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Guaranteed human. I became a millionaire overnight and lost everything that actually matters. Oh, so fated, you just say they lost everything after becoming a millionaire. That's right. And it gets worse. It's an eriting two much drama week on the okay story time podcast. So we'll find out soon. This person writes, "I just inherited a fortune after losing my mom. And now my girlfriends and entire family is coming out of nowhere with their hands out.

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Listen to LoveTrap podcast on the iHeart Radio App. Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Two teas in a pod with Teddy Millenkamp and Tamara Judge. Hi guys welcome to another episode of two teas in a pod with myself Teddy Millenkamp and Dolores Katanya.

Hi. First things first is I need to say congratulations. Thank you so much. It's an exciting time for the family. Geez.

I mean, how are you going to do three weddings? Well, I'm definitely going to do two. I'm not, you know, I'll put mine on the back burner. I've waited 27 years with another couple of years.

“But I think that Gabby said she wants to weigh a little while.”

Like thank God because not only is Frankie getting married this year, but it's going to be a very nice gallery is getting married like my sister's daughter. So it's like a whole thing. And so that's two big weddings. And then now this oh, and my nephew's getting married next year.

They just got engaged. It's just. Everybody's getting married. Everybody's getting married. Did Paul plan this like Paul.

Did you literally plan to get engaged when we like can't get married? Did you say, oh, now let now I could buy myself some time. Yeah, he's like perfect. I'm not the priority at the moment. I know it's so funny, but listen, whatever.

Gabby's coming on. I'm so excited for Gabby coming on. Were you surprised at all? No, he spoke to me. He had to ask my permission.

And the first thing that.

Gabby said, oh, I'm going to say when she comes on, what's my mother nice to you? Not like anything, but. Because I'm rough. You know, Teddy, I just want them to get it right the first time. Yeah.

How hard is that? Very hard. As we all know. Very hard. Yeah.

And I haven't got it right two times.

“That's why I haven't gotten married in 27 years.”

Oh, yeah, you just don't like. I think my thing is I'm afraid for them to have to go through. She's on. What's that talk? Oh, you look so pretty today.

Oh, thank you. Well, I have a chance. Hello. So, so. Miss engaged woman.

How does it feel? Um, it feels not much different.

No, it's on.

I have it on that bus actually tucked into my grove right now.

Oh, so lovely. Oh, you're so pretty. Yes. Gabby. Gabby, do you have you ever met my Teddy?

No, I don't think I have met you yet, Teddy. I know a nice to meet you and congratulations. Oh, thank you. Thank you very much. Her daughter's ride like you did.

Oh, a question. Oh, wait. No, dove does it does she? No, just like. It's like she's good.

Gabby, she wins a lot. What is she, what is she ride with her? She does hunters and jumpers. Nice. Yeah.

That's super fun. I do miss riding a lot.

“Yeah, I mean, I think it really keeps when life is hard.”

It's, you know, gives you that stability.

Yeah. Did I find that gap? Yeah. Oh, my god, absolutely. I would still do anything with horses.

If I could if I had time. So, tell us about your engagement. Are you excited and were you surprised? I was so surprised. I had a feeling it was coming on the trip.

But I think the top of the mountain really caught me off guard. But I was very, very excited. I'm still very excited. So, when are we getting married? That's a great question.

I got to get in line behind you and Frankie. So, you could get in front of me. I don't know. I'm not. We've got time.

I literally just got engaged like two days ago. I'm not trying to rush it. All right. Good. But you looked.

Well, we know you were really surprised. You didn't have your nails done. Oh, I can't. I did surgery all day on Monday. And then we left.

All right. Well, Teddy, do you have any advice for her? Because it's better to come from someone else than a mom. I would say the biggest thing that I've learned from my two marriages is I kind of had a hard time being vulnerable.

And being honest when things were bothering me. And then I would let everything fester. So, I think the more that you can just be open and honest and share your feelings. I know none of us like to do that. We hate to have feelings.

But it does help. All right. Noted. We were not a big feeling family. So, that will be.

That will be new for me. I know we're not a big feeling family either. I think that to echo that Gabby and Teddy so right. Because in the meantime of you trying to be strong and not to stay with bothers you or have too much pride to ask somebody to do the right thing

“because you're like, you should have known to do that.”

