danielle? What's she got going on?”

Danielle is in my wife's in the hair space. And she is, we're currently working in a deal. We'll see if they figure it through with a very, very large brand in the hair space. And we'll see if we can wear it like stage three on this one. So we'll see the next testing phase happens. The workstone will be the biggest partnership she's ever had. What should be really exciting. But she does hair extensions, trains hair stylist, has her own hair lines. She's a producing woman.

If I, if I died or was a total idiot and fucked up at the marriage and she let this woman's fine to take care of herself for life. But she can find her. She's all in a place with a brand called Natural Beta Rose. And Ila hair runs one of the top hair extensions lines in the country and one of the top hair product line. So and then she just got into wigs, wigs. And she taken a different angle. She's taking wigs, not just to the African American community. But

share partners, partners are black. And they are deep in the, the, the, the wig world. And she got fascinated by this. So she actually building a foundation to deliver wigs to white women and black women. Anyone, but those are the partnership with the real angle. She's taking she's like, I'm going to make wigs cool for white people. She actually runs with so many ethnic and Latino

that way of hair extensions. There are no. This is not a, this is not a white girl. But she's going

“to specifically after wick, wim, with a alopecia, like cancer, hair is falling out, thin, breaking,”

and going to do wig. So we'll see how it goes. She's super excited about it. I love it.

I'm actually interviewing her partner into ours. I love it. All right, guys. As you know, we need

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