Sometimes people don't know to do that. Yeah. And I think that you lose your work yourself worth also when you don't speak up. Yeah. Definitely.

So, be the bitch boss that you are always.

Yeah. No, I, I think that between me and Michael are conflict resolution. It's very, very good. So, I don't think that should be too big of an issue. Conflict resolution.

What's that? Yes. Whenever we have, if there's a problem in the relationship, we don't have. We don't really fight about it. It's never me versus Michael.

It's us versus a problem. Oh, God. Yes. Okay. So, I still want you to ask for things that you think you deserve them maybe.

You know, aren't done. You're absolutely right. And so did he tell you that we spoke? He did actually. He did.

And what did you say? Well, literally right after he proposed like probably within the same breath. I was like, was my mom nice. Like I'm telling you, like we had not even moved from the photo ops spot. And he said, absolutely.

He said that you were very kind and anything you said was true. Warranted and that you spoke the way a mother who loves their kid more than anything. Oh, you guys. Yes. He did say that.

Well, I'm glad that he saw through that and it was all out of love. Of course. I'll tell you what he did do. He didn't just tell me what I wanted to hear. He said the right things.

He, he wants to be his best self for you.

“And I asked him if I can call him when I think that he if he's not.”

And what he said, he said, I want you to. So that was our conversation hour and a half to two hours later. And we shook on a Gabby and we. Yeah, as long as he says I could be involved. Then that's all I wanted here.

Then. But I'm very happy for you and I'm very happy for you too. Congratulations. I am I'm very excited and everybody's been so kind.

I'm usually on the back burner like he gets the exaggerate. Oh, nice. Oh, Gabby deserve it all. So we want to see more of you on social media. I tell her all the time, but she doesn't know.

She doesn't listen. No, I don't. She seems pretty busy.

“Yeah, I think she's busy doing real stuff.”

I don't like us. So anyway, go ahead. Do your thing, Gabby. Congratulations. We love you.

You thank you. Congratulations. All right. Five family. Bye.

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Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I became a millionaire overnight, but lost everything that actually mattered. Wait a minute, Sophia, did you just say he lost everything? That's right, it's an eriting too much drama week on the okay story time podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, "I just inherited a fortune after losing my mom,

and now my girlfriend's entire family is coming out of nowhere with her hands up. One sibling wants me to fund their whole lifestyle. Another vanished for four years, and suddenly reappeared, and my girlfriend is already giving my money away." So the girl he wants to marry is already sending money out the door.

And that's just the beginning. He makes a plan, sets up a trust, and finally thinks he has everything under control. Okay, so things work out then? Let's just say the people he trusted the most are the ones who ended up shocking him the most. To just the money end up being worth going through all that? To find out, listen to the okay story time podcast on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts. She is so cute, I can't even take it.

She's cute, she's always handled things the right way, Teddy.

She's been through a lot, things weren't always easy for us, and she always put herself last and took care of her brother, took care of me at times, and she's just got her head on straight, so I want the best for her, you know? Yeah. Well, I think she's got good things coming.

Yeah, and if she doesn't, I'm stepping in. Yeah, if not, he better be afraid. These cute, it's good looking kid. Okay, so now we're going to talk a little bit about how so I've had lines. Talk about marriages.

Oh my gosh.

On which far? Well, we'll get there anyway, I'm just curious because--

Well, first let's talk about Amanda.

Let's talk about Amanda first because we're going to get-- I just can't get this video out of my head. It bothers me so much. I know. So Amanda posted life lessons from last week's episode,

and then she said, if you make a habit of looking for the worst in women, a happy life will look suspicious. Being obsessed with your work as a good thing. Something for the worst, expecting the worst, attempting to dig up the worst on-- and women is gross.

Well, why'd she sign up for the show then? That's my exact point. Like, do you know, watch an episode? Watch the show.

“If your business woman, when do you ever sign anything unless you know the risks?”

And the gains from it? Yeah. It's not a free commercial. Yeah, if you're going to come on, do your job. Nothing's for free, Amanda.

Then she said, positioning someone as an authentic, because they're not explosive, reactive. Honestly, argumentative and digging up dirt on you, while they attempt to dig up dirt on them as dysfunction, disguised as discernment.

When your piece is called fake and your truth is picked apart, you're dealing with people who don't actually want either. You know what I think? I think she's very bothered. I think she's bothered by this, because why also she put out

this 16 page Instagram scrolling thing that I had to read? You're upset that you had to read it. You're bothered that you had to read, which you wrote. I see. Here's the thing.

“Let's get to this, positioning someone as an authentic,”

because they're not explosive, reactive, endlessly. You had the chance to say all of this to their face. There's no time to go home and chat GBT what you want to say. Or use all these word salad stuff. That's got to roll off your tongue, Amanda.

You know what's in authentic? That you didn't say this right to their face. That you had to go and think about it. I am a person, and I understand sometimes, instead of being explosive.

You want to think about what you're going to say to say the right thing. But you do this for a living. You speak to people for a living. You're supposed to talk sense for a living. You've made your money on speaking sense.

Say it, do it for yourself. That's what I don't understand. Because, you know. I'm just a little bit confused on how she can go on to a show like this. Expect to just come out of it.

This is the exact reason why we watch the show as for drama. And like that. Mostly, but also for conflict and resolution. Yeah, conflict and resolution. But no, I've noticed a lot of people are team Amanda.

Because they always go for the underdog.

You can make her right. She could be wrong. And everything you're saying could be right about her. But when you gang up on her and when you you guys all like go after her instead of Making her look like the person you're trying to make her look like.

Then she gets the sympathy vote. The world is changing. Teddy and the viewers have changed. It's evolved into. They don't like to see somebody.

Bullied or whatever. Look at what I would say. Potomac. I know, but I can't let's say see. But I'm saying like.

Stacy. Maybe even admitted to not telling the truth and wanted to be more forthright and and everything At the end of the reunion. But all through the thing, why didn't they just hold her hand to the fire instead of everybody Jumping down her throat all the time.

That's my thing. Well, I mean, at least Stacy knows she's coming on to do a job. Oh, Stacy's handles herself. Well, I'm a Stacy fan. I love Stacy.

I love her. I just when it comes to Amanda like she is doing the most right now. And I'm like, I needed you to do the most when you're filming the television show. Right. So like all this stuff like she's commenting on the show as if she's reporting on it.

“Instead of being the one to have, you know what I mean?”

Like she doesn't feel like talking like we talk. Like you have bullet points here on your friend and Instagram. Then now Teddy Mellon camp is upset that she hasn't read. And now we will look like bullies.

So I mean, here's the thing.

I get what she's saying, but why say it now?

Why? What do people say? What are people? People are saying that, you know, like Queen Amanda because she's so unbothered. Oh, I don't think she's unbothered.

No, I don't think so. I think she's very bothered. I think I know why. She's not acting like an animal like I would have done. Or like you would have like, you know, we would yell at people.

Yeah.

“No, she's she's pretending to be unbothered, but I think she.”

Hey, you don't go online after the fact and write this stuff out if you're unbothered. Well, she's getting that she's knocking them down without a punch. Because everybody's sticking up for her. Yeah. To for her, she's doing the right thing.

It's working for her. It's working for her and for her clientele. Yeah, because I said the comments are all like, yes, Queen, you know what to do and we'd love an unbothered queen. You know who's unbothered? Stacey.

Yeah, Stacey's unbothered. That's an unbothered queen. Or she just not self-aware. Still unbothered. Yeah.

So this girl's she's self-aware. No, she's not she's not admitting to anything. She's not saying anything. She's just like saying, you know, you guys were just mean to me. And because I didn't handle things.

“Basically, I feel like what she's saying is because you guys didn't handle things the way I wanted you to.”

Because no, the you guys I didn't handle things the way you wanted me to react. So I'm wrong. I'm a liar. I'm an authentic. This is kind of what she's saying.

I think. And it's kind of to make the others feel and look stupid. That's what I think she's trying to do. Yeah, well, she's she's doing it. But see, I don't like all these word salad stops.

No, I don't either. But what did she say? She was emotionally unsafe. And she described her feelings as some other big words. I don't know.

I'm not stupid, but I mean, this is on like noncent towards. Yeah, and also, she even felt the need to come forward and say why she was on the after show by herself. And post screenshots of a certain time she had her flight was canceled. That they weren't meaning to put her by herself. Oh, okay.

So once again, I'm bothered. Yeah, feeling the need to do that. Yeah. Yeah. So.

You know, here's what people don't understand.

You don't have to prove anything to anyone. If you think my life sucks and I don't think it does. I don't need to prove it to you that it doesn't. Yeah. I answer to myself.

So Amanda, if you want me to coach you and give you some coach life lessons, I could start today. Give me a call. I'm Bailey Taylor and this is It Girl. You may know me from my It Girl series.

I've done on the streets of New York over the years. Well, I've got good news. I am bringing those interviews and many more to this podcast. Yes, we will talk about the style and the success. But we are also talking about the pressure, the expectations,

and the real work with the women shaping culture right now.

As a woman in the industry, you're always underestimated.

“So you have to work extra hard and you have to push the narrative in a way”

that doesn't compromise who you are in your integrity. You know, I like to say I was kind of like the silent ninja. Each week, I have unfiltered conversations with female founders, creatives, and leaders to talk about ambition, visibility and what it really takes to build something meaningful in the public eye.

Because being an It Girl isn't about the spotlight. It's about owning it. I think the negatives need to be discussed and they need to be told to people who maybe don't do this every day. Just so they know what's really going on.

I feel like pulling the curtain back is important. Listen to It Girl with Bailey Taylor on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. It Girl. You know Real Doll.

The writer who thought I'd bully Wonka, Matilda, and the BFG. But did you know he was also a spy? Was this before he wrote his stories? I musta been. Our new podcast series, The Secret World of Roll Doll, is a wild journey through the hidden chapters of his extraordinary controversial life.

His job was literally to seduce the wives of powerful Americans.

And he was really good at it. You probably won't believe it either. Okay, I don't think that's true. I'm telling you, because I was a spy. Did you know Doll got cozy with the Roosevelt's?

Play poker with Harry Truman and had a long affair with a congresswoman.

and Alfred Hitchcock before writing a hit James Bond film.

“How did this secret agent wind up as the most successful children's author ever?”

And what darkness from his covert past seeped into the stories we read as kids? The true story is stranger than anything he ever wrote. Listen to The Secret World of Roll Doll on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey there.

This is Josh from stuff you should know, with a message that could change your life. The stuff you should know, think spring podcast playlists is available now, whether spring is sprung in your neck of the wood yet or not. The stuff you should know, think spring playlists will make you want to get your overalls on. Get outside and get your hands in the dirt.

You can get the stuff you should know, think spring playlists on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I became a millionaire overnight, but lost everything that actually mattered. Wait a minute, Sophia, did you just say he lost everything? That's right, it's an aridine too much drama week on the okay story time podcast,

so we'll find out soon. This person writes, I just inherited a fortune after losing my mom, and now my girlfriend's entire family is coming out of nowhere with their hands up. One sibling wants me to fund their whole lifestyle. Another vanished for four years and suddenly reappeared,

and my girlfriend is already giving my money away. Hold on, Sophia, so the girl he wants to marry is already sending money out the door. And that's just the beginning.

He makes a plan, sets up a trust, and finally thinks he has everything under control.

Okay, so things work out then? Let's just say the people he trusted the most are the ones who ended up shocking him the most.

“To just the money end up being worth going through all that?”

To find out, listen to the okay story time podcast on the IR radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Doree revealed status of her home on what would happens live. Mortgage is in page, she found out about a few weeks ago before everyone else did. She says PK is in charge of those finances.

She plans to put the house on the market and get a new home. Larissa commented on the clip on Insta. We're all housewives of Miami mortgages are up to date. Why didn't she say that? Do they not get along? No, I think she was just saying like because their show is canceled.

But she's like we can all pay our bills. I was kind of shady shit. And I don't even know what you said. But I saw a little clip the other day and you got hell and I didn't. I was so excited. Something in the middle of the day.

No, what is the end trouble for now? I have cancer. But I can't remember either. But this is why my curious about. So it reveals that she's the mortgage is in page.

And she found out a few weeks ago before everyone else did. If they have a mediator, then this stuff is being mediated. I haven't been divorced and so like I don't. It's not like, you know, it fresh in my mind. Explain it to me, Teddy.

Okay, so when you tell me like, I can understand her not knowing. I can understand her not knowing how do you know if it's better not. Well, you would assume if you're not doing your research. What's going to happen is that other person isn't going to be paying your bills. Just for shits and giggles.

But so the way a mediation works is mediation is the way to kind of close out a divorce without having to go to court. Right, it's it's hopefully you could do it that way. Yeah, I know. So remember how to read all of a sudden said that she had a meeting with mediation and all of a sudden her kids could go with PK every other weekend. Yeah.

Okay, so the same thing goes for the financial aspect. Maybe they didn't have that meeting yet.

But don't you think that's the first meeting you have when you don't know if you're anybody's paying for your living expenses?

“I mean, like, I don't know. I think it would be more important to get the kids straight down before the the can't we do it all in one meeting.”

Well, one would think you could do it all in one meeting except for the fact that I think these two were fighting during that. So they'd probably just were trying to get that out of the way as soon as possible. Well, her attorney should be on top of that. That's who I think. But also who does their bills. Do you think that PK sits around with like a piece of paper and like an old school checkbook writing checks further mortgage?

You do it online. Right, but I can't imagine him doing that. So they've had like the same assistant for like. Oh, they have an assistant that's like 15 years, but why not give drew to head up like this hasn't been paid. And why wouldn't you ask? Well, maybe she knew when she didn't want to say she's saying she just found out a few weeks.

So go. Who wants to ask a stupid question like that?

And she would assume that especially since she lives there with her kids that it would be taking care of.

See, I wouldn't assume that. But most women would, especially somebody who is it hasn't been on top of the finances.

“Well, I think it's one of those things that she just as long as she.”

She is able to kind of scoot it under the rug. She's going to do that for as long as possible. But I think we've heard a piece had financial troubles on and off for years. And yet she has this beautiful home that she loves with her kids in it. And she didn't think for a second.

Should I find out if I'm paying for this or him? Yes. Because she didn't want it out. Yes, she should have done that, but it's an uncomfortable thing to do. It's not an easy thing to do.

It's the last thing a woman wants to do in that position. Especially when she doesn't have the money to pay it. And it's almost like ignorance is bliss. I just hope he's doing the right thing. I don't have it in me right now to go after that.

And that's where you pay people for like an attorney and assistant. Got it. And I just couldn't imagine not knowing if your bills were getting paid. I was that girl. So I get it. Oh, you did. So you had no idea. Nope. Nope.

I was not educated.

I never balanced a checkbook.

I worked for jobs. One Frank met me. I'd never even been on a plane. Money to me was you get paid. You pay your bills.

That's it. When I got married, I left everything to him. He was an attorney educated. That's it. You cannot do that.

I don't care. Guys, if your husband is the smartest man in the world,

“you need to be on top of your own finances and know,”

especially during a divorce. Yeah, and I mean, Edwin and I have separate finances. But it's so scary, Teddy. I'm not going to hold it against her. I'm not going to do it.

I know it's stupid. But I know it's so uncomfortable that you're just trying to survive every day. And raise your kids and get through the day and work. We'll speak in a financial issues. LVP puts Tom Tom up for sale.

Why? It says Tom Tom and assets from pump are included in the listing. This means a potential buyer would be getting an entire built in brand. This includes property, social media accounts, furniture, equipment, etc. So if you want Tom Tom, you can have it.

Just go get it. How much are that? Is it up for? Do we know? No, I don't think we know.

But who wants Tom Tom? I feel like there's a curse on that place. Yeah, I mean, I don't. I wouldn't want it. I wouldn't want any business like that.

It seems like scary to me. Yeah, I wouldn't want any business like that either. But it just shows. So what did the Tom's get their 5% pack?

“Or did they get, they don't get that back until after it's sold?”

After it's sold, of course, I think. I don't know. But good luck to them selling it because it's not easy to sell things these days. It is not. No.

And what's it worth? And what are they going to get out of it? And if they're selling it clearly, it's not making a ton of money. Right. So what's 5% or nothing is nothing?

Yeah. And then now we've got to get into secret lives of warm and wives. So much is how it feels like it's been a full-time job for me. Keeping track of what's going on with this. So much.

So Jessie's husband files for divorce. What's going on? How brilliant to file for divorce on the same day that everything goes down with. Taylor. Do you think that was planned or clear?

Yes. Of course. I forgot who it was. But there was a housewife that like. Filed for divorce on the day of like election day or something.

Like you always want to like be pushed to the bottom of the things people talk about.

Well, this isn't pushed to the bottom. Now we have it up at the top. But I think we're the only ones that have it up at the top. Just because Jordan circle had drives us nuts. Okay.

Well. But Jordan went to Utah court last Thursday. Filed for divorce after five years of marriage. They have a son and daughter together. I think we saw the writing on the wall.

I know, but I feel bad to see. I really hate to see. I hope it's an amicable. And everybody's nice. I think that all of these guys are going to be really heartbroken that they're going to have

to come up with a new name other than dad talk.

Dad talk.

“Because they're not like now none of them are together.”

Not not one of them.

Not like except for a show that's cursed.

Yeah. Because we've got Whitney. But she's in New York. I doubt she's coming back. And then we've got Jenna like who supposedly coming to do Orange County more men wives.

Okay. Do me doesn't show up anymore. They just sew the empty couch. But do me also have her moment of saying, told yourself. Isn't that a nice moment?

Such a nice moment. But it's so sad this whole thing. It really is. I hate especially kids are involved. And it's the breakup of a family.

Yeah. That's not a good headline. It's a real shit headline.

Well now I've seen so many sides of this because, okay.

So do you want some mission about bad joy? Taylor is allegedly lowering lawyer. Right. After ABC Disney blamed the researches video for canceling her season. Even though they already knew about it when they cast it her.

There's nothing in the video that isn't in public records. Sounds like the video is just an easy way out. The real issue was her season was just not good. She will not lose any money though because they knew what they were signing up for, and she followed her contract.

So that's with them. Yeah. That's what they want said. Do you think that's true? That it was such a bad season that they wanted to.

I don't think ABC wanted this out there. Yeah. I really don't. I think it was a toxic season. But I think.

I mean, yes. Every single thing that we saw on that video was said in the paperwork from the last time. She was arrested. But so it doesn't make sense that. But seeing it and hearing it are two different things.

Oh, yeah. Seeing it and hearing it are two different things.

“And do you think Dakota is the one that released it?”

Because TMZ said that. It was an individual source. It's like didn't come from the courts. Well, if we go all the way down and what, you know, when we talk about Dakota's ex-wife's closest friend and what she says,

then I want you to think about that and we'll go back to this question. Yeah. We think Dakota, after what we read with the ex-wife sense. Yeah. The ex-wife's closest friend speaks out.

Dakota was abusive creepy and weird toward my friend from the get go. Extremely jealous, paranoid and controlling. Just like he acts on the show. I vividly remember him becoming unhinged.

At my friend because she wanted to Sunday, the third friend's in a bikini.

I could see all the signs of abusive relationship. Their marriage ended when she found him. Heading his heroin on an aluminum foil in the bathroom. Well, it doesn't sound like Dakota is an altar boy here. No, that's not.

But Dakota's living his best life posting all over the Graham, doing TikToks, like doing like now just be quiet. He seems like he's very happy that this video got out. Do you think he's happy that the video got out? Because now him and Taylor Frankie Paul's husband, ex-husband,

are aligned and trying to get custody of the kids. Or do you think he just didn't want her to have any fame without him? Well, if he, let's, well, let's, I mean, did you see that Taylor temporarily lost custody of her son? Yeah, that's like, but why take the, I mean,

I understand that taking the child out of about environment, but everybody knew about this environment three years ago, but now you're taking the baby away. There's a lot of damage done in between now. Because something has happened.

I'm telling you. I don't know what it is, but something has happened between when she left the bachelor at and when. Yeah, I feel like there was another big blow up fight. And I feel like he probably got a video of that as well.

There was another altercation. And I think she broke parole. All right. So, I mean, this is all me making it up. You mean probation.

Yeah, she broke probation.

“And I think that that's what caused all this disparate.”

Because ABC already knew all this happened. We all knew it happened. The fact that somebody would pay big. And how much she's think to code and made to release that video? I mean, I have no idea.

I don't know that they allegedly that there was money allegedly. He was paid by it. But we don't know if he did it. We don't know. We don't know.

This is all alleged. Well, by the way, a lot of people had that video. Not really. They said not really. They said the court's and the dad. And the dad sent it to every fucking body he knows.

No, I bet the dad held onto it till now. You think so to try to. I think until she became the bachelor. I'd he thought for sure. They were going to get back together.

Well, he thought that because the night before she left. She slept with him. Yeah. I mean, no matter what, this is a talk. He didn't want to get back.

So he wanted her back after that's not the first incident that wasn't the last incident.

And he wanted her back. You know what, guys? Fuck all of you because they are kids involved. And this violence and the damage that's happening is discussing for those kids. But the thing that I find as hard is like there's no way that this is a shock to ABC.

Because I even watched the Vio files when Taylor Frankie Paul was on. And she's hysterically crying. And she tells the entire story that she picks up that like she lays it out for you. Oh, right. What did she say?

Because I didn't watch it. She's like, I picked up, you know, the barstools. And I was throwing them. And I didn't think my son was there. But he, well, I mean, my daughter was there.

But she was, I thought she was upstairs with the babysitter.

Um, I was emotionally just broken at that point in time.

And I had a miscarriage. She said she had a miscarriage. And then she had had a chemical pregnancy. And she just was in a really, really bad. There's no excuses for what happened happening.

There's no excuses.

“I think there's like, so you think that he.”

Pokes her buttons. And I mean, pushes her button. Like, instigates her and plays on her to get that way. And a lot of women are saying that by the way. Somebody said, you know, like, if this was a man.

And then they named that like 20 different men who remained on television shows after being accused, or even arrested for the same type of behavior. Well, Jason McKayla Matthews has been response to a DM. And he says, I don't support anyone who physically abuses their children. I don't give a fuck who it is or why and neither should you. And there is loads more we found out about.

Now, Jason's talking now. That's about Taylor's. Yeah. That's about Taylor. So there's loads more.

You know what? Shame on everyone who knew that these kids were not in a good environment. Shame on anybody close to her that knew that this caused a whole violent relationship. And there's kids involved. Shame on anybody who pushed for them to film together.

That invited Dakota to film these things. Dakota's only on the show because people kept inviting him to go.

“And you have to remember this happened at the beginning of season one.”

And so that happened since that. Yeah, a lot has happened since then. But I mean, yes, you know, may see from the beginning is that how talks at the relationship is. And, you know, she was in a toxic relationship herself. And she's talked about it before it's in her book.

But she, she has been dead set the entire time on like this is not okay. He's talking to us. No one listens. No one listens. The right people don't listen.

And the little people get hurt. Yeah. This is my problem here. I know. And but what do you think's going to happen now?

Do you think they're going to, is she going to be off Mormon wives? I think she's going to be off Mormon wives. And I think that. We're going to hear more about what happens.

Like maybe things happened with the kids, which I never want to hear.

I don't want to know. I hope it's all wrong. I don't. It's going to kill me. I lose sleep over kids and dogs.

Let me tell you right the fuck now. No, when you could hear her daughter crying. She's five years old. She's going to remember. I could tell you what happened in my house when I was five years old.

Yeah. And you know what? It really, really. It takes its toll on these kids for the rest of their lives.

“I remember the fights my parents used to get in.”

Like it's just that and how alone and. And now when when you've got two parents. So now we've got both dads who are coming against Taylor. So now the alienation's going to come in too. The parental alienation.

Right. Exactly. But you know, you're also coming in now because it's public. Her daughter's five years old. A lot of things God forbid could have happened to her in five years.

And a lot of damage has been done from that one fight alone that we saw.

Thousands fights we didn't see.

What that little. We're bothered by what we saw. We didn't live it. We weren't in the room. It's not our mother.

It's not an experience. We personally had. She's a child. We're watching a little girl watch that makes me fucking sick. Yeah.

It really does. It really does. And I just I can't. I can't believe that. They just kept on going after.

We already knew this happened. Yeah. So I can't believe that ABC went that far to cast her. And. Do all of this like that to me that's.

And they knew what you're saying. They knew about it. Yeah. They knew about it. The beginning of season.

Well, the beginning of season one is Taylor Frankie Paul getting arrested. Well, you know.

“I think this sets a precedent now that maybe they're not going to hire people who.”

I think this because they've lost a lot of money now. Yeah. What is it? $100 million. $50 million.

What is it? $100 million. $100 million. But then also all the ad revenue. That.

Think about all the ad revenues. I think about that. And then think about all the production people that are lost their job. Because I guarantee they weren't done editing that season yet. So think about the producers get a job.

And they think it's going to last throughout to the shows over, right? Well, don't they have to pay them out for their contracts? I don't think so. Because the show's all the way around.

Well, now finally that this is all happened.

Maybe people will check in and see what's going on with the kids. Yeah. Maybe people will check in and see what's happening with the kids. But then I also it makes me nervous about her son being with Dakota too. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Because there was something about Dakota's face when I was watching that video.

“Like, I think that's why I'm going on for a very long time.”

And it was like, he knew exactly what to do. Yeah. There. How about put the phone down or call the cops. So maybe show stop, which he finally did.

Yeah. I mean, I think there was even the neighbor that called the cops. I take the daughter. Out of the earth. Remove yourself.

So it stops. How about that? Yeah. Remove yourself. The new fight.

Apparently they're getting to a fight. He leaves. And then the next night he comes back again. Was he trying to leave? And she was standing in front of the door.

Throwing the stool. That was he trying to leave? I think that's what's happening. Yeah. I think I don't want to say too much against.

Anybody here because I don't know the full details. And it's just like everybody's human. Couples get in fights. We do things in front of our kids. We wish we never did.

We say things in front of our kids. We wish we never did. We're all human. But to have it happen all the time. To not correct what's making you guys act like that in front of your kids.

Now you're wrong. Yeah. And to keep putting each other in each other's faces. That's the thing. That's the thing.

You know when cops show up to a domestic violence. That's the most dangerous call for a police officer. Did you know that? No. Yeah.

It is. That's when the family you're there to help the woman who's getting beat up or the man. And that person now turned. Now the person who you're helping turns on you. And it's just it's just a vicious cycle.

It is really a vicious cycle. So maybe people have tried to help. And they, you know, turned on them. Who knows? Who knows?

What we do know though is it has to stop and those kids now need help. And they all need help. They all need help. They all need help. They all need help.

There be.

“And I think that, you know, Taylor Frankie Paul has been telling us for a long time.”

How much she's been struggling. Well, people need to listen when somebody says that. Yeah.

Remember when she went to a mental health place because she, she didn't start filming for the first two weeks.

Because she went to the mental health place. I don't know. No. Yeah. So I mean, it's just all, it's all a lot.

And then, I mean, we're still going to be recapping the rest of the season. But I've noticed that they keep dropping more and more little blurbs from this season of the Bachelor at. So it's canceled or it's not.

But we keep seeing like trailers. Different trailers. And so that's a little weird. Yeah, it's not. I keep seeing different ones.

Because there's been a girls trip that was canceled.

We never saw a trailer from there.

We never heard nothing. So I'm nothing. Nothing. Nothing. Nothing.

Not even a peak that from that ultimate girls trip. Right. So that's why I'm confused. Is it really canceled? Are they kind of waiting to see if the crowd wants about?

A lot of people are like, show it. Eric, I want to see it anyway.

“Well, I think the only way you could do that is why I'm doing it as a paid programming.”

If you're sick enough that you want to watch it, then you have to pay. I don't know. Whatever company. And it's to watch it. But I mean, I think ABC needs to stick to what they know.

And what it's worth for them for a lot of years. Right. Okay. Well, you know, time will tell. I just hope everybody gets to help that they need here.

I know. Me too. And kids first. Remember that guy's kids first. And check your finances, guys.

Find out if your bills are getting paid. Oh, yeah. Don't trust. Don't trust anybody with your money.

“I don't care if your husband's Prince fucking charming.”

And I don't care if your wife is like the the most perfect wife check every as a couple finances should be done together. Yeah. You should know that.

And only you, you, you can never look back and say, I wish I knew what I did it.

No. Yeah. Sure. And it's too late. And then you got to uproot your family and figure it out.

Or go to jail. We have someone that happens to. Yeah. Well, thanks guys for tuning in for another episode of Two Tuesdays and a pod. We're back later with this week to talk about all the new shows coming out.

